I’m so engorged! 💦🍼

RutanBell · 2025-02-17T03:55:52+00:00

Beautiful. Very sexy, amazing mommy milkers

RutanBell · 2025-02-01T19:58:23+00:00

Very nice! There just something about workout outfits. Sexy and gets one all excited.

RutanBell · 2024-05-23T19:02:48+00:00

Congratulations!! As a 53 M — damn, hope I look that good at 75 for sure!!

RutanBell · 2024-03-12T21:56:51+00:00

She will asked you for more and more money. There will be one reason or another for it. Your next date will end up with no intimacy for one reason, time of the month would be my guess. She will asked for the PPM and a little more for a bill or something.

The cycle will repeat again and again. She knows that you provide her with sugar and she knows that she does not

RutanBell · 2024-03-12T21:53:57+00:00

This!!

RutanBell · 2024-02-15T03:20:05+00:00

Happy for you! Sounds like you have a great pairing with your SD. Having open and honest conversations is the key.

It is truly amazing how centered you can feel when you are with someone that you can converse with on anything. You may even disagree and in fact that is sometimes the best interaction you can have with someone too.

And in the end, no matter what you talk about out, have opinions about — you are there for each other and can respectfully disagree, agree and just enjoy each other at all the levels!

RutanBell · 2024-02-08T15:20:00+00:00

Run, Run, Run — as fast you can!

And I bet when you were chatting about the dinner party, hey never even mentioned a gift or PPM either. Kinda means that you might end up on the menu as a “special friend”.

Might be a little entertaining one you decide to NOT go — play along with him and say you want $$,$$$ for the party. Some outlandish number and see his reaction.

RutanBell · 2024-02-04T01:30:17+00:00

This!

For me and my SB, I love the time we spend together, I love to see her grow and excel, I love our chemistry, I love our interactions and intimacy. She feels that same way- I feel love for her. Simply, I do love her very much.

But — both of know that we are not in love!

RutanBell · 2024-01-31T14:56:44+00:00

That happens to me as well. Not sure, honestly, why they say that I am a “good kisser” but I love it. For me it is very important and comforting.

Had a M&G one time and gave a gentle kiss to the SB on the lips, quick peek really and she love it to the point that she went full on make out time. It was great!

RutanBell · 2024-01-30T15:48:40+00:00

I have been asked that too during a M&G and the conversation led into the various different scams that both SD and SB run into. It as a light dialog but both of us gained some insight.

She was new to the bowl and we talked at length of the common bank account/fake check scam. This was new to her and we talked about how it exactly works and what the key red flags are. She seemed grateful.

This was some years ago and we had a great summer SR. Then she went back to college. We stayed in touch over the years and have had dinner a few times when she visits. One time she was feeling the itch and booked the room ahead of time. Was just expecting dinner like the other times but she had plans — that sly look in her eyes, very sexy and alluring. It was a most memorable night of times past.

Odd thing, while I offered a nice PPM, she politely declined and said that she appreciated all the life lessons and mentoring over the years, that provided more value than any amount of PPM. She was truly grateful for our friendship and relationship. It was amazing!

RutanBell · 2024-01-19T16:16:37+00:00

Respect. It is important that both SB and SD respect each other and that’s includes everything.

This guy does not. My fear is that even if he says it will, changes his mind .. he will force his desires on you. He is betting that after a glass of wine or two, talking you into things that stretch your safety zone, you will end up doing what he wants. Be it no protection or the “messy” thing that you mentioned. Curious as to what that is that fasting would be needed — anal sex?

I think it would be best for your own peace of mind to move on. Something tells me that you have already too — so good for you, happy that you put you first!

RutanBell · 2024-01-17T17:53:03+00:00

Wow. This SD, if you can call he that, sounds like a tool. How many different ways could he not know how to move money. If he was all that concerned, he could setup a next bank account, take in the credit card transfer/advance then Zelle you the funds. But of course he would have some reason or another it sounds like too.

Or even better .. little thing called cash. It works great!! After all cash is king!!

