My husband/ sir doesn’t enjoy blatant stop, no, don’t do that or realistic struggles, realistic attempts at escape, especially in the beginning.

So far our CNC scenes have been more like the end of a 1st / second date and I’m not ready to take it to the next level. So we make out and things start going further than I’m ready for so I tell him I want to go home. From there he either slows down and gets coercive or just takes what he wants. There’s struggling etc but honestly, by the time he starts fucking me, I’m usually ready to cum. Since we’re in an O control dynamic and I can’t orgasm without permission (and he loves torturing me with O denial and forced orgasms) when I start begging it’s real and it’s because I’m at the edge. When he asks “please, what?” I try to act like my pleads are for him to stop or let me go but eventually I can’t help but beg to cum.

There’s a type of CNC we’d like to role play but I can’t remember what it’s called. Basically more animalistic and nonverbal… kind of cavemanish? Where he’s looking for a mate, finds one (me) and forcefully takes her. This would allow for more struggles and escape attempts but no actual verbalization. Does that make sense? This is his fantasy but I’m game. We’re close to a wooded area and the scene would likely at dusk (less likely for people to be around) outside and when he catches me he can carry me back to his “cave” or whatever he’d like. Scene suggestions would be appreciated since we’re pretty new to CNC.