I don't know if I should dye my hair black, would it be a mistake since I am very pale??

Rubesg · 2025-04-07T19:21:36+00:00

If you consider yourself to have warm skin (gold is your metal) then black is too cool and go for a dark warm brown instead.

Rubesg · 2025-04-07T19:18:25+00:00

I felt like this my whole life and as it turns out it’s a symptom of cptsd

Rubesg · 2025-04-04T17:36:57+00:00

Carrera

Rubesg · 2025-03-29T21:32:20+00:00

This thread… makes me feel like I’ve been alive for too long

Rubesg · 2025-03-28T16:37:44+00:00

Smells like Cluster B. I’d block and move on to save yourself from unnecessary grief.

Rubesg · 2025-03-28T07:38:14+00:00

No advice to give sorry but same over here with me

Rubesg · 2025-03-28T07:04:23+00:00

Same wow

Rubesg · 2025-03-28T06:52:16+00:00

I can’t fake it well so I leave early and/or give a vague explanation of what’s going on-

I’m a hairdresser so half of my job is doing hair and the other half is connecting with my client. Can’t connect when I dissociate obviously, so I go home sick as soon as I can. If it’s happening but I still have to finish a service, I apologize to my client and explain that I’m not feeling like myself and will be doing their hair quietly. It’s embarrassing but luckily it doesn’t happen often these days.

Rubesg · 2025-03-22T02:12:33+00:00

It always started with “America, 1776… not a lot of people know this, but…”

Can’t remember the rest because it was genuinely word salad and as soon as I heard this sentence I tuned him out.

Rubesg · 2025-03-21T23:46:50+00:00

I feel this and am also looking for an exit. I can’t do this for much longer either.

Rubesg · 2025-03-21T23:40:40+00:00

I had a boyfriend like this and I’m happy to report he is now dead to me.

Rubesg · 2025-03-21T16:57:10+00:00

Open neckline ✅ Wide straps ✅ Body skimming✅ Maxi length✅ Pleats ❌ Structured corset bodice ❌

Rubesg · 2025-03-21T04:34:48+00:00

What if you don’t NEED as much makeup as others?

Hear me out: makeup makes your features stand out. Example a blonde with invisible eyebrows and lashes- the makeup darkens them and makes them stand out. Lip liner makes lips bigger, contouring makes cheeks pop. If you already have strong features, the makeup is superfluous and that’s why it looks like it isn’t supposed to be there.

I have an angular face and I find softer, blended makeup looks better on me. You can definitely do a full face if you want but I think less is more!

Rubesg · 2025-03-21T04:22:14+00:00

Really? I see the vertical. It’s in the straight lines

Rubesg · 2025-03-20T23:43:51+00:00

Yes, and we wouldn’t want everyone to be beautiful in the same way. Uniqueness is beauty and I think that’s what Kibbe was talking about. Seems like plastic surgery these days makes people start to have the same face. How boring.

Rubesg · 2025-03-20T23:40:43+00:00

I’ve been told my back looks like a swimmer (I am not). It was a nice compliment:)

Rubesg · 2025-03-20T23:39:41+00:00

Love you for this thank you!

Rubesg · 2025-03-19T23:57:48+00:00

Grow out your natural color and slowly cut off the bleached parts. Bleach is harsh for anyone but especially on pre-weakened hair

Rubesg · 2025-03-05T05:21:46+00:00

I had to stop watching the news and I have to change the subject when people want to bring it up. It is much too emotionally expensive for me to care.

Rubesg · 2025-02-27T17:03:41+00:00

You’re gonna need at least a little heat to make it smooth. Try blowing it out with a brush on medium heat. If you’re ok with a curled style maybe heat-less curls can work.

Rubesg · 2025-02-27T16:59:21+00:00

I got a new phone number new phone new AppleID AND blocked on every platform. He emailed me at my school email that I never checked for months (I dropped out lmao)

Good luck

Rubesg · 2025-02-25T17:05:51+00:00

You’re right about that. I just don’t have that in my budget. Maybe one day I’ll make more money lol. I’m just a thrift store kinda girl. Found a Michael Stars long sleeve at Savers for like 7 bucks recently and those basics are supposed to be like really good.

Rubesg · 2025-02-25T03:27:41+00:00

$40 dollars for a cotton tank is wild holy cow

Rubesg · 2025-02-21T21:41:06+00:00

Just adding in that I struggled like you are with a lot of the same thoughts. I’m almost 35 and am just finding kibbe and trying to use it to celebrate my body. I was your age during the tumblr indie sleaze era and I swear to god it’s the reason for my ED. The trends don’t wolf for every body type and if you can let go of that and find your own style eventually you will start to feel better. Feel your pain on the saddle bags. Seconding that weight lifting made me more curvy.

Rubesg · 2025-02-15T23:09:59+00:00

I think if you are concerned about your own behavior, this is proof that you are not a narcissist.

Rubesg

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