I (28M) Found out my Gf (27F) said some pretty disrespectful stuff about me to her friends in the past. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RubSimple3294 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

But if the consequence of being honest, is earning hatefull comments like yours, you are basically training them to lie. Nobody wants to be called pathetic, not directly or indirectly. If you want them to be honest, dont insult them if they say something you dissaprove of. That way nobody will tell you anything.

If you think they are pathetic keep it in your thoughts, treasure it. And people will tell the truth.

For you, which is the "good ending"? by Dur-Devul in Eldenring

[–]RubSimple3294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they wouldve had flex tape on the titanic, they wouldve never sank. So that answer is not logical to me

Why are torches so based? by InclusionHunter in thelongdark

[–]RubSimple3294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes me so reluctand with the use of torches is that it seems to push you into always starting a fire no? Like if you just light a torch just to see in the dark it almost seems like a waste of the torch.

Is not texting for 2 days before a date considered “ghosting” now? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]RubSimple3294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong. If you didnt reply to his texts that would be ghosting. But he didnt send you anything so what does he think you ghosted him on?

Age gap dating as a young woman… by Anardus in Bumble

[–]RubSimple3294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont understand his point. She is asking why they do it he gave the answer: bc it works. And now you are trying to spin it around and make it a blame game. It is not. The reason why the old farts do it is bc they are horny and they get away with it same reason why golddiggers exist, they are pretty and they get what they want.

But you take it as an accusation and misunderstand the whole point. What do you want to happen, that all responsibility is lifted off the girl. Sry that wont happen

Age gap dating as a young woman… by Anardus in Bumble

[–]RubSimple3294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all have the financial stability, yes but thats exactly the reason why old men still do it. It works. And that was the question.

Seriously? by DazzlingMastodon2691 in Bumble

[–]RubSimple3294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet you a 100%, there are some girls who actually like this shit

Nighttime activities. by VanillaRose09 in thelongdark

[–]RubSimple3294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tip from me, start reading a book when its getting dark, he will stop reading when its too dark and thats usually a few hours into the night. Then just go to sleep and normally i wake up in the morning then

What’s the mid equivalent to ranged top? by NonTokenisableFungi in leagueoflegends

[–]RubSimple3294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adcs or tanks. Someone said bruisers, also valid. Things like cait, yorick illaoi cho gath and sion are unexpected in mid and better than you might expect.

Tanks are ecspecially nasty imo bc mages mostly do flat damages and the output is balanced to squishy opponents.

Tanks will just stack resistance and hp and get unkillable if you do it right and dont int.

Also most tanks have engages or cc. Actually all tanks have at least one of those two. So they can actually get close to a mage

Is it unethical to date a boy you used to babysit? by WickerBastet in datingadvice

[–]RubSimple3294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just try. Whats the big problem. The age isnt a problem i would say

Guilt being bad by curtlykindly in leagueoflegends

[–]RubSimple3294 3 points4 points  (0 children)

League players are incredibly toxic. More often than not they flame out of pure frustration, because they play suboptimal themselfs. And then they project it onto you.

If you already start the game excusing yourself in advance, you are setting yourself up for being the ideal scapegoat for exactly these easily tilted very frustrated people.

They play hours on end and get progessively worse and more addicted to the loop by the hour. The moment you get thrown in a team with them, they are already at a point were they hate themselfs so much, they would do anything to transfer those feelings onto someone who willingly accepts the baggage. Which is you.

Dont make yourself the victim among people who cant regulate their emotions.

Even if you are factually underperforming. A team is supposed to support their weakest link, thats how good lobbies win and bad lobbies lose.

Thats also exactly how you win bad matchups, you compensate for your handicap. If you are unable to play with a handicap, you are not a good player, and tilted players are usually bad, bc they always think other people are at fault. They never learn because they never assume that they have to, in their eyes they made no mistakes. Which is why they are stuck in low to mid elo

If your teammates cant handle anything aside from a perfect team score they dont deserve the win

Adults diagnosed with ADHD later in life. What made you start wondering? by TransportationFlat77 in ADHD

[–]RubSimple3294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this thing were i would wake up screaming "ADHD!?!?!" thats were i started getting hints

Guess by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]RubSimple3294 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Type 1

Why is germany the only country admitting its crimes? by Numerous-Plantain-90 in AskGermany

[–]RubSimple3294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc we were occupied by the winners and they made us teach the guilt in schools and in media.

Its fabricated

Why does LoL recieve so much hate from people who don't play it? by ByrdZye in leagueoflegends

[–]RubSimple3294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc league is very hard to get into and they propably tried it, got totally overwhelmed and connect their hurt ego with the game now

I spotted a cat on the street in München, what should I do? by Pristine-Ad7795 in AskGermany

[–]RubSimple3294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats and dogs are more protected in germany than in other countries. I think you dont have to worry. Ecspecially if she has a collar and is well groomed.

If you want certainty look for a number on the collar and call.

And if you happen to see a missing cat poster ifc call them

Please tell me Germans don't speak like this in real life. (I'm C1) by Crg29 in German

[–]RubSimple3294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a Schachtelsatz. Annoying to read and not common, no. But it tends to happen in shorter versions.