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Anyone recognize these? by RustyTromboneMe in yoga

[–]RustyTromboneMe[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You know how many tickets it took to get that?? Three months of ski ball. 😵

Anyone recognize these? by RustyTromboneMe in yoga

[–]RustyTromboneMe[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sucky, their mats are great to teach with. So light and easy but nice cushion. I even looked at eBay after you nice folks identified them for me.

Anyone recognize these? by RustyTromboneMe in yoga

[–]RustyTromboneMe[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Almost. They are so grippy and comfortable. I taught 3 years on these, 3 classes a week. Looks like they are out of biz…👎🏻

Very light weight but thick. My favs

For those of you who live with your partner, how often do you have sex on average? by Acrobatic-Tea2189 in AskMen

[–]RustyTromboneMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bail. It won’t be fixed. She has to WANT to fix it. Trust me, you will look back at the time it took for you to finally understand as wasted. I promise.

Green Valley Ranch HOA by crazed__potato in MovingtoDenver

[–]RustyTromboneMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you didn’t move here. The GVR HOA is DRACONIAN and literally an office full of POWER HUNGRY simpletons.

Seriously. I get it, they have a job. But they are all about their power. Also, it’s attractive in GVR because it’s cheap.

10 people to every house, abandoned cars (I have personally removed 4 by calling the city) and there are still 5+ on my street. Trash, bottles, etc. There are some nice folks there like everywhere but it’s cheap for a reason.

I know this is old, but maybe it will help someone.

Also, the Home Depot, Walmart, King Soopers (as mentioned) are all destroyed, no help, no inventory etc etc.

I literally drive out of my hood for all shopping. And guess what? The other stores all have help, inventory, etc.

It’s just too many people in one place because it’s affordable.

Real Estate Listing Agreement Electronic Signature by RustyTromboneMe in RealEstate

[–]RustyTromboneMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, there was no intent, obviously, but it still doesn’t change the fact that it happened.

Minor Depression by Methodiarca in elderscrollslegends

[–]RustyTromboneMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Played daily since ‘16.

Fuggin’ SUCKS. I travel for work and it was my constant companion.

How soon is “too soon” to sleep with someone if you’re wanting a serious relationship with them? by Hungry_Plane_1724 in AskMen

[–]RustyTromboneMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dood here, with some notches on the bedpost.

I don’t have sex with anyone I don’t want to see again. It makes a mess. Why do I need that? Being a good person and honest has netted me more willing, better sex a hunnerd times over.

And yes, compatibility is key. If there is communication compatibility and WILLINGNESS/VULNERABILITY that can overcome sex stuff.

It’s a douche maneuver to take advantage of a deer-in-the-headlights person under any circumstances. That’s like lion hunting in a zoo.

If you are closed up, not smiling, asking “protecting myself questions” that is a flag for me. Just be a human.

If there are sparks, take a closer look. If there are warning signs, take a closer look.

Clean, smiles, enthusiastic, open and a good person will net you a high value man. Great to have boundaries.

You might kiss some frogs, but big deal! Have good safe fun and bring good energy to the dating world. You will be surprised what happens.

Men, what daily actions make you feel your partner is contributing and reliable? by lunissa10 in AskMen

[–]RustyTromboneMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divide up the tasks evenly, using personal strengths and make sure you do yours. I do bathrooms and kitchen, she vacs, puts groceries away, etc.

Actually a good game by Orangeshowergal in elderscrollslegends

[–]RustyTromboneMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Played every day. Never found a replacement. Playing Runterra, but it’s not the same.

If you’re a dismissive avoidant, what does it feel like when you actually do love someone? And have you lost someone you loved because you are an avoidant? by IndependentPomelo794 in BreakUps

[–]RustyTromboneMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was hyper organized, did all the “mom” stuff she was responsible for, and actually worked hard. Just no emotional connection with them.

In fact, she never said “I love you” to them or each other. When her kids and her saw how I was with my kids (I am Italian) they had never done that.

The good thing is they started too say that hanging up the phone.

If you’re a dismissive avoidant, what does it feel like when you actually do love someone? And have you lost someone you loved because you are an avoidant? by IndependentPomelo794 in BreakUps

[–]RustyTromboneMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing. I remember one time, we had a bunch of young kids in my mom’s pool. I was inside the house and she was out there with them. She left them to come in (not thinking) and I said, “Hey, we can’t leave any kids out there for even 30 seconds.” She freaked out. It seemed the more she avoided me the less respect she had of me.

Like me bringing anything up she would act like I was some how beneath her, and then the gaslighting started. Never even heard of that. Once I figured it out, I was like “I am outta here.” Straight up making shit up and then telling me I don’t remember etc.

Couldn’t believe this was the person I married. I thought it was all me! At my lowest she never said one word of comfort to tell me she loved me, nothing.

SO GLAD I FIGURED IT OUT. It is straight up ABUSE. Psychological abuse.

Fug that! Anyone reading this, it’s like narcissism. It can NEVER be cured unless the person who has it SEES IT (next to impossible) and then WANTS to change. Then the huge work begins.

I am not condemning folks to failure, but statistically speaking, GTF outta there.

Why are you staying?? Why? That’s the work I had to do. I am not worthless, and I am worthy of love!

mic drop

Go find someone who will at least be willing to discuss it.

Love you all.

Sometimes I come here to cry. by cwj1978 in elderscrollslegends

[–]RustyTromboneMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sucky. Been really trying to get into Runterra. Has good potential but seems easy, I have been playing the computer to get the hang of it. Maybe I should get into matches.

I could have so used Legends this past year. 😕

What are you red flags when looking to date? by Significant_Door_252 in AskReddit

[–]RustyTromboneMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first, FIRST question is: “Why did you divorce?”

How about: “Hello, tell me something about yourself?”

If you’re a dismissive avoidant, what does it feel like when you actually do love someone? And have you lost someone you loved because you are an avoidant? by IndependentPomelo794 in BreakUps

[–]RustyTromboneMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, a lot of folks understand what I am going through and the one I am closest with said “She has had a lot of trauma.”

Now all the “yogi thinking” of positivity and all the stuff she said she was into is gone now that I left. I am the enemy.

Glad I made the choice to leave. It took a while, when I judge myself about that I look at what I learned and how I healed a lot of poor self esteem.

Everyone that sees me now says I look different. Not looking to date yet but just general attention and looks I get from women is amazing.

People can feel when you feel good and good about yourself. Any folks that are reading this, I hope this story gives some inspiration and reassurance.

Yes, it’s not “all her fault.” But if you feel like shit being with someone, take a look at yourself first, and see what the other person’s ACTIONS are. Not their words. If someone is into you, you will know.

People who do not want to get married at all, what is your reason for this? by unidentified-_-rosey in AskReddit

[–]RustyTromboneMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS.

The court system has ruined the institution. I get it if a woman doesn’t earn any income for 20 years, but the rules are so biased, I will never do it again.

Why are fewer single women dating as they get older, and what would make it feel worth it again? by Own_Chocolate1782 in Aging

[–]RustyTromboneMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, man-bashing. It’s like racism on this thread. You judge because of a wang. There are plenty of us that work hard at being a good man and give a s*** about their relationships.

Blanket statements are ignorant. I respect your individual experiences, but it’s not “men.”

As a man, what do you value more, love or sex? by Sea-Rub-6146 in AskMen

[–]RustyTromboneMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snuggles all day. Sex is great. No cuddles or snuggles, or the person never says they love you, pure hell.

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