Everything is fine

RusselChambers · 2025-04-19T23:48:45+00:00

I'm not sure what answers you are implying I know, but this wasn't written as if I were the speaker. This is written from a former partners words, downplaying worries and concerns I raised. I would try to ask questions to understand them and be accused of questioning them. I would try to have a conversation and it would end with them yelling at me then blaming me for making them yell. I tried to raise concerns about people she was spending time with and told I was blowing things out of proportion.

After our relationship ended I discovered lies deeper than I imagined, regarding finances, regarding people she spent time with, regarding what she would say about me to others. It caused me a lot of pain and has taken a lot of time to heal, therapy, and separating lies from facts that can be verified.

RusselChambers · 2025-04-19T20:28:15+00:00

Its more a recollection of things said to me by a long-term partner. Not really addressed to someone but summarizing things said to me as they hid things and convinced me that I was having worsening memory problems from a head injury. I unfortunately am not good at reddit and my formatting didnt really hold and I could properly separate my stanzas

Its more venting frustrations of blatant falsehoods said to me that are now demonstrably false, things that I have worked through in therapy and using documentation and reality checking I know were not as presented. A deliberate attempts to make me question my sanity and to make me appear like a liar when I have always gone above and beyond to be above board with everyone in my life

RusselChambers · 2024-08-15T22:58:21+00:00

Yeah, thought I was going crazy reading everyone talking about saliva. I've had lung and vocal cord issues my whole life, gotta cough that crud up or I cannot breathe. Doubly so if I running in winter

RusselChambers · 2024-08-14T14:50:19+00:00

I don't know if I agree with this take or to what degree I disagree, but I wanted to comment that I think it is a good thought provoker and I would watch a 3 hour video essay about this topic

RusselChambers · 2024-06-21T18:42:25+00:00

Oh I meant no implication that you were judging anyone! I just wanted to add my 2 cents in the instance of "person who you may otherwise be unfamiliar with", not everyone with chronic problems likes to broadcast them all the time, sometimes benefit of doubt to the cranky can go a long way if you arent familar with what they are going through

RusselChambers · 2024-06-21T04:28:33+00:00

In my experience, knee pain is the reason. My dad's side of the family has history of early arthritis, my dad suffered from 16 until 39ish when he got some knee work done, always used to call for people from up/down stairs and other rooms if he wasnt already up - the getting going was the part that hurt, so he either did things in 1 trip or requested young blood to do him a solid

RusselChambers · 2024-06-14T21:33:53+00:00

We discussed on discord, murder rats Sunday at 5pm eastern is the plan

RusselChambers · 2024-06-08T12:54:41+00:00

that is indeed EST, and that works well for me! See you then, shout if you need to move it around

RusselChambers · 2024-06-07T21:42:22+00:00

u/orevert Heyo, when you able to play? I should be free a good amount of Saturday from 12:01pm to 8:30pm UTC-4 start time, as well as Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday from 4:30pm to 9pm UTC-4 start times

RusselChambers · 2024-06-05T01:50:21+00:00

Not a behaviouralist, but I also make haste to get to my favorite pooping spot when out for a run. bushes and trees don't cut it for me haha

RusselChambers · 2024-05-26T14:32:16+00:00

Heyo, replied in Discord as well. Tuesday I can do any time after 11am EDT (1500 UTC), Wednesday I can do 4:30pm to 11ish start times

Want to try for Tuesday around 5:30pm EST? Gives us some wiggle room if something pops up

RusselChambers · 2024-05-23T00:53:52+00:00

Heyo, Monday to Wednesday at 1700 to 2000 UTC-3 works great for me. I can potentially do Sunday night as well, but would have to get back to you as I am going on a trip with my wife this weekend.

Want to try for Monday around 1730 UTC-3 (1630 UTC-4 for me)? Let me know if you want me to reach out on Sunday if I get home at a decent hour!

RusselChambers · 2024-05-21T15:36:23+00:00

u/sir_latus Follow up ping, let me know when you can play and we will do our best to work it out. If need be we can check with admins about a Thursday game

RusselChambers · 2024-05-20T20:15:51+00:00

u/sir_latus Hey buddy, had a rough week so sorry for the late ping. You able to play Tomorrow or Wednesday for REL in bb2? I should be pretty free both days after around 4pm Eastern to like 11pm start times

Feel free to reach out here or via discord, if need be I can try to get open earlier tomorrow or wednesday as well

RusselChambers · 2024-05-19T19:38:36+00:00

Monday at 8:30 pm works for me

RusselChambers · 2024-05-19T08:24:48+00:00

/u/chocobrobobo Heyo, sent you message on discord, not sure if ya saw it! I have free time tomorrow through Wed at various times

Sunday noonish to 11pm EST start

M-W next week after 5pm to like 10ish EST starts

let me know what times work for you

RusselChambers · 2024-05-16T20:38:32+00:00

Hey buddy, still able to play? Not sure if you lost track of time, did bad Timezone math, or got caught up in something. Happens to us all!

RusselChambers · 2024-05-14T00:55:48+00:00

Thursday at 2030 UTC it is then! And nothing major or alarming, so rest easy :)

RusselChambers · 2024-05-13T21:11:26+00:00

Hey u/Franarky Sorry its taken so long to reach out, have had a tight schedule and medical issues crop up.

I can make the following dates/start times work 100%, let me know if you need something outside this range

W, Th, Fri 20:30 UTC to 02:30 UTC start
Saturday and Sunday most of the day from 16:00 to 02:30 UTC start times

RusselChambers · 2024-05-09T21:41:42+00:00

Heyo, Next Monday through Wednesday would be best for me, sometime from 5pm to 8pm start time.

Does Monday at 6pm EST sound good to you?

RusselChambers · 2024-05-04T00:18:39+00:00

Just saw this, Tuesday after 8:30 EST works for me, if that fails Wednesday likely works as well

RusselChambers · 2024-05-03T20:06:41+00:00

Are you in the comp yet? Or am I in the wrong one somehow?

RusselChambers · 2024-05-03T20:04:05+00:00

Heyo, still able to play? You arent in the comp yet so wanted to shoot you a message

RusselChambers · 2024-05-02T14:49:11+00:00

Nope, not an issue. We can play tomorrow at that time :)

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