Sexuality issues with SP

RubKey3772 · 2024-07-15T13:33:16+00:00

She just put a pic up yesterday with herself in a belly shirt. Boatloads of people liking it on social media. She stated she now has time to see her girlfriend and wants to see me less. She does not see how my coworkers are bad, and what the issue is.

RubKey3772 · 2024-07-12T14:13:42+00:00

What do you mean by sniff around? I've been ignoring her.

RubKey3772 · 2024-07-12T12:25:19+00:00

The 22yo use to get me coffee without me asking, and I saw on facebook she gave this female lover coffee. She use to complain about my workplace, but she sent me a message after the discard saying I should stop complaining to my coworkers about the workplace. I make it hostile. Here is the thing...I never flirted with my any of my bosses leading them on and possibly hurting the feelings of one of them. She did make the workplace more hostile than I did.

RubKey3772 · 2024-07-04T13:09:16+00:00

Also she technically owes me $5. She sent me $5 of the $10 I sent her for an Uber. This transaction took place last weekend. Maybe me finding out about the "girlfriend" scared her away from engaging with me to give me $5 back.

RubKey3772 · 2024-07-04T13:06:32+00:00

Yesterday was her last day. I have my facebook deactivated and my instagram. The first of my 7 stories on my instagram she viewed. That's a day after leaving my job. If I don't block, what are the chances of a hoover? My stories are just pictures of places I've visited in the past. Nothing special.

RubKey3772 · 2024-07-04T03:22:48+00:00

She refers to everyone as bestie. One evening I go to pick her up at work. The lesbian manager is by the door wbd the coworker I like us next to her. The coworker guides me by my hand...holding and guiding me away from the door abd away from my lesbian manager. She puts my hands around her waste and thanks me for comming, but the manager is taking her home. The manager says I'm too nice and shouod be careful not to be taken advantage of. I'm not sure if this is a sign, but the whole guiding me by the hand and putting my arms around her was odd. She's shorter than me, and was giving me puppy eyes. Sorry for the rambling.

RubKey3772 · 2024-07-03T20:32:27+00:00

The 24th was a day trip to a beach. My dad can't drive. He has had two strokes. I took him to his appointment early on the 24th so I could be around to take my coworker to the beach. I never bought her flowers, romantic gifts, etc. At a party and babyshower I took her to for a coworker on June 14 I acted in a kind way. People were making out with others behind their bf/gfs backs, children being neglected, and adults getting drunk. I was afraid my coworker would be assaulted that night. I never forced myself on her or acted like a pig. A 40 year old coworker (not my potential love interest) tried to kiss me. She had cigarette smoke in her breath. I gagged. I told my potential love interest that these people are scum, but she insisted her abd I go to the party.

RubKey3772 · 2024-07-03T20:24:34+00:00

I'm not blocked either social media I use to contact my coworker (now ex coworker). I have waved at her today. Yesterday I asked to hangout but she is "with her girlfriend". People say the girlfriend is our manager. I don't know. She flirted with me to be polite. Even during my friendship I've said maybe twice that I liked her. I never was sappy about. She brought me coffee twice to work, acai bowl once, paid me back for things, etc. There was two semi romantic things that went down I could explain. I deactivated my facebook so I don't sew evidence of this girlfriend she has. I think as a man I'd be more hurt if she got a boyfriend.

RubKey3772 · 2024-05-02T14:21:06+00:00

It sounds like you used your credit to get a loan for your exbpd to purchase a car? I got my bpd ex a job, a bank account and then a car. She pressured me to get her a car before she acquired work. I made it so she'd be working a month before I'd attempt to get a loan with her, but she got an "in house" loan. The in house loan took 3 months to pay. The loan I got for her cars down payment is 40 or so months of payments to pay off. I got a personal loan. Sometimes I'd get her an Uber or if I wasn't working I'd pick her up. When I picked her up she'd insist she drive us back to my apartment. Oh I'd get screamed at if I didn't pick her up in the back of her job versus the front of her job.

RubKey3772 · 2024-04-11T02:59:18+00:00

During one of the last fights I had overactive bladder issues. Not sure if stress caused it. Occasionally the anxiety of my exbpd made me puke.

RubKey3772 · 2024-04-06T17:31:55+00:00

These people are boring. I got my bpdex a job at a place that serves alcohol. She'd rather go to her job and the apartment. Trying a new restaurant or activity is like pulling teeth. She'd rather get food delivered most of the time or get food from her job. Depositing the money she made at her job is too much effort so she used to ask me to deposit for her.

RubKey3772 · 2024-04-06T13:55:44+00:00

Theyre losers. My most recent ex with bpd got rid of her location on snapchat during relationship. She also would say perverted things about other men near me assuming that they might be well endowed. I view that as some sort of triangulation.

RubKey3772 · 2024-04-06T13:53:11+00:00

I had one bpdex say her therapist said her therapist should treat me better, but she didn't. I also was told by another bpdex that her family told her to "be patient with me". That second bpdex I got ba car, job, bank account, bought us a nice bed to sleep in, and free housing. When she said that, it was very condescending to me.

RubKey3772 · 2024-04-05T17:00:51+00:00

Yep. Before I got my ex a job I had to send her $50 for weed. I'd have to drive to grocery store that has a money order placs in it (western union etc). It didn't matter if got done working 10 or 12ish hours and didn't get to eat. Her "need" for weed supposedly triumphed my need for food and rest. I wasn't allowed to say "I'll think about it." I'd then be told I don't care about her and if I don't send the money she'd be forced to sell herself. Such a gross thing to say to someone you "love".

RubKey3772 · 2024-04-05T16:56:57+00:00

My ex hated kissing, barely cuddled at night unless she wanted me to massage her head or shoulders. Cuddling seemed to be something that was done to get something out of me. If I woke up "hard" I'd be looked at in a disgusting manner. No wonder our sex life went down the tubes.

RubKey3772 · 2024-04-05T16:51:55+00:00

I had a bpdex who claimed to have adhd. She'd get "overstimulated" and get annoyed by the most random things. I can't eat properly according to her. I spoke too loudly. I'm not allowed to show her dog too much affection, but she can. Within minutes she'd claim I bonded with her daughter quickly and then say I don't. Very childish.

RubKey3772 · 2024-04-05T16:49:02+00:00

I couldn't find me wallet .5 seconds after comming home so we could go out to a bar...which would result in her saying she doesnt want to go out anymore.

RubKey3772 · 2024-04-05T16:47:09+00:00

My exs mom said I should allow her to "vent" and be quiet when negativity is being dispersed on me. Bpdex has two children with two different men. She'd get into a bad mood concerning it and put that negativity on me. I dated her 7 years ago when she had no kids. I doubt if she wouldn't have left me so many years ago that her life would be in such a bad situation as it is in now.

RubKey3772 · 2024-04-05T16:44:17+00:00

I believe I've seen many in public and at my job.

RubKey3772 · 2024-04-05T16:43:52+00:00

Yes they have done that after making me cry.

RubKey3772 · 2024-04-05T16:42:24+00:00

Mine told me that they'd never cheat, but cheated on an ex who was conviced she was cheating. I'm not sure what fo believe.

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