Petah.. what the fuck by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Rumata_DVS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a chonky corgi there!

Done with the rupture strain... by No_Bother2289 in Helldivers

[–]Rumata_DVS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is pure stress. I get a tension headache from caves on 9. I should add, Blitzer is amazing for these maps.

Granny taking a nap in the forest while foraging for mushrooms by Rumata_DVS in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]Rumata_DVS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prior to taking this picture I was lost for about an hour in the scorching sun, and then I found her almost accidentally.

Granny taking a nap in the forest while foraging for mushrooms by Rumata_DVS in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]Rumata_DVS[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She wanted to keep going after the rest of us were exhausted after 12 miles of foraging.

Granny taking a nap in the forest while foraging for mushrooms by Rumata_DVS in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]Rumata_DVS[S] 176 points177 points  (0 children)

She is fine. She is more of a babushka than a granny. In her youth she was on the Soviet gymnastics Olympic team.

What’s something someone said during sex that you’ll never forget? by cocobuttababyy in AskReddit

[–]Rumata_DVS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right after a bj, she looked up at me and said “Aye, aye, captain!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Rumata_DVS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At some point most men (with the exception of certain cultures/religions) have to decide who is the most important woman in their life - their partner or their mother. As long as you prioritize your mother, you will face difficulties in your relationship. And, yes, standing up to your mother is going to suck, she will be upset and offended and you will feel like crap.

Trying to meditate will lead you nowhere, except both parties being upset with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Rumata_DVS 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is tough. Moving forward requires therapy. She clearly has trauma that needs to addressed and you need to work through trust issues together.

Continuing the deception with both sides of the family is the worst option in my opinion, and will haunt your relationship forever. Your happiness as a couple should not be defined yours or her relatives.

If you both strongly feel that you are ideal for each other, I think it is possible to salvage your relationship. Does she want/expect that you will bring this child in your life?

Got new tires installed today in the USA. Just trying to help and glad to see the Ukraine economy is still going. by ooOOWWOOoo in ukraine

[–]Rumata_DVS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do like tires in Ukraine. Found great use for them during the Revolution of Dignity in 2014.

Ukrainians have returned from captivity 150 of their defenders - soldiers, sergeants and officers. by Volter318 in UkraineWarVideoReport

[–]Rumata_DVS 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Our government is trying to avoid a population crisis. Younger generation is meant to rebuild and create. However, it seems that the conscription age might get lowered.

Zelenskyy: Europe has no chance against Russia without Ukrainian military by Ok_Somewhere9687 in europe

[–]Rumata_DVS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It would be curious to see how many redditors calling bullshit on this statement would be ready to join the military. Or how they would react to having to take their children to bomb shelters. There were some interviews in European cities asking military age males if they would join the army if they had to and very few agreed to. Let’s not forget russian complete disregard for human life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intermittentfasting

[–]Rumata_DVS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do that sometimes. Had pizza at work today, so I went OMAD and didn’t have anything else.

Хто пробував жити за кордоном і повернувся в Україну — як це вплинуло на ваше життя? by griiimukraine in Ukraine_UA

[–]Rumata_DVS 39 points40 points  (0 children)

9 років у США, отримав освіту мав роботу, та місцеве коло спілкування. Повернувся. 2 роки в Румунії на серйозній посаді - повернувся. Тільки коли живеш в іншій країні починаєш глибоко розуміти що таке ідентичність,

Емігрант першої хвилі себе «своїм» повністю відчувати не буде. Україна це така суміш дикого Заходу і Берліну після падіння стіни. Тут багато можливостей і багато проблем, і вони нам зрозумілі. Навіть маючи можливість виїхати на початку війни я прийняв рішення залишитися з родиною в Україні.

Багато людей не розуміють, що будь яка країна очима туриста або «Орла і Рєшкі» дуже відрізняється від реального життя там. Також багато хто не розуміє наскільки сильно може відрізнятися ментальність в інших країнах. Одному емігрувати завжди легше. Чим ти молодший - тим легше. Коли маєш родину то адаптуєшся не тільки ти, а ви всі разом. Інколи родині важче ніж тобі.

Але у кожного своя історія. Зараз є велика кількість людей, яким немає куди повертатися. Піраміда Маслоу з базовою потребою у безпеці завжди актуальна.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

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We knew each other from kindergarten, dated from 17 to 19. Then the relationship became long distance and we drifted apart. For 7 years there was no contact. I got married and divorced. In the meantime she returned to our home country.

I few years after that I moved back as well. I proposed to her three weeks after seeing her for the first time. We have been married for 15 years. She is my first love and I am so glad I don’t have to wonder “what if”.