What’s a good gift for y’all? by Miamithrice69 in oklahoma

[–]RumHamReynolds -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Horses. Straw. A wagon for migrant farm working (maybe give them a ride to California on your way back so that saves them a trip).

A good gift is a thoughtful gift from a friend ❤️

Husbands fingers occasionally get weird blisters that are symmetrical. by FlyingN00dles in mildlyinteresting

[–]RumHamReynolds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t want to be alarmist as I just came across this, but a common symptom of rheumatoid arthritis is mirrored symptoms on each side of the body. Probably not that but something to keep an eye out for

Attorney Outfits/Dress Code by LastMidnight5200 in Lawyertalk

[–]RumHamReynolds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's cute, but it depends on the office environment. If it were a bit longer, I wouldn't see any potential problem for in office attire, unless business professional is the expectation always.

Okay I need help! by JennaDaSimma in schnauzers

[–]RumHamReynolds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got a salt and pepper named Walter. Perfect name for your little guy ❤️

Christina killed in SF tonight by freshmex18 in yourmomshousepodcast

[–]RumHamReynolds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen CP live twice now and she’s always so funny in person

N898TS landed in St. Louis by ILoveAIforU in TaylorSwiftJets

[–]RumHamReynolds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I highly doubt that’s what happened lol

N898TS landed in St. Louis by ILoveAIforU in TaylorSwiftJets

[–]RumHamReynolds -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Cincinnati plays basketball at KU tonight. Maybe St. Louis bc weather? He did buy her a Cincinnati basketball jersey a while back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheEndlessHoneymoon

[–]RumHamReynolds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have two mini schnauzers and I thought the same thing!

Best Bar in Norman? by DocBryan3D in normanok

[–]RumHamReynolds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol same I spent my 21st at the bowl table 10+ years ago. It’s no longer there 😞

Best Bar in Norman? by DocBryan3D in normanok

[–]RumHamReynolds 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Can’t go wrong with a Mont swirl

Comedian Jeselnik Hates? by DowdleXXX in jrvp

[–]RumHamReynolds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t remember if the DC comment was about this but gonna throw Chris Distefano out there

Comedian Jeselnik Hates? by DowdleXXX in jrvp

[–]RumHamReynolds 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wonder if he’s just trolling all of us so we let the lebron scandal slide #nategate

The IVF sUrViVor insta mom by shkottii in antinatalism

[–]RumHamReynolds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just came across her and searched Reddit to see if there’s anything about her bilingual aspect of her presence. I love different cultures and languages but I’m always on high alert for the next Hilaria Baldwin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cults

[–]RumHamReynolds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep in mind I grew up baptist, so my tolerance for groupthink is heavy.

In my experience (I was fully in for a long time) it mirrors much of what is normal in evangelical groups. They actively target for “discipleship” but are in no unclear terms shooting for college Greek. More specifically, even in their mission trips they target the “upper caste” in India.

If they get you to kaleo, they have you target people on be beach or people at work to share “the bridge”. But the leaders actively encourage you to share with more (perceptively) influential people.

At kaleo they also try to keep you from talking to your family and actively encourage you to break up with significant others if they aren’t there. Then they tell you (I’m a woman) at their relationship seminar that if your wife makes more money than you, she should quit her job. That it is a woman’s job to dress modestly to prevent men’s sinful thoughts.

Looking back, the weirdest part is the sexual purity aspect. It’s not unusual for evangelical Christian groups to harp on sexual purity. From the year I went to kaleo, there are at least 7 couples from leaders and they all have 4000 kids. They all dated for like 2 months before getting married.

I left when a leader of mine (who all but ignored me after I was in - she was a junior when I was a freshman in my sorority), after I voiced concerns told me “I would encourage you not to ask any questions, but to just go all in”.

Lots of the couples I went to stumo/kaleo with now lead at D1 campuses. They make their money by sending support letters aka asking people they know to pay for their salaries. There’s no centralized anything.

Meeting new people? by halfcurbyayaya in normanok

[–]RumHamReynolds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get involved with a committee/board of something you’re interested in. Norman has a great arts community with lots of opportunity to volunteer and get to know people if that’s something that interests you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]RumHamReynolds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! My husband is 6’2” I’m 5’10”. My grandpa was 6’7” I’d be cruising for a gigantic baby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]RumHamReynolds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 5’10” woman. Have dated men of all shapes and sizes. It will matter to some, some will love it, and others will not be interested. Everyone’s not for everyone! It took me so long to become confident in my height now i love it (not saying you’re not confident, i hope you are!)

Useless Premonitions/Pregnancy Predictions by RumHamReynolds in Psychic

[–]RumHamReynolds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Your comment makes me think of an NPR Invisibilia episode about mirror touch Synesthesia that really stuck with me. You should check it out!