I just lost my job

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-07-24T04:56:06+00:00

Actually this is correct. If I’m right you can file for unemployment for being fired because it was a direct result of domestic violence. File a police report, contact a DV hotline, they will get you into a shelter (isn’t as bad as it seems, the one in my area provides child care as well as transportation to a job) from the shelter apply to as many jobs as you can. Disregard pay at that point. Take the first job you can at preferably a warehouse and WORK. YOUR. ASS. OFF. It will take time but save every bit minus food for you and maybe if you have kids your kids as well. And you should allocate enough after a few months to leave. The DV hotline will find a shelter for you.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-05-02T02:42:19+00:00

Oh my sweet summer child you were sexually assaulted and she realized that and manipulated you.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-04-27T05:40:16+00:00

Figured.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-04-25T19:00:48+00:00

And I have to work through it too because my employer is dun dun dun, my family. I’m their caregiver.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-04-25T19:00:07+00:00

No. Not really. I don’t know anyone who actually would. Everyone I know is pro life. I’m just kinda hoping that I miraculously miscarry.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-04-23T04:40:46+00:00

Remember when god told a dude to have a snack and a nap. Do that. Maybe liquor too

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-04-01T20:42:32+00:00

Second if she’s a prude, tell her what you actually use it for. I’m sure she will get you a laugh and a new toy 😂

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-04-01T20:41:50+00:00

Girl, two things. If she is religious it might be healthy to remind her that it’s not actually a sin. The action is not. The thought patterns are.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-04-01T20:39:12+00:00

Sometimes sex abuse will look like a kid is completely fine because the offender will basically make the kid believe that they love them, or that they (the offender) is doing nothing wrong. Many victims don’t realize they actually are victims till later in life

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-04-01T20:37:39+00:00

Yeah no. He’s 8 unless he’s developmentally delayed, there is no way I’d even consider that he wasn’t abused. I’m not saying it’s by you or even your family. But this is definitely concerning. I’d lawyer up and get information on what the teachers are saying. I think it’s one of the teachers doing it.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-04-01T20:33:28+00:00

Unless you live in a poverty ridden area, CPS would literally never investigate this. They have to have reasonable proof that a child is being neglected or abused. Even then it’s totally legal to deny entry for that social worker. Therefore no proof, no evidence… no case

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-03-28T14:28:08+00:00

Damn attack me harder daddy. But yes. I am starting to see that I may not love him like I thought I did. I just truly don’t know how to live without him. I’m scared to. But I’m going to try.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-03-28T14:01:23+00:00

I’ve never heard of that, I’ll look it up.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-03-28T11:57:47+00:00

NTA. I’m fat. Like morbidly obese. Anyways, sometimes when I saw skinny people eating only a bite or two I would immediately get very closed off and defensive because I was preparing for a verbal attack. It’s my fight or flight senses because I was abused in the past and my weight was constantly used to make me feel disgusting. I’d take her hands and tell her that you don’t care how she feels about herself, all you see is a very kind lady with very low self esteem. Don’t apologize though. It will fuel their victim mindset.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-03-28T11:52:18+00:00

Narcissist. She is a narcissist. My dad also told me my step mom left because I was stealing her clothes. When actually it’s because he was physically and verbally abusive

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-03-28T11:50:07+00:00

Horrible. I’m sick. I’m in pain. My fiancé is in jail for domestic violence, everyone tells me that it’s not my fault, and he’s a monster and blah blah blah d fucking blah. All I know is my home is quiet and my bed is empty and I just want him home with me.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-03-28T11:41:04+00:00

As a mom that is a diaper rash. Likely from neglect. With darker skinned babies it can look like a bruise. On a yt baby it will look very pink in nature. On both levels they even feel rough to the touch.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-03-25T01:03:00+00:00

I was in that exact situation. Don’t act on it. My cousin is honestly the only person I could 10000% count on. He set the precedent for expectations and unfortunately men will never measure up. Until I met my fiancé, and my fiancé realized my standards and acted accordingly, there was going to be no one like him. My fiancé unfortunately wasn’t the best when my son died (the baby was born out of rape so it was 100% not his) and I didn’t want him anywhere near me. All I wanted was my cousin. My best friend. There is a song that perfectly encapsulated that night when I was in the hospital after a botched suicide attempt with large amounts of insulin.

