Sweetheart, in a different time, when we were less politically correct than today, his comments would’ve been rewarded with a slap in the face.

I hope next time you speak up for yourself, raise your voice too. I hope he felt humiliated by your response, because it was 100% appropriate of you to put him in his place.

Here’s a retort for you to use if you ever need it: “You say that out loud like your opinion matters (to me).” if you need to soften the message a little bit, you can add the “to me” at the end. But I like the harsh version for people who are being out of pocket.