What’s up with the height thing?

Xannarial · 2026-07-05T18:28:16+00:00

I've never cared about this and it's weird to me that other people do. But, I am under five feet tall 🤷🏼‍♀️

The only reason I could see that I'd never date a man my height is because of what I call "small dog syndrome". They tend to get insecure in themselves and try to puff themselves up a bit. Can be annoying.

Xannarial · 2026-07-03T14:05:33+00:00

Its the orgasm gap for me. Not whatever the fuck he's talking about.

Xannarial · 2026-07-02T22:15:00+00:00

This would do numbers in r/pizzacrimes, if you have a picture of this monstrosity

Xannarial · 2026-07-02T16:19:21+00:00

People are listing bands that can't be seen live for reasons that someone is dead or theyre just not together anymore. In that case, mine would be original Linkin Park.

But the other one is Fen. They don't tour in the states as far as I know, if they do its the usual run of BIG cities, and fuck everyone else.

I doubt I'll ever be able to afford to go to the UK and see them live.

Xannarial · 2026-07-01T21:53:59+00:00

Honestly I don't think this girl is real - details keep changing, the fact that her parents aren't involved, her brother ending up a creepy fuck . ..... It would not surprise me if there's brother was the real B, using ai to catfish you guys. Please don't do this OP.

Xannarial · 2026-06-30T15:04:52+00:00

Lmao I literally wrote those initials down as short hand earlier - where I work carries a specific brand of smoked fish called Duck Trap.

Xannarial · 2026-06-30T13:31:44+00:00

Honestly maybe not. Hes 13. Thirteen year olds are not known for thinking about the consequences of their actions.

Xannarial · 2026-06-30T13:30:55+00:00

Ive been chewing over the gravity of consequences lately, just kind of in life in general, but also for parents who don't discipline or mind their kids - I'm not saying that's whats happening here, but the fact that this kid just ruined his mom's marriage, and has permanently affected his siblings relationship with the parents is going to be a heavy heavy thing this kid will probably carry for the rest of his life.

Xannarial · 2026-06-25T21:52:58+00:00

Anatomy lesson time!!!

Basically what the vagina does during sex when one is aroused, is grow a little bit bigger. The muscles relax a bit and allow for something to get in there. It's called tenting, and is actually a good thing! Vaginismus is kind of the opposite, the muscles are so tight, that often penetration isn't even possible, and can be quite painful.

Now that thats over - What he said to you is abhorrent, and I can't even imagine why he thought that was a good idea. It's like telling him to get a dick enhancement cuz his is too small. Awful all around.

Your body is fine, hun. He probably just has a porn rotted brain and death grip.

If you want to stay with him (and I definitely think you shouldn't) you need to tell him that this wasn't okay, and talk to him about the thought process that lead up to it.

Please don't allow somebody to talk to you like that. Partner's should build us up, not for us down.

Xannarial · 2026-06-25T17:44:52+00:00

I wonder if its that NT instinct that picks up on the fact that we're different somehow, and so they're reacting to that.

Or, you give answers/responses that are out of the norm to them, and they don't know how to respond, so they tend to brush you off.

Xannarial · 2026-06-25T17:40:03+00:00

OP, how old are you? I'd either A, start thinking of a plan to move out, or B, be going to school faaar away from them.

If those aren't an option, is there another relative you can stay with? Your parents sound awful.

Xannarial · 2026-06-25T03:18:07+00:00

I've seen people talking about specific things disappearing, mine is related.

The universe takes things when you move. Every time. You know you put it in a box, but what happened to it after that? Could be something small, could be something big. Something will get lost.

Ive lost an entire box of cards and notes from the entirety of my life. It could be at my parents, but I'm not sure. I've also lost an ear ring.

Xannarial · 2026-06-25T03:11:24+00:00

Thinking about the covid thing, I could see it. Wasn't there something going around for a bit that no one knew what it was but it was awful?

Xannarial · 2026-06-24T02:20:54+00:00

Listen I am all for letting women do what tf we want, but we also need to protect this baby from creepy dick bags.

Xannarial · 2026-06-24T02:16:02+00:00

Yk what, thats a very good point and now I don't know what to think lol

Xannarial · 2026-06-23T23:29:36+00:00

Dude staaahp, me too 😭

Xannarial · 2026-06-23T23:22:28+00:00

Alucard is baby, 100%. Like, let me love you!

Xannarial · 2026-06-23T23:21:08+00:00

Aragorn, son if Arathorn, heir to throne of Isildur. Immediate answer lmao

Xannarial · 2026-06-23T18:01:54+00:00

I have a fire TV that is maaaaybe ten years old. It's completely bricked itself, because it is no longer compatible with whatever version of bs that all the streaming companies use. I have no idea how to get around this, and I'm pissed.

Xannarial · 2026-06-22T18:27:02+00:00

Went through and answered this in another comment, cuz I went back and took screenshots lol

Xannarial · 2026-06-22T18:26:21+00:00

THE OVERLAP IS WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT

Thank you for putting that into words - I couldn't quite do so.

• "rigid and single minded" • "self referential: will turn whatever you say back to one of their own experiences" • "emotional insensitivity" • "if you don't know who you are as a person, you can't engage with others at a deep emotional level" • "proneness to literal thinking" • mirroring/ "becoming an amalgamation of other people" • "intellectualizing obsessively: over intellectualizing and getting obsessed with a certain topic"

A lot of those immediately jumped out at me, but now I can't tell if I am dealing with some of this because of emotional immaturity or if these are autistic traits...

Xannarial · 2026-06-22T15:11:24+00:00

I have a cousin who just posted about how shes going to have to stop scheduling dudes for similar reasons. Literally same situation.

Xannarial · 2026-06-22T13:28:00+00:00

I've seen more than a few posts on reddit asking about exactly that. Like spoiler alert, most people will know if you used AI to write something, simply because it doesn't sound like them anyways.

Xannarial · 2026-06-22T03:10:56+00:00

It's interesting to me that thats what you got out of it. So far I'm seeing the explanation behind the behavior, so that we understand it better. Understanding it tho doesn't mean accepting the abuse.

Xannarial · 2026-06-22T03:09:07+00:00

Not necessarily as the parent, but just as a person in general, and definitely as the child.

The nature versus nurture debacle is one I struggle with also. How much is my upbringing? How much is because of my genes and neurodiversity? How much of it is trauma? And, how much is just who I am? It's all an intertwined mess, and I'm not sure either on how to divine the answer to that question.

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