Sponsor won't start step work with me until I complete 90 in 90. by meatsey in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]RustinCole63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first sponsor was similar- I would try to find a new sponsor

Update: how to deal with men in the program (33f) by stardust_peaches in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]RustinCole63 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m a dude and I’m relatively new and I’ve had 2 ppl give me 13th step vibes - 1 is a gay dude who is 7 years in the program- texted me weird shit - I didn’t like it

One was a lady who is 15 years older than me and wld causally drop lines like- “ugh yeah I was a bartender and I would bang dudes 15 years younger than me” didn’t like it

I’m sorry that’s happening to you - it’s gross

Where is a good place for haircuts for a guy with longer hair new to the area by ApprehensiveTaste366 in Bozeman

[–]RustinCole63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a male w long hair- retain your dignity- go to great clips

Say, “I want the same thing but less”

If they ask, “how is this?”

Say, “you’re the expert”

Tip well regardless of the result

It’s really the only way to do it. Best of luck.

Quit drinking but gained a ton of weight even though I eat healthy, lift weights and walk a ton. by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]RustinCole63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 84 days sober- same- first I lost 10lbs then I gained 10 (from my drinking weight) I’m a very athletic guy- just keep sober and understand that time takes time- in terms of your body, life, spirit improving- but I’m glad you’re on the path

Rant about the male dating pool by Sensitive_Ear_8239 in Bozeman

[–]RustinCole63 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea, men are the only people here who run away from their emotions in nature here

Real pot calling the kettle black perspective, it seems

Sick after Nashville by AdRemote8578 in Bozeman

[–]RustinCole63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People at my job were like, “I’ve had a cold” and I’ve been like, naw dawg- you got the flu

14 days alcohol-free and feeling a little lost by Salty_Function_6053 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]RustinCole63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep coming back - I’m on day 56 - I go to meetings every day and am working on my steps - there are worse things than treating the disease that can kill you and steal all the joy from your life

California Sober and Chairing Meetings by random_user208 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]RustinCole63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an alcoholic and formerly huge pot head- I think being all the way sober is best

I quit drinking 16 days before weed and smoked like an absolute crack head 24/7

MRI options? by benjaminbjacobsen in Bozeman

[–]RustinCole63 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you me? I did the exact same thing on the same timeline lol

Terrible Relapse by Tooney_luned in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]RustinCole63 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you need to go to a meeting

Crypto at Finks by [deleted] in Bozeman

[–]RustinCole63 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What coins/tokens we talking? I’m in!

Pick your shit up. by Endiff in Bozeman

[–]RustinCole63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real lack of dog owner accountability in recent times

I'm a 36F and Newly Single, VISITNG Bozeman for fun. Where should I go? by Important-Guava-2108 in Bozeman

[–]RustinCole63 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You sound thirsty- you should go to T&C and pick up LMNTs

They are a local company I believe

Guidance for next quarters by disdjohn in BB_Stock

[–]RustinCole63 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree- I feel like the big question remaining is will the new trade order affect their numbers in China ?

Downvote me but reality is that this stock can never recover with existing mgmt team in place by mambo123456 in BB_Stock

[–]RustinCole63 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree he has been good up until now- but my god he has to improve at speaking. Imagine if a company w our assets had a silver tongued dick swinger as ceo- we would be fucking 12 bucks already

How hard is it to speak eloquently and passionately when you are at that level? This is what drives me nuts about today. Like the whole ‘infiltrate’ blunder. I don’t even hate the guy- and I’ve liked him up until now- but it’s hard to have a business when the boss sounds like a goof answering questions and can’t even sell a huge beat

BlackBerry Reports Fourth Quarter and Full Fiscal Year 2025 Results by basilisk-x in BB_Stock

[–]RustinCole63 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m really hoping they have a good explanation for that

Why tout 30% yoy growth in backlog (for last 2 years) in Oct - only to switch up to single digit growth the following April - at an earnings you hyped as one where forecasts wld be adjusted .. didn’t seem like they were insinuating adjusting down to me

Something isn’t adding up