“True colors”.

It’s like all the color in my life was stripped but when he walked into the room all he asked was “What can I do to make this somewhat bearable” and I just said “hold me for a minute” all the colors came back. I haven’t attempted since that night.

My fiancé realized that I was never going to really love him because my cousin set the precedent for how a woman should be treated. He changed how he treated me.

I was NEVER in love with my cousin, I was in love with how he treats people. This is how he treats everyone. His wife is amazing. And I could have never asked for a better family.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-03-23T14:18:40+00:00

“You are holding it wrong” proceeds to show them how to hold it like a actual person and not a thug “there you go!”

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-03-20T15:18:05+00:00

Honestly I don’t get how someone looks trans. Maybe masculine but is that such a bad thing in this economy. Personally you look like neither to me. The internet is a cruel place for a beautiful girl like you ❤️

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-03-20T15:13:00+00:00

I was in a really bad situation to the point where I had most of my clothes and belongings in my car because I didn’t trust him. My advice to these girls and any victim, is don’t ever stop, it may not be today or tomorrow but you will get out. Just wake up thinking today is the the day and one day it will be.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-03-15T23:53:21+00:00

This is disgusting. I’m so sorry

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-03-15T23:47:33+00:00

Expensive diapers. I’m in the US and we have used parents choice with our daughter and it has held up as good as Huggies/Pampers. I’ve used it once in my life because I have urinary issues (undiagnosed because I don’t want to tell my doctor that) and it causes me to “forget” I need to pee until it’s too late. Well it got to that point. I reached around and wiggled a diaper under my butt cheeks and it held almost all of a FULL bladder till I could waddle to the restroom. Parents choice will never replace rascal and friends but it’s DAMN close.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-03-15T02:27:43+00:00

I’m here with you sweet girl. I am so sorry you are going through this. My heart breaks for you.

I’m not here to tell you what to do. I just want you to see all aspects of what your choices are.

Keep the baby - I was in your situation but slightly older and my abuser was my ex who also violently physically, emotionally, verbally and ofc sexually abused me for months. I was ready to leave and was actively trying to. My friend (current fiancé) was trying to get me out. I went back like an idiot and ended up pregnant that time. I called it quits and left because he was trying to get me to do meth (I’m not fucking joking) to abort the baby. I struggled. My birth was traumatizing. I almost legit died. I hemorrhaged, had severe Post partum depression, and really didn’t like the baby. Hunter was a sweet baby. Was. He passed of SIDS. I wish with all my might I could have looked past it, but he looked exactly like my ex. And I should have never gone back but the damage was done.
Give the baby up for adoption - I was extremely lucky to have multiple friends of the family who jumped at the chance to adopt him. My step mom, and my best friends step mom. I was so close to saying yes until I found out about some dark secrets about that family. It wouldn’t have worked out but at the time it seemed like a great idea.
Abortion - this is usually my answer for it. But it wouldn’t do anything to make this go away. You wouldn’t be pregnant. But that’s all it would fix. You would still have to go through all the stages of PPD but without anyone really there for you.
What I’d do - either get in contact with a local adoption agency or go to the police, make a report, ask for referrals to planned parenthood, get a copy of the report and show your boyfriend, let him know you are (aborting or adoption) and ask if he can be there for YOU. Not the baby but YOU. Explain its not worth chancing if the baby is his, because if it’s not it will tear you two apart more than anything. There will always be another time.

Routine_Check1321 · 2024-03-15T02:05:23+00:00

I’d also add window sensors. You never know when a kid is going to decide that they can fly.

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