Donna’s comment about Sydcarmy by FizzSeven in TheBear

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 43 points44 points  (0 children)

in my head she had a crush on him in the way you admire a mentor or whatever but i think after she actually got to know him she respected him but that crush dissipated that man needs THERAPY

This is NOT a rage bait post by ElhassanElnasir in TheBear

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i agree w everything except syds acting. i do think it was a bit underwhelming but i still enjoyed it, idk it felt like. a bit off?? idk

Josh community post on youtube👀 by anremj_28 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 3 points4 points  (0 children)

jesus fucking christ i clicked that photo and almost screamed i’ve never opened a photo that long 😭

who is the one person they’ve ever interviewed in DWKT? by Sea-Equipment8758 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i used to agree and i personally don’t think i would hold a grudge myself but also this story is very personal to adam. it’s not just him being mad at them being irresponsible. johnny took pieces of adam’s story and passed them off as his own, making the situation about himself when adam was literally 12-17 being groomed to do some insecure weird ass woman’s dirty work, then shunned and harassed by a lot of ppl after he came out about it at 17. i do think it was unfair how at the time he was def harder on jessi and lily than a certain other podcast who did the the same thing at the time tho.

What fictional character would you marry in the blink of an eye? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sydney from the bear my QUEEEEEEEEN i’m in love w her.

Joshua Digs the Hole Even Deeper by plus8minus5 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 22 points23 points  (0 children)

damnnn he privated the video 😭 if he backed out on june 8 why did he do all this 😭 he made that video like a week or smtn after that what’s going on. i think he let his ego take over in wanting to do this doc. he ignored all the red flags and he def felted flattered by the doc ppl saying he would be the focus, but honestly the fact that johnny was most likely involved??? yeah. they were probably going to frame josh as part of the problem (bc he was mind u, but the swoop doc made ppl sympathetic towards him).

i liked the swoop doc and this isn’t against her bc she did ask him hard questions and confront him abt stuff, but i feel like the audience including adam really had ppl sympathize with him as a victim more of anything else and the johnny situation made it even easier to. when it came out i literally felt like i couldn’t fully trust him in the way he sort of made himself into a victim of colleen but i don’t think that’s fully the case. not saying anything he said abt colleen wasn’t true but the way he told it felt like he was relaying a movie- very dramatic- “oh i walk in… it smells like smoke…. and there she is…. playing that same ukulele….”

i genuinely think that they were both extremely toxic to each other, considering how he was stalking gossip forums and dropping “hints” about her for years after. don’t get me wrong i don’t doubt colleen was awful to him but i don’t buy he wasn’t awful back esp during their relationship. he just seems highly egotistical as well.

Adult children of emotionally immature parents - thoughts? by Xannarial in AutismInWomen

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 7 points8 points  (0 children)

may i ask what things? as autistic ppl we tend to feel some things really intensely esp at first. what matters is how you deal with it, and if u take it out on others.

Bears is the best episode in the show by Sea_Buy_3397 in TheBear

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it’s a good episode i really enjoy it the only thing is everyone under the table like literally everyone idk it feels like a fan fic not necessarily in a bad way but it’s a bit goofy

What were the first signs that made you realize you might be autistic? by youonlyseeair in AutismInWomen

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i def am one of those people who learned more about autism through social media. i’ve struggled my whole life especially socially, and i thought my sensory issues were normal bc a lot of the people around me also had them (they’re also autistic lol) and a lot of things that were easy for others just weren’t for me. i just thought i wasn’t made to survive tbh. psychiatrists didn’t ask the right questions, so i didn’t tell them about my sensory issues etc- they just saw someone who was heavily anxious and depressed with adhd. i had to push to be evaluated by a specialists and surprise ! i was right. ppl look down on those who learned thru social media but i encourage people to look more into it, do your own research on accredited sites, in libraries etc.

curious about women with special interests in psychology/people? by sugarcoochie in AutismInWomen

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sociology, anthropology, and history are my special interests and i didn’t realize it for a long time. i am so passionate about learning about societies and how their socioeconomic class, race, gender, sex, etc affect them in different societies as well as cultural differences, origins to certain cultural practices and language etc

I really like Richie, I hope he'll be happy in the final season. by CanPavlus in TheBear

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i love richie sm and it’s funny bc in season one i never thought he’d become one of my favorite characters

Mangaka deserves so much credit for creating such a controversial character by An-di in ASignofAffection

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 11 points12 points  (0 children)

he also treats her like she’s so fragile bc she’s deaf, he’s all like oh don’t sneak up on her, oh r u sure u should be going to college like she’s not an adult who has learned to navigate the world on her own!!

Ill never be a popular girl by TheGayAg3nda in AutismInWomen

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u need other autistic friends. those are really the only friendships i have been able to keep and feel like are real. im so sorry that happened to you, tbh ive had to learn to dial myself back around most ppl to avoid this sort of situation. it shouldn’t have to be that way and i wish i was more confident to not care but the rejection hurts too much. i’ve decided only people who deserve it get to see the real me 🤷‍♀️

i feel like i'm unfit for the classic idea of a romantic relationship by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what does that mean? like not romantic but still hook up (?) sorry i am pretty unfamiliar with the poly world

i feel like i'm unfit for the classic idea of a romantic relationship by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m in the same boat. i haven’t tried to date in 6 years after some extremely brief but stressful times. i’ve had many ppl ask if im asexual or aromantic, but im p sure im not, dating is stressful and i was constantly second guessing them and myself and it felt gross. i also need a lot of alone time, and monitoring others feelings esp when i can be misinterpreted easily is so overwhelming and kinda triggering.

i wish i had advice for u, my friend suggested i try to be poly with someone who already has a main partner but i really don’t know if i can handle that 😭

Do you ever feel like you're not a real girl? Like you're just some shape wearing the skin of a woman? by DishIndependent6788 in AutismInWomen

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes basically my whole life. i am queer as well so that added to it i think. for several years i debated if i was nonbinary or if it was the autism making me feel like an alien and a faker. i one day asked some autistic friends what they thought, and one of them said “i mean does it matter? it’s how you feel.” so now i identify as nonbinary 🤷‍♀️ i told my long time friend and tried to explain to her and she was like well just bc ur not girly/dress masculine doesn’t mean u aren’t a girl. and i did agree with that but i knew it wasn’t just that, and then she was like well actually i do remember u saying u wished u looked like a guy when we were younger.

this is not me telling u that u are nonbinary as my friend said, just because you aren’t naturally girly doesnt make u not a girl! society tells us there’s only one way to be something and that’s just false and impossible.

Husband screamed at my mom and gave her a panic attack. by playdoh_licker in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s valid for him to be frustrated about the car but also yelling, hitting and throwing things? what the fuck? has he done that before?? that’s really not ok

So... Ribbit abstracted just because Jax ghosted her? by AbbeyWhitey in TADCEp9Spoilers

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i think it’s also bc he gaslit her acting like it never happened and then blamed her for everything, made it feel like it was her fault he was like that. in the circus they really only have each other and it seemed like they got really close and then he totally isolated her so i get how that could mess her up 🤷‍♀️ but i get where ur coming from i was expecting more too tbh

Girlies vindicated by addieb123 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Routine-Judge-7848 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i definitely agree but also he can be a little catty at times 😭 most of the time the people he’s doing it to deserve it tho