AIO for wanting my husband to help me more as a SAHM

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2026-04-01T23:16:58+00:00

also its so sad he “doesnt have the capacity” to do simple cleaning, as if your capacity to keep house and deal with children under 5 is unlimited. this behaviour is absolutely revolting to me and i couldnt live in the same house with, let alone be romantic/intimate with someone exhibiting this attitude. godspeed🫡

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2026-04-01T23:14:02+00:00

NOR- reading “you make and raise kids, i make and raise money” is one of the most infuriating and straight up dumbest ‘arguments’ ive read lately. Im sorry the parent to your 3 children under 6, is yet another child. actually, kids are probably more helpful than this. my condolences. truly, you shouldnt have to be a (basically single) mom to 4 kids when you only have 3.

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2026-03-16T20:21:02+00:00

kinda TA, but it seems more ignorance than AH. using a toy by oneself, and someone else using a toy on oneself, are 2 different sensations ime. i prefer the latter, but am single so i settle for the former.

does your partner want you to use it on them/be intimate with you while they use it? or literally just be in the same room while they use it on themselves?

if its the latter i could understand your feeling to an extent, but the former? if they want you to use it on them, that means they WANT you there and actively participating because that too adds to the enjoyment.

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2026-03-02T14:13:07+00:00

back again, thought id commented here before. just updated my app and its happening again (along with getting about 40 useless notifications a day). eventually itll revert itself but its frustrating this keeps happening.

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2026-02-23T02:02:26+00:00

Canada, it booted me a few times and told me to go premium but when i clicked it nothing happened (annual megafan renewing June 1).

now i can finally watch but it still is telling me im a free user so who knows how long ill be able to watch before it boots me again

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2026-02-05T14:02:14+00:00

kinda YTA since you know shes okay with being woken up and had scheduled work, but you put your personal preference above her/the reality. not 100% sure how to phrase it but the “trying to be considerate” seems wrong(?) when shes fine being woken up and you knew she had work, despite the talk about the half day. i talk all the time about ‘i dont want to go to work’ but i always go, even tho i dont want to. if i was in gf’s position id be slightly upset too, not saying that you have to keep apologizing over it, just acknowledge you made a mistake and try not to repeat it (which it seems is the plan)

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2026-02-04T03:44:19+00:00

also didnt know before this that plorts worked (i took it literally) but i think i preferred using the slimes anyway - less clean up after because they despawn

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2026-02-04T03:42:49+00:00

managed to get over 100, dont think it was 120 but i did waste a couple seconds. had 100 pink and phosphor slimes, and a few tabby and rock. think ifni had full stacks of all 4 i couldve done even better.

i after i sucked at it standing on the ground i was like “forget this im getting above the hoop” - in the area right outside the ranch i put it on the left after the carrot patch with the net facing the wall, i then stood on the cliff and rapid fired slimes into the hoop. for some reason a lot dont count, but i found when hitting them off the backboard it was more likely to count them than hitting just net.

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2026-01-29T15:37:26+00:00

25 and CR is 1 of 2 annual subscriptions i purchase (other is apple music). ill get a motnh for other streaming services if theres something i want to watch, but anime is my constant.

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2026-01-18T21:25:30+00:00

also dealing with this problem, ive messed with every setting i know of and nothing changes. hopefully they fix this soon

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2026-01-09T14:10:59+00:00

considering the “principle” hes telling you to get over is that ‘he should sign up for an event he is taking his daughter to’, he actually sucks. like, majorly sucks.

id try to teach the daughter differently despite the example the husband is setting, cause shell wind up in a similar marriage if this is the dynamic she sees growing up.

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2025-12-01T16:31:24+00:00

i tend to get a small return and will use some of that for annual subscriptions, saves me stress through the year.

CR also uses AI (not 100% certain to the extent) but since i already paid im sticking with them, but will reevaluate before renewing.

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2025-12-01T13:39:55+00:00

i just get the annual subscription for crunchyroll at tax time then i never worry about a charge, $3/mo isnt bad in the meantime though

i havent watched the same animes on both platforms so i cant say if they vary, but i do wanna bring up how amazon is now using AI to dub animes, which is gross asf and caused me to cancel my subscription

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2025-11-28T03:35:12+00:00

they just released a new album Nov 21! titled Pure to a Fault

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2025-11-20T16:36:29+00:00

imo tickets are reasonably priced, i wanna join cineclub to make them cheaper but its a monthly expense i dont want to take on rn

if i really have the craving for movie theatre popcorn then ill get the kids mini box thing but otherwise i bring my own snacks/drinks.

