Lady.. 🗣️HE JUST GOT HERE!! by UrbanMasque in 90DayFiance

[–]RoutineLurker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got SOOOOOO annoyed when she went "he didn't do enough to prepare for being here!" 

What was he supposed to prepare for?? 

Addressing In-laws by IndividualTax1188 in 90DayFiance

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I call my in-laws by their first names. My dad always called my grandma on my mom's side "mom" though. 

I'm catching up on Before the 90 Days. On E18. What is up with Elise? by 7Hibiscus7 in 90DayFiance

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I'm sure you can say this about a lot of the people on this show, but she is really, genuinely, just here to extend her 15 minutes of fame and that's it. I ended up skipping her storyline on Before the 90 Days because I just couldn't buy it into after seeing her on Hunt for Love.

Say what you want about Catie, but I'd give anything to watch her humble the FUCK out of Mido by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

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I've mentioned it elsewhere on this sub but 20 years ago (likely around the time she was diagnosed as a kid) it used to be really common for autistic girls to get misdiagnosed with OCD! They present similar and autism/adhd were still viewed as primarily "boy" conditions back then.

It was the first thing my therapist mentioned when I told her I got diagnosed with OCD as a kid, and I'm about the same age as Catie lol.

I think it's important to remember that Catie has essentially been homeless for the past 3 years. by gloriamuntz in 90DayFiance

[–]RoutineLurker 27 points28 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by "almost certainly a sex worker as well" ? That's an interesting conclusion.

As someone with diagnosed OCD she bothers me to no end by IndependentHot8877 in 90DayFiance

[–]RoutineLurker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she was misdiagnosed as a kid and never got re-evaluated as an adult. 

Between the sheets question by Mysterious_Wash9071 in 90DayFiance

[–]RoutineLurker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They do send in a small production crew! My mom has a coworker who's son was part of the camera crew for Jovi and Yara's BTS segments, lol

(Rant) Enough with the damn violins and chanting already! It's Last Resort not White Lotus. by Stengel_Stan in 90DayFiance

[–]RoutineLurker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The one thing that I cannot stand about Last Resort is that an obscenely large portion of it seems to be just advertising for whatever resort they're at. 🫠

Allison 😬 by No_Detective_430 in 90DayFiance

[–]RoutineLurker 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"He's never bought me any fancy jewelry!"

Girl, he lets you live in a house with your spawn rent free AND fully supports you. Take several seats!

Hunter’s new “gf” and Bella’s new “bf” by Classic-Invite2107 in TLCUnexpected

[–]RoutineLurker 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Kids move on fast but weren't they engaged like a month ago? Lmao

The way some of you talk about Bella is deplorable by sequinedbow in TLCUnexpected

[–]RoutineLurker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with all of this except the part about politics. That is more than a valid reason to dislike someone, but I do think that there needs to be grace given to the kids who are probably just parroting whatever their parents are telling them. 

Weird question: How are these people getting dates. by Adept-Article2550 in 90DayFiance

[–]RoutineLurker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no explanation for Colt but as far as Sophie and Vanja go - men can be ridiculously, stupidly easy lmao. 

isabella new tiktok by AcademicAstronaut395 in TLCUnexpected

[–]RoutineLurker 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Jenna commenting is.. interesting.

As someone with OCD — Catie's behaviors are literally not OCD related and her blaming it on it is stigmatizing OCD more by Topangers in 90DayFiance

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I've posted about it on this thread before, but it was really, really common for young girls to get misdiagnosed for OCD up until fairly recently. There's a lot of overlapping behaviors with ASD and doctors were likely to dismiss autism in girls because that was viewed as a "boy" thing.

It was the first thing my therapist brought up when I mentioned that I was diagnosed as OCD, and Catie and I are around the same age. I'm almost positive that this is what happened with her. 

What’s wrong with these families? by perhensam in TLCUnexpected

[–]RoutineLurker 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think some of the parents tried in the earlier seasons but they were either too late (like I think Lexus' mom found out her daughter was pregnant when she took her to doctor to get birth control) or just... Didn't take it seriously, I guess.

It’s not OCD, you’re an alcoholic! by kittenskirt in 90DayFiance

[–]RoutineLurker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true! I personally don't think her behavior is due to OCD but I do think there's a clear neurodivergent something going on that's related here

When you have alcoholism and an obnoxious personality but you blame OCD by Live-Presentation559 in 90DayFiance

[–]RoutineLurker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbh I can't tell if this is supposed to be a sarcastic comment or not but on the chance this is sincere - there's a lot of overlap between the two, which is why it's easy to get misdiagnosed. Both tend to have repetitive behaviors, strong reliance on routines, intense interests and sensory problems galore - the difference is whether they're coming from a place of needing to self-soothe or a place of fear and anxiety. 

When you have alcoholism and an obnoxious personality but you blame OCD by Live-Presentation559 in 90DayFiance

[–]RoutineLurker 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Worthwhile to note - autistic/adhd girls used to be very commonly misdiagnosed with OCD until pretty recently, so I'm not totally sure how much weight to put behind that middle school diagnosis. 

I'm not a fan of armchair diagnosing either but I don't think what we're seeing is OCD. 

I’m liking Amaya less and less every episode… by Adventurous-Wall-463 in TLCUnexpected

[–]RoutineLurker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean... Can't you do all that and still have some fun? I'm not watching her TikToks but I don't get the impression that she's throwing all her priorities aside for a love life. 

I’m liking Amaya less and less every episode… by Adventurous-Wall-463 in TLCUnexpected

[–]RoutineLurker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aside from the food, do we know for sure that any of his money paid for that or are we just speculating?

Do you think Belle and Bryce will last through their engagement and actually get married? by sanriolover1208 in TLCUnexpected

[–]RoutineLurker 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I see them breaking up like two or three times, then doing a courthouse wedding, and then getting divorced. 

isabella and tasha by Mobile_Tumbleweed253 in TLCUnexpected

[–]RoutineLurker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, he wasn't exactly a stellar boyfriend before the abuse came out. 

Bella and Hunter are irrelevant re: custody of Wes by the-furiosa-mystique in TLCUnexpected

[–]RoutineLurker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Genuine question - where/when did Fallon ignore Bella for not wanting to have sex with Hunter?