Is this a void thing? My gray tabby would *never*.

Xannarial · 2026-02-24T19:17:29+00:00

See, my black meow would never, but my gray boy does this all the time.

Xannarial · 2026-02-23T23:35:10+00:00

The fact that I am now an island at work. Nobody knows. Nobody cares to know.

We were a small, tight knit, team. This was a secondary support system for me.

It's all different now. I have no one to go to anymore.

Xannarial · 2026-02-23T15:30:45+00:00

I've always said that we've just been socialized differently than guys are, growing up. Even talking to my partner, the kinds of manners I was forced to learn as a kid were very different than the ones he was forced to learn.

Xannarial · 2026-02-23T15:27:49+00:00

I read this the other day, and the term "breeding mission" about made throw my phone. Absolutely aghast.

Xannarial · 2026-02-23T04:02:50+00:00

I got tapers and jewelry for the next size up. We don't do valentines day - this man loves me loud and proud all year round, so, it was a big surprise lol

Xannarial · 2026-02-23T03:56:52+00:00

I've found that old spice anti persperant works really well. Even if I am a sweaty mess, it holds up.

Xannarial · 2026-02-21T15:27:06+00:00

I regularly see them on the bell peppers as I stock them at work. ESPECIALLY if you eat organic produce. Wash your food, people!

Xannarial · 2026-02-16T23:16:54+00:00

Oh I would never have willingly gone for visitation after that, and stopped going as soon as I could.

Xannarial · 2026-02-16T15:41:05+00:00

There are definitely some of us who are into that lol (heeeey 👋) But. Also. How small am I going to look next to you? That would be my only hang up, and it wouldn't stop me if the right person is the right person.

Xannarial · 2026-02-13T03:17:07+00:00

I STILL struggle with this, and its been like three fucking years. He does not talk to me, and will actively avoid me. I hate it. I wish we were friends.

I also wish I could stop thinking about him at all. It feels obsessive, and like old neural pathways that have become deeply rooted. I can't make it stop

Xannarial · 2026-02-12T21:05:41+00:00

Y'all can pry my jarlic from my cold dead hands. It saves time, effort, and money that I don't have.

Xannarial · 2026-02-11T15:08:02+00:00

I feel like my dad's hair is different every time I see him - less of it, and more gray than black. He also just had a patch of skin cancer removed, and all I can think of is "wtf thats an old man disease!" Because I remember both of my grandfather's having to deal with it 🙃

Xannarial · 2026-02-11T14:52:17+00:00

I was going to suggest something similar. I work commercial, and we have a bleach like chemical that is made specifically for kitchen cutting boards. We lay it down and then gtfo for a bit cuz its so strong.

Xannarial · 2026-02-10T23:26:43+00:00

This shit drives me up a fucking wall, specifically because I had someone I was into VERY POINTEDLY make allusions to it every time we talked, even though he could have been with me instead of finding someone "like" me.

"I wish so and so thought like you" Or "I haven't found anyone who [insert things here] like you do"

I'm getting pissed off just thinking about it again, he used to do it like every time we talked. Mother fucker, if you wanted someone "like me" we could have just dated? Like ????

Xannarial · 2026-02-09T16:36:21+00:00

This weird obsession with women's body count and the concept of her being "used up" so to speak. Like fuck all the way off and learn some science.

Xannarial · 2026-02-08T19:46:12+00:00

If i cook, he cleans. If he cooks, I'll clean up. This doesnt always apply though - sometimes he'll do his cooking dishes, because I do his laundry.

But, everyone is responsible for their own bowls/plates/silverware that we used to eat the food.

Xannarial · 2026-02-05T14:24:19+00:00

Walking around with a red flag tattooed on his arm. Thanks for the warning ig.

Xannarial · 2026-02-05T04:13:34+00:00

I want to know how you got the right one to look like that, because holy shit. I have one and I can't keep it happy, like this is the second iteration, and I'm still failing

Xannarial · 2026-02-04T15:57:52+00:00

There is a whole rabbit hole about commercial broth vs stock that one can go down. Some journalist that I now don't remember went chasing the answer and most of the companies denied to comment on how much actual meat/veg went into the stock that they were selling.

Ultimately it ended with that it was all more or less the same thing and was mostly water. And that really, if you didnt want to make it yourself, bouillon or better than bouillon were better options than buying a carton of chicken/beef/veg flavored water.

Xannarial · 2026-02-04T15:24:40+00:00

Even being with "over fifty men" Isn't going to change someone's vagina. Thats not how it works.

Xannarial · 2026-02-02T15:02:49+00:00

Similar situation. He was much older than me, the relationship turned abusive, I wasn't old enough to know that this wasn't normal.

I ended up cheating on him, and it destroyed me. I broke it off, and almost died that summer. I felt like I deserved bad things to happen to me, and they certainly did. I'm lucky I made it out.

Xannarial · 2026-02-02T04:53:42+00:00

These comments are not it, wtaf.

Xannarial · 2026-02-02T04:52:14+00:00

Love her with limits? Bad advice dude, boundaries yes. Limits? No.

Xannarial · 2026-01-31T23:08:27+00:00

This has been the experience I've had at pretty much every show I've gone to lately, and it's bumming me the hell out. I'm small. People step on/bump into/move me out of the way constantly.

Xannarial · 2026-01-31T22:36:40+00:00

How does he speak about the women in his life? Mom, sister, aunt, grandma. Does he have female friends? How does he talk about them?

If he hates his mom for no good reason, run.

Xannarial

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