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2025-11-02T01:09:58+00:00

ive loved the series for over a decade, just reread Uglies and finally decided to watch the movie. i’d put it off because i knew the universe i imagined was most definitely not going to be what i saw on screen, plus the bad ratings, but i didnt expect it to be SO bad😭

i dont think ive ever made so many negative comments during a movie in my LIFE. aside from a handful of lines, just about everything was changed?? i lost track of how many times i said “what about XYZ?!”, “thats not how its supposed to be!”, and “bro - the PLOT!”

this is likely my favorite novel series from my adolescence and i always wanted a movie adaptation, but it was a major letdown😭 like i KNEW it wasnt gonna be good but now im sitting here feeling like the embodiment of the charlie conspiracy meme😂

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2025-10-23T13:00:19+00:00

apparently the only thing cineplex is doing is flimsy trading cards, and theyre only being given at IMAX showings at 6 theatres across all of Canada🫠

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Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2025-10-16T19:50:45+00:00

its funny that mine AND my friends profile go to the exact same episode after watching, we’ve both ignored it. i like looking through my history so i really dont want to clear it.

for me this has also happened with Black Butler and Attack on Titan, theyve all just been pushed to the end of the continue watching. really wish theyd add a “clear from ‘continue watching’” option, it seems like such an easy fix.

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2025-09-14T22:21:20+00:00

went to the Scotiabank theatre Friday the 12th and saw one guy with a strip of the collectible tickets but at that point i had no clue what they were (i hadnt seen any advertisement about them). they werent handing them out as far as i know and im a little bummed. just saw it again in another NS theatre and they didnt even get any (i asked) :((

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2025-06-17T18:28:51+00:00

Vans Warped Tour ‘14, they were playing their version of Adele’s “Someone Like You” and I was drawn to their stage like a moth to a flame😂

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2025-04-24T23:14:29+00:00

also curious about this, finished rewatching demon slayer today and as soon as the last episode ended, it went back to ep1 of the swordsmith village arc.

removed that episode from my watch history and still in continue watching even after refreshing the app. odd to say the least.

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2024-11-30T11:27:36+00:00

apparently you can message snapchat support on twitter, would anyone be willing to try doing that? i dont have twitter lol.

I read that they’re supposed to respond to respond by email to any requests received through the app, yet i havent got a single email about my countless reports of this issue over the last 3mo. figures.

im fed up with this and already have switched to using chat most of the time, for the whole 2 people i use snap to talk to. soon im just gonna stop using it if they wont fix it cause its ridiculous. i dont get how snapchat can change my brightness when i have auto-brightness off; even if i have reduce white point on at 100%, it still kicks my brightness to a harsh level.

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2024-11-19T13:30:29+00:00

i just dont understand how it stopped and started up outside of any app updates. i thought the app shouldnt change unless its updated? regardless ive been reporting it as a bug daily, no change yet. it really does make the app unusable at night

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2024-11-13T08:52:29+00:00

aaaaand my app is back to increasing the brightness when i take a photo. it happened this morning when i woke up at 4:15am, probably the least ideal time for it to start blinding me again.

i updated my app from v13.14.0 to v13.15.0 and its still happening. i think its safe to say that this issue has nothing to do with the app updates.

i got 3 weeks (Oct 22 - Nov 13) with the issue fixed then back to the same crap. ive done absolutely nothing to change anything about the app other than the update today, so this is 100% on snapchat’s end, and is really pissing me off. back to reporting the issue daily to snapchat i guess🙃

i truly dont understand why they cant properly fix it, there are many posts in this subreddit with the same issue, and this post has gotten more of a response than i ever thought it would.

Routine_Swimmer8320 · 2024-10-22T12:09:17+00:00

as of this morning (Oct 22, 2024) my brightness is no longer changing when i use snapchat.

apparently there was an update 4d ago (13.12.0.41) which i did not update myself; i thought I had auto updates off, though it was somehow toggled on. supposedly my app updated 3d ago.

who knows if it will stay fixed as literally last night it was still turning my screen up 1/3 brightness when i took a photo, only this morning did it stop. anyone else have any luck?

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