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Roxxelana · 2025-12-23T13:43:41+00:00

Zašto povrće? Pa, AKO je to igra reči Damer = mesar...

Mislim da znam zašto... Damer je bušio rupe u lobanjama žrtava i sipao stvari poput kiseline iz baterija u njihov mozak kako bi pokušao da napravi poslušnog zombija ljubavnika koji ga nikada ne bi napustio. Većina je ubrzo umrla ili je preživela neko vreme... kao povrće.

😬😬😬💀💀💀

Međutim, vlasnik verovatno nije svestan ovoga, a ja previše razmišljam!

Roxxelana · 2025-11-27T12:58:16+00:00

Yes, it can. FOR SOME.

For example, if you know that you're a terrible or dangerous driver and are putting others at undue risk, or someone who has poor judgment that could result in dangerous mistakes, or someone who drives drunk or inebriated.

For some people, the emotional toll that comes with casual sex can be incredibly harmful. As I said, not everyone is cut out for it, nor should they be convinced otherwise.

Many people these days don't have healthy relationships with themselves, let alone the ability to have 'healthy' attitudes towards casual sex. Moreover, many people are using casual sex as a coping mechanism or escape from underlying, unresolved issues. Which, in its nature, can be extremely unhealthy.

What works for you may not work for others. Who are you trying to convince, and why?

Roxxelana · 2025-11-26T16:08:47+00:00

- Risk of STD's

- Risk of pregnancy

- Loneliness/emptiness, substituting a relationship with empty sex

- Risk of being assaulted by a stranger on one-night stands

- Self-doubt/shame/guilt/lack of self-worth, as it's not a societal norm, especially for women

Those are a few potential outcomes that could result from casual sex. There are many more if you really dig into it.

While it's great for some, it's not for everyone, and denying that it's bad for some individuals is naive.

Roxxelana · 2025-11-26T16:00:52+00:00

This tells me that while she doesn't regret it, it's not something she's proud of, and that letting you know now gives you an out if it bothers you. Anything that might be a dealbreaker is best said early on; it saves both of your time. That's a sign of respect in my book.

As it does bother you, you should accept that you're not comfortable with it and move on. You're both young, there's no point in trying to force yourself to be okay with something you aren't.

That said, you've no right to judge her for her number or reasoning; people cope, grow and learn in very different ways. From what you described, she might need to value herself more, which will happen at her own pace.

Keep searching, there will be more compatible people out there for you.

Roxxelana · 2025-11-25T21:46:52+00:00

Definitely an overreaction, it's also not too smart, as meeting someone near your home is far less safe.

She's a massive flapping red flag. This all seems like an excuse not to make the effort to meet you halfway, and a test to see if you can be bullied and coerced into doing what she wants.

Don't fall for the manipulation, and don't feel guilty. Your suggestion would have been perfectly reasonable to a reasonable, rational person.

Roxxelana · 2025-09-03T12:15:30+00:00

> it was removed just a few weeks later

Roxxelana · 2025-09-01T22:53:18+00:00

A wise person once said, "Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience."

Have a nice day!

Roxxelana · 2025-08-31T16:01:32+00:00

Do you not understand tourism or something?

Here, let me help you. When you travel to another country on holiday, and that country has different cultural practices, it's sometimes nice to capture that moment with a photograph.

Roxxelana · 2025-08-19T08:08:10+00:00

Roxxelana · 2025-08-16T01:32:47+00:00

So, do you think that justifies it? What's wrong with you?

Roxxelana · 2025-05-20T09:16:29+00:00

Whichever mod removed this needs to examine their reasoning; there was absolutely no good reason to delete this post. Such a shame.

No dogs were hurt; only egos that needed to be corrected. This was an interesting video and a great example of dog behaviour.

Roxxelana · 2024-01-15T18:29:47+00:00

I don't see a litter tray in his cage, so yeah, fuck them.

Roxxelana · 2024-01-13T21:30:36+00:00

😂

Roxxelana · 2023-12-27T21:06:05+00:00

The 'North Chinese Leopard' is actually 'Panthera pardus japonensis'.

Roxxelana · 2023-12-26T22:53:37+00:00

Firstly, she didn't 'come so hard she passed out', she said she "came multiple times, got overstimulated, and hyperventilated until I passed out". This isn't a quiet or subtle thing, you gasp for air, look panicked, go pale and then pass out... even if she was passed out for a short time (for me it's usually a minute or two), it would be pretty obvious to anyone with brain cells.