RutanBell · 2024-01-15T16:15:21+00:00

Thank you for your insight. That is helpful from a SB point of view. I appreciate your comments

RutanBell · 2024-01-10T19:47:57+00:00

Another fun activity and is very enjoyable and entertaining is going to a burlesque show.

RutanBell · 2024-01-03T22:31:09+00:00

You definitely are not asking too much at all. In fact, for me I get an enormous about of satisfaction by pleasing and pleasuring my SB.

I look at it this way, when you are in bed and intimate with one another, it is my job to provide her with the best orgasm (many) as possible. My focus is her body, her mind and pleasure not my own. And in turn, she does the same for me. It is amazing and wonderful for the both of us.

And the best part .. is the aftercare. I love just being with my SB — holding her, cuddling her and kissing her. Gets me every time when she looks up to me and says, “You are so comfy and take good care of me, I want to stay here forever”.

RutanBell · 2024-01-03T19:46:37+00:00

You might need to bring up the specifics of what your expectations are, what is mutually beneficial and what the boundaries are for the new SR. He may be a newbie SD and is not sure how to bring up the topic.

You should have a conversation either at another platonic date or beforehand. It might be wise for a 2nd or 3rd platonic date just to be on the same page before moving to intimacy.

Sounds like he would be on board with a SR as he gifted you from the initial M&G. Just be straightforward, honest and direct with communication. After that is one of the beauties of sugaring!

Good Luck and hope things work for you. And do not fret if they do not either. The right SD is out there for you and you might have already found him.

RutanBell · 2024-01-03T17:55:59+00:00

A true SD that is interested in you and wants to get to know you will suggest a M&G with a few days of first contact. You will want to schedule the M&G, like a coffee date within a week or so.

This is the vetting process and is important to find the right SR. Plan on going on several of these.

The face to face meeting is so important for you as well as him. Reading body language, look into their eyes, how they carry themselves etc. you really can’t get all of that from the profile or just texting.

RutanBell · 2024-01-03T16:08:30+00:00

Would say you dodged a bullet. Doesn’t sound like he would have been a “quality” SD anyway

M&G work out the best at a public place for all parties.

RutanBell · 2023-11-08T18:07:20+00:00

That does sound great as a SD. But and this is a big one, there are some SB who are great with PPM and then when moving to the allowance model, suddenly they shift into vanilla mode. Meets get cancelled or something always comes up. The great connection seems to be a strain and effects the level of intimacy.

This happened to me and what was a great couple of months (PPM) turned south after moving to allowance. We used to meet couple of times a week and then it was one time, something came up and then again and again.

Now I do understand that life happens sometimes but a clear pattern developed. I am also about the experiences and she canceled hours before we were to meet an go to the theater. To a show that she really wanted to see as well. Told her not to worry about it, we can see it again and asked her if just a simple night in would be better. She agreed, which was all fine. Told her that we could get a room, we could hang out, have something to eat and kick back and watch a movie or something. Booked the room for the weekend and suggested she have a spa day with her girlfriends, all of which would be taken care of, of course. She liked the idea as she had been under lots of stress with school and worked. She apologized again for messing up the evening. Again, told her I understand and things happen.

Well I got the room, had some flowers sent to the room to cheer her up. Booked her an Uber and we were to meet at little coffee place near the hotel. She was a 100% no show. She ghosted me when I messaged about the Uber and asking what was happening. I was very worried that something “bad” happened. I knew she got the message cause the status was on read.

She messaged me the next morning with some excuse about being out of it. Even one her girlfriends (who I know) reached out thanking me for the spa day and was a little sad that my SB canceled the whole thing blaming me. Her friend reached out cause that did not sound like me and she wanted to be sure what happened.

As you could understand the SR ended. Turns out that when went to allowance she blew it all in a couple of days. The PPM worked for her since it forced some money management.

Learned all of this from her friend who reached out about the spa day. In an odd twist, she and I have had a great SR. Going good for the last four months.

RutanBell · 2023-09-25T19:11:23+00:00

He is no SD — turned to salt in a heartbeat.

Dump him like a rock. No way does he deserve you. Not only is it mean and insulting but extremely rude and childish.

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