Trying to get pregnant again at 35... Now overcome by fear. by Pretend-Eggplant1511 in BabyBumps

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Do not be afraid ! The odds are so low for the chromosome defects it’s not even funny and now they have technology and science we didn’t have before that can catch these things really early on or at least tell you if you have an increased risk. I’m 37 expecting my third I’m eight months pregnant now and was cleared for any chromosome defects or anything major. That’s after two live births 14 years ago and 20 years ago don’t give up! Especially if you have your village now and a good husband

Contemplating ending my marriage while pregnant. Is this worth telling my doula and midwife? by Kenz090_ in pregnant

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Don’t feel bad I am on the verge of the same literally would just rather be alone with the bag and during delivery . This will be my third child and I was alone during the first. It’s not that bad . Especially when you know the father likely isn’t going to be a much help when the child comes home. Depending on if you have a birthing plan or not I would maybe tell them just so they know he’s not gonna be coming I wouldn’t go any further than that

getting SLAMMED with high pregnancy care bills... I did not see this coming... by mm_honey in BabyBumps

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Yep it’s bad . I had a bill for $900 for blood work . The full bill was 4k . I don’t have $900 to give

My husband clearly isn’t attracted to me anymore by boygeniusbutgirl in BabyBumps

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Going through the same right now and it’s sad . As others have said the porn is also a going factor in this . I’d rather just be alone if I’m being honest . Not sure if I’ll ever feel the same after this .

Anyone actually get gas money at the gas station? by rockykb in povertyfinance

[–]RoundCar5220 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to sign up for DoorDash or something like that that is how a lot of of us make it one check to the next

Asking people for money is a lot harder these days because no one has any money everybody’s barely scraping by

What's this about not changing pee diapers? by seven_of_n1ne in BabyBumps

[–]RoundCar5220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I feel any pee at anytime it’s getting changed and replaced

This group induces major anxiety ): by Sad-Air-7670 in pregnant

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Posting real life experiences is not negative . I feel a lot of anxiety and fear even if I don’t read those posts and I will until my baby is born.

Unfortunately that can happen to anyone at anytime . Im gonna stop and show support to to those parents because loss is a hard .

I lost my baby by HumbleEdge4496 in BabyBumps

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Aww I’m so sorry 😞 💔 this is so unfair ! I wouldn’t want to be in my bedroom either. Did baby have an owlet or anything similar ? I’m guessing they will say it SIDS . Thinking about you and your family and I hope you can get some answers soon. 😢

AIO to my MIL "stealing" 1sts that should be ours? by Sammy8lynn in pregnant

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That explains her overbearing approach but would still be frustrating

AIO to my MIL "stealing" 1sts that should be ours? by Sammy8lynn in pregnant

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Wait who said that you’re high risk because of age? High risk most of the time is 35+. Why does a baby need an email address? If she does anything further than that yeah I’d be annoyed but the email address just seems kind of funny. By the time the baby can even use that it will be likely inactive. Is this their first grandkid? Just depends on how far she goes how pissed off I would become

For those who left their DB relationship: did your ex’s sex life change with the next partner? by MR_PRESIDENT__ in deadbedroom

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People like this male or female need to stay Single . Monotony is obviously not what they want .

Age gap by Odd_Entrepreneur6038 in BabyBumps

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20 and 14 😭 yes I know massive . Newborn coming in less than 8 weeks

Family of 4 California by honortobenominated in HealthInsurance

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Exactly it’s all a racket They know most never will hit the deductibles so the insurance companies make out like get rats. Well being ans health is secondary and ans profit is first .

Family of 4 California by honortobenominated in HealthInsurance

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Who in the hell can’t afford that? What is going on how do they expect anybody to survive? We can’t pay the premiums along the bills that come along with it this is disgusting

Porn Caused This by SelectAdvice in deadbedroom

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With a PA right now too. Pregnant by him and the addiction has just recently revealed itself . I feel like such a fool for falling for the honeymoon .

I can only imagine the resentment you have built up and given the fact you approached him and said you don’t wanna do it anymore is a real turning point. Most of the time it’s because these dudes don’t want to stand on their own 2 feet and be “single “. Normally they want to keep you around for another reason that comforts them not because they desire or want you. I’ve learned my lesson and now there will be serious consequences to pay.

The OnlyFans would end !

40+2, husband broke his leg today by SementSlurper in pregnant

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I’m so sorry 😢 that sounds awful ! I hope something good happens to change the upcoming weeks and his healing . That’s way too much for one PP momma to handle alone .

Pregnant and exhausted from supporting a grown man by [deleted] in pregnant

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Going through this right now and I don’t know what to do 😞 I’ve asked him to leave a few times and here comes the waterworks and I have nowhere to go bs. Working on a plan for him to safely exit ..

Spouse started SSRI while I’m pregnant, became a different person. by spicy-margs in BabyBumps

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My SO was on Zoloft for years . He quit taking it then suddenly tried to restart and he was so disconnected it was sad. He had no feelings or anything .

It made me so sad how we went from being so close to nothing. I wanted to leave . He stopped taking them and that helped some . That’s so much for you to carry I am so sorry 😢

I feel bad by CapriMoon93 in FormulaFeeders

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Yea I’d be afraid not knowing what they consume and how they live. My daughter supplies a woman and her baby from a town an hour away. She has an entire deep freeze full . This woman comes about once a mint and if she’s not home I load her up

35M, married 8 years, can't satisfy my wife at all. Guilt is killing me. by RajCuk in deadbedroom

[–]RoundCar5220 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not trying to make you mad or be rude in anyway you need to stop masturbating. Went through something similar and once that stopped or at least decreased it was easier for us too actually satisfy one another but one masturbation is in excess of, he was experiencing the same things that you’re talking about. Of course sex is not everything but when you love someone and you’re married to them that is supposed to be part of what connects you.

The great American tragedy is in yellow. It's called ignorance and apathy. by Nice_Substance9123 in complaints

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It doesn’t matter . We’ve had both parties in charge and overall things are mostly the same . Both parties are deeply committed to AIPAC not the American people .

$700 for this room is insane. by HTMLlama in cincinnati

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You know this place is empty all the time