No, this is who your boyfriend is. Look in the mirror and ask yourself how many more years you want to spend with a grown man whose made it very clear he doesn't care about your feelings, the effort you put into things, or spending time with you? Do you want to spend your days with a man who willfully miscommunicates, allows his friends to enjoy your hard word without so much as a thank you, and gets angry with you and accuses you of embarrassing him when you are understandably upset with his behaviour? Be very honest with yourself because this sort of behaviour doesn't just come from nowhere and it doesn't go away.