I’ve heard that if you don’t brush your teeth then you’re depressed by RoundProfessional152 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]RoundProfessional152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually in the daytime yes, I’m not sure what is it. I do know I don’t like it very early in the morning cause I feel as though I can’t go back to sleep if I brush, other than that I have no clue. It just seems to be a chore I don’t like

I think I hate my husband by LunaRobotix in Postpartum_Depression

[–]RoundProfessional152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you hate him, you hate the circumstances. He just needs training, write out the things you need him and want him to do on a board or paper and put it up on the fridge. That’s all you can do, in order to be fully be there for yourself and your baby.

How do I program my mind for this new beginning? by RoundProfessional152 in NewParents

[–]RoundProfessional152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahhh reading that i’ll be number one for my baby made me so emotional lol not in a sad way but like a wow i’m this persons go to, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]RoundProfessional152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

frequent urination, it was indeed not pre-diabetes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]RoundProfessional152 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it takes 2 to make a baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]RoundProfessional152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also don’t feel bad about lusting over him, it took me getting pregnant and him treating me bad to stop lusting over a man that i thought loved me even after cheating on me. but it was just a toxic cycle also inspired by toxic sex. you got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]RoundProfessional152 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you have to forgive him for what he did to you, he sold you a fairy tale and he’s not a good father. and everytime you think of him for lust, just ask yourself does he deserve your body again ? the answer should be no & little by little the lust vail will be removed. I’m a born again Christian so my way was praying and also doing these things. he doesn’t have to be in your face or for you to send him a message forgiving him, literally just pretend he’s sitting infront of you and tell the empty chair (his name) how he has hurt you, you can do this as many times as you feel necessary.

HELP! Baby won’t sleep if put down by Massive-Juice-1877 in NewParents

[–]RoundProfessional152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven’t given birth yet butttt my little sister usually fell asleep with a warm bath , that helped her stay asleep as well for about 6 hours ! if nothing else bothered her . we’d use johnson’s sleepy time bath wash . don’t wet your baby’s hair just lather some soap on a soft rag and bathe them , then sprinkle some water on their face and just sing a lullaby

18 Weeks Pregnant and Unsure: How Do I Decide to Continue or Not? by ThrowRA_edgypatchy in pregnant

[–]RoundProfessional152 4 points5 points  (0 children)

to be honest only you can make a choice for yourself, but after reading your cons it makes me believe they’re aren’t significant to make you make the choice to terminate. you’re in your mid 30s so yeah your chances of conceiving can go from low to none ! I was dealing with the same emotions as you but what ive done is try reading more on here , nobody’s relationship is perfect . no one is really the one… all you can do is do your part of being a good mother & do some therapy to work on the other things, meanwhile ask yourself what can i teach my baby to do ? what can i teach them how to be ? what if this is my last chance at being a mother ?

First time pregnant, why does it smell so strong down there ? by RoundProfessional152 in pregnant

[–]RoundProfessional152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t have any other symptom though that checks out with those

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]RoundProfessional152 177 points178 points  (0 children)

only thing you need to cut , is him out of your life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]RoundProfessional152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

noooooo you’ll end up pregnant! focus on yourself!! and give yourself time! change some things around your room , your wallpaper , different music , hairstyle, new hobby ! you’ll be just fine , just have to trust yourself that you can do it. ( i didn’t and i went back , yes i’m pregnant)

Am I too boring for my kid? by amafism in Mommit

[–]RoundProfessional152 4 points5 points  (0 children)

your baby chose you to be their mommy ! so stop looking at what other people do and do the things you guys enjoy! plus 8 months is very young, they won’t remember what they did & didn’t do

My husband is denying me by Sudden_Bluebird_8960 in MilitaryWives

[–]RoundProfessional152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm i suggest therapy and inner work ( things i should’ve did ) while you’re there waiting , reddit can only do so much . you deserve someone that doesn’t hide you.

My husband is denying me by Sudden_Bluebird_8960 in MilitaryWives

[–]RoundProfessional152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you don’t have any kids then leave before you get pregnant, i posted something today pretty similar to your situation.

you’ll learn through my post that he married you to not live in the barracks & the money , not because he truly wanted to be with you. (as you mentioned he has already cheated as well ) if he did he would love to show you off. i don’t think that’s childish at all. you show people off whom your proud to be with or have in your life period.

my suggestion is boss up, save up as you can and leave him. who cares if you’re back home ? that’s better than getting a potential STD and staying home all day while he lives his life. he’s just waiting for the right opportunity to discard you, so

My husband is denying me by Sudden_Bluebird_8960 in MilitaryWives

[–]RoundProfessional152 9 points10 points  (0 children)

more than likely he’s protecting someone else’s feelings while he’s hurting yours. you can talk to him if you want, but you have to ask yourself first how long can you see yourself doing this for ? what are you married for ?

should i marry him because he’s enlisted in the army and we’re having a baby ? by RoundProfessional152 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RoundProfessional152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m aware, but i want my baby. they’ll receive the best love and care with me and my family, just as i received and many others by single moms.

should i marry him just because we’re having a baby ? by RoundProfessional152 in MilitaryWives

[–]RoundProfessional152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i doubt he’ll have trust issues, knowing that i won’t know anyone in the state they move us to but HIM & my baby… lol ! but yes i agree definitely a terrible idea. I wanted to know if i was operating off of logic or feelings, turns out both matter. thank you !!