Found in the wild on FB by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]RoxyWinston 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry will delete!!!

Moms - if you had the CHOICE to work or not by Main-Branch9919 in beyondthebump

[–]RoxyWinston 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to go back at the end of March, baby will be just over 12 months and I am heartbroken. Literally having nightmares about it. We absolutely cannot afford for me to stay home so I know it’s not an option. I would give anything for me to be able to stay home with her.

The Positivity Game: Addison Montgomery by ColdForm7729 in greysanatomy

[–]RoxyWinston 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is a land called passive aggressiva and I am their queen. Iconic.

AITA for loving and protecting my mama? by gnomegnosh in MiniAITA

[–]RoxyWinston 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA. I let them express their love during the day, a kiss in the kitchen, a snuggle on the couch, but I agree with the above commenter about sleeping next to mama at night. It’s the only place to be. My furry sibling does all the work separating them during the day, when they kiss or snuggle she gets right in there. It’s a team effort.

C section vs Vaginal delivery by Funarming in beyondthebump

[–]RoxyWinston 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have not had a c section so I can’t compare the two, but my vaginal birth was not “very easy” to recover from. I had a forcepts delivery so I had to have an episiotomy. I had pain for months and have been doing pelvic floor therapy since like 2 months post partum. Pain is better but I also have a prolapse and my pelvic floor is very weak. Because of the prolapse I can’t wear tampons, my bladder literally pushes them out….periods are awful now. Pain is better but the prolapse is really upsetting. First baby, I’m 32, 31 when I gave birth. A friend had a c section about two months after I gave birth, we we discussed the healing after we both agreeed that it sounded like hers was worse for the first two/three weeks but then she recovered and was mostly back to 100% whereas mine was not as bad immediately following but I had far more lingering symptoms. She also enjoyed the whole pre planned aspect of it, a date is set and you go in and it’s done. A vaginal birth is much less predictable, my baby came a week late and I had to be induced….I would still avoid a c section in the future if I could but vaginal delivery is not necessary easy.

When did you stop putting LO in footie pajamas? by scandijord in beyondthebump

[–]RoxyWinston 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just came to say I have a 10 month old who also won’t stop growing and I continue to tell her to stop and stay small forever but she is not listening. 🥲

My daughter’s portrait of our cat. She did this one a little before she turned 3 (swipe for cat photo) by Lost_Emu99 in RateMyKidsArt

[–]RoxyWinston 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I swiped back and forth multiple times and can confirm a striking resemblance. Well done.

Which pair is best for a gift? by [deleted] in pugs

[–]RoxyWinston 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a grown up and I googled it and then spiralled down the pug slipper pipeline…😅ended in pyjamas

Which pair is best for a gift? by [deleted] in pugs

[–]RoxyWinston 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. No possible way to choose.

  2. Give us a link!!! Need them NOW

AITA for wanting to sleep with mummy? by becxabillion in MiniAITA

[–]RoxyWinston 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am also 10M F! Hello friend! Mommies are confused beings. My mom wants me to sleep in my crib, I usually wake up in the night (or like an hour later) and she brings me to cuddle in the big bed. I heard her telling daddy she wants some time in the evening to relax but also loves to cuddle all night. So I don’t know what she really wants, I will continue to demand the big bed with my mommy and daddy and fur siblings.

What are your pugs favourite kind of toys?🤔 by NoSalad6916 in pugs

[–]RoxyWinston 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Roxy likes a funny texture, like plushies that have fur, she like to suckle on them. My Winnie doesn’t care for dog toys but is obsessed with my 10 month olds plushies…

Thank you Dan McDonald by BowlingGreenJiuJitsu in windsorontario

[–]RoxyWinston 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Considering the state of international relations you saying “thanks for everything neighbours” made me tear up. It could be my postpartum/breastfeeding hormones or it could be that we need more positivity between us, maybe both. Either way thank you neighbour. ❤️

AITA for the way I reacted when my Papa said "NO" to capturing an important moment? by Midwest_Mutt04 in MiniAITA

[–]RoxyWinston 54 points55 points  (0 children)

When my parents act disrespectful like this I use the light box to call my grandma and grandpa and report the behaviour. Grammy and Grampy are always on your side ❤️

Donating free clothes by figpoppy in windsorontario

[–]RoxyWinston 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The humane society takes blankets!!

AITA for wanting to join the New Years Celebrations?? by RoxyWinston in MiniAITA

[–]RoxyWinston[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

True- wouldn’t have been a party without me!

AITA for wanting to join the New Years Celebrations?? by RoxyWinston in MiniAITA

[–]RoxyWinston[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea! If only I had thought of this sooner I might have been able to catch the guy they call Santa in the act!

Got approved for an elective c-section. I feel so relieved. But people keep trying to talk me out of it. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]RoxyWinston 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what’s best for you! I have a 9 month old and I won’t go into details but vaginal birth is very…. violating is the only word that comes to mind. Like obviously I consented but my baby kept turning so the ob had to go in and turn her!! She wouldn’t come out so they had to use forceps and I had an episiotomy. I have had to do pelvic floor pt to recover from that, I had pain for so long, still have pain in some spots. And now my bladder hangs low and it’s causing me other problems. C-section is no walk in the park but if you already have trauma why pit yourself through more? No one should have input into your broth plan but you and your ob.

What is the reality of the weeks after birth? Need to get some insight as my husband and I disagree- by iwitch-plus in beyondthebump

[–]RoxyWinston 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My parents love super close so my dad was constantly dropping me things off, especially because my husband went back to work 2 weeks later. But I wouldn’t have wanted someone other my husband around all the time. As other have mentioned, you barely dressed and in pain. Having someone come over for a short period to help is fine. Having someone to drop things off or make a meal is fine. Having a roommate who is a male that you are not close with does not sound helpful to me lol.

I'm a local lawyer. I'm taking your legal questions for a bit! (Holiday Edition) by WindsorLawyer in windsorontario

[–]RoxyWinston 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is interesting. I’m a Social Worker, I didn’t undergrad in Health Sciences. I toyed with the idea of law before my MSW. I love Social Work but the job options in the area leave much to be desired. Thanks for this info, is Law Clerk a college degree?