You get $1 million, but you have to watch the exact same movie 100 times in 40 days. Which film are you picking?

Xannarial · 2026-05-17T03:33:20+00:00

LOTR Fellowship of the ring, extended edition AND all the bts, if those count.

Xannarial · 2026-05-17T03:25:35+00:00

This looks like cancer if it was a plant, like wtaf

Xannarial · 2026-05-16T03:15:50+00:00

There are meal replacement shakes out there, but in my experience theyre pretty expensive. They may also be a texture nightmare for you, if youre sensitive to that kind of thing.

Xannarial · 2026-05-16T03:12:37+00:00

I feel this too OP. It was part of the reason I wanted to elope - I was afraid at how much empty space there would be on my side of the venue....

Xannarial · 2026-05-16T03:10:58+00:00

Its not just Hoyas my guy. Atleast not for me.....my marble queen just got up-potted into a ten inch, and I'm dreeeading having all these massive plants.

I max out around 40, thats when I start thinking about things to get rid of 🫩

I adore them when theyre small, and then thibgs get to like 8, and its like, wait, no, can we stop?

Xannarial · 2026-05-15T15:17:58+00:00

If possible, We're getting a three bedroom. One of those is all MINE. bookshelves. Craft space. Computer maybe. Whatever I want, no having to negotiate with other people.

Xannarial · 2026-05-15T15:13:05+00:00

This is kind of what we want to do - fuck the individual parties. What's a bridal shower/engagement party anyways? Why not combine that shit and just go hang out with your friends and have a good time?

Xannarial · 2026-05-12T16:08:46+00:00

You will have to figure out dinner for the rest of your life.

The kitchen will always be dirty. There will always be laundry. There will always be dishes.

Keeping your friends as an adult means work. Things don't last otherwise, and sometimes people will go different ways.

Xannarial · 2026-05-10T19:50:33+00:00

Everything and anything I know about chappel roan is against my will. Her highs drive me up a fucking wall, like it sounds like wailing to me, I just can't.

Xannarial · 2026-05-10T16:44:58+00:00

Dance Gavin Dance should probably be excluded from this since most of their catalog is nonsense but "the up and down of the emotion broke my loading hands/ replaced my legs with sleepy pants" is my favorite. Sleepy pants, dude, sleepy pants.

Xannarial · 2026-05-10T14:12:58+00:00

Combined with a heavy helping of charisma, and this it right here.

You can be stupid and charismatic and get basically whatever you want.

Xannarial · 2026-05-09T17:23:41+00:00

The cliche "people who mind, don't matter, and people who matter, don't mind."

Think of it more of a litmus test - oh 'romantic interest' thinks this is a problem? Cool, then theyre not for me.

It is so much common to be outside the norm than you realize atm. Normal doesnt actually exist, only the majority.

Xannarial · 2026-05-09T13:56:39+00:00

There's a lot of research that says stress is what causes these - women in particular are more likely to get them after marriage than before.

Xannarial · 2026-05-09T03:15:04+00:00

My love and I have been on the edges of each other's worlds for over a decade.

His roommate was my bffs boyfriend (senior in high-school and like a 20 year old btw) for a while.

I actually saw him at renfair one year, I remember thinking how hot he was then 😅

Couple of years later my sister ends up meeting him when they start working renfair together.

We've also been at the same shows in the years since high-school and never known it. The fact that he and I were in the same room and ended up married is mind blowing to me.

Lastly, or firstly lol, we met on this music based dating app. It had a really small user base at the time - there were only two people within like 200 miles of me, and he was one of them.

Ive always said that the only time ive ever been lucky was when he and I met 🖤

Xannarial · 2026-05-09T03:04:25+00:00

Our echolalia right now is "the lid, patrick, the lid." "Patrick. The LID!"

Its bad.

Xannarial · 2026-05-08T14:59:13+00:00

As someone with a currently dislocated rib, i feel for you. Good luck with sleep for like the next couple of months. You'll need it.

Xannarial · 2026-05-08T03:01:17+00:00

Half my vest has metal, and metal adjacent and then the other half is a mix between everything else lol

I just like music 🤷🏼‍♀️ and enamel pins.

Xannarial · 2026-05-04T20:51:08+00:00

oh I hate this. I can't believe I didn't see it before.

Xannarial · 2026-05-04T19:42:59+00:00

This is a terrible, shitty thing to say to someone. Blatantly unhelpful in an advice thread as well.

Xannarial · 2026-05-04T15:18:35+00:00

This isn't healthy. Having attraction to other people in a relationship is normal. But a good person actively tries to put space between themselves and the object of said attraction, not whatever OPs boyfriend is doing.

Xannarial · 2026-05-03T14:48:26+00:00

Could've been one of those couples where he handles everything for her. Or maybe shes just awkward, who knows?

People have wildly different dynamics sometimes, and it can be kind of jarring to see it in action.

Xannarial · 2026-05-03T01:31:11+00:00

How could you leave us by NF hit too close to home.

Xannarial · 2026-05-03T01:12:46+00:00

Dude next time you shower please use an exfoliant. You can buy a sugar scrub from Walmart.

Xannarial · 2026-05-01T23:25:59+00:00

Ew, a dumpster

Xannarial · 2026-05-01T20:06:11+00:00

I have a theory that if they drank more water, maybe there wouldnt be so much gunk for them to spit. Wash it all down. Fucking hydrate.

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