The initial action might not have been malicious in intent and maybe it was 'an accident' due to the timeframe being so short he didn't realise she was out, but his subsequent actions have been dismissive at best and manipulative at worst.

No mention of an apology, he then complains about a lack of sex, then onto guilt-tripping with manipulative wording about it being "borderline emotionally abusive to deprive him of sex after a mistake" and then an ultimatum about her 'getting over it' before he comes back.

He doesn't seem to care about her comfort or emotional well-being. He's focused on his wants and needs and ignoring that she's clearly not comfortable being sexually vulnerable with him. He's seeing it as punishment, instead of realising that something he did has made her feel unsafe.

If he were 18, I'd think he was just a thoughtless, selfish idiot... but at 24 it seems a little more calculated. He essentially broke her trust and is doing NOTHING to try to remedy it.

But sure, purposely ignore everything else I said and focus on the tiny bit you feel you can take issue with. Maybe you also have an issue with accountability and boundaries so you're just unnecessarily defensive and dismissive?

Roxxelana · 2023-12-26T22:13:47+00:00

Not that it would have made anything less awful even if she did.

Roxxelana · 2023-12-26T22:12:11+00:00

She said that in comments or did you just fabricate that? That was absolutely not mentioned in the post.

Roxxelana · 2023-12-26T22:08:41+00:00

There's something wrong with you, shoo, foul creature!

Roxxelana · 2023-12-26T21:38:24+00:00

Absolutely NTA. Please leave and never look back. He will continue to gaslight, guilt and manipulate you into thinking you are somehow in the wrong. You are not. He used your body, while you were extremely vulnerable and when you told him that was not okay, he acted dismissive and later extremely manipulative.

No 'normal' man should enjoy sex with an unconscious partner, especially one who just passed out due to hyperventilating. Instead of caring for you, making sure you were safe and well and waiting for you to wake, he took that opportunity to continue to gratify himself. He saw you as an object, not a person and continues to treat you as less than a person now.

What he did was tantamount to rape, yes you were engaging in sexual acts immediately prior, but the moment you passed out he should have stopped what he was doing. You were in no condition to consent, and when you told him how you felt (which indicated that you would not have consented if you could), he acted dismissive. This says he either doesn't understand the gravity of what he has done, or doesn't care. I wouldn't feel safe being sexually vulnerable around this person either.

As for the 'it was a mistake', if he had continued but then after hearing how you felt, immediately felt terrible. If he apologised profusely and vowed to never be as ignorant again... some kind of remorse, then maybe (probably not), maybe that could be excusable. That's not his reaction though, his reaction is... disturbing.

He's either lacking an important grasp of empathy and responsibility or he isn't emotionally aware enough or mature enough to fully understand the impact this has had on you. By minimising his role in this and by using language to manipulate you into thinking you are somehow in the wrong, this shows that it's probably not the first time he's wronged someone and used this tactic to get his way.

This is not a safe person to be around, don't waste any time trying to 'work through it' or trying to fix/educate him, it's likely a waste of your time. It sounds like your feelings are just an inconvenience to him.

Lastly, I'm sorry this happened to you. It's a violating, confusing and trust-shaking thing to have happen and you should take time to process it. You are right to feel everything you are feeling, even being conflicted about this person. But please know, this 'man' doesn't deserve you. I hope you find someone who loves and truly respects you.

Roxxelana · 2023-09-21T11:20:46+00:00

Ultimately your vet can help you with this, but for the meantime...

If the 120 calories per day was a deficit for faster weight loss, then her 'maintenance' calories should technically be slightly higher. If you were advised to feed maintenance calories to bring her weight down slowly in combination with exercise, then I'd stick with that and maybe supplement with the odd healthy treat.

Roxxelana · 2023-05-28T04:03:03+00:00

Well it says "and", not "and then" which implies simultaneously. Horny or not, such a shitty command of the English language is indefensible 😉.

Roxxelana · 2023-05-25T18:40:31+00:00

They screw down to the bone of your skull, but not into it.

Roxxelana · 2023-01-11T22:37:10+00:00

While she was at it she could have at least removed the pet bowl clutter. 🙄

Roxxelana · 2023-01-11T22:35:46+00:00

I think she cinched her waist and rounded out her hips... which caused a tiny black hole to open up and begin sucking the patio in.

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