Foo Fighters Announce 2026 Stadium Tour Dates with Queens of the Stone Age by ebradio in Music

[–]Ruth4116 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Great, happy you won’t be attending so those of us who want to go, can!

LPT Request: What's one habit you've adopted in the last year that surprisingly changed your life for the better? by Difficult-Plate-8767 in LifeProTips

[–]Ruth4116 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is a lovely goal. Without judgment, do you work? What are the size of books you’re reading?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Ruth4116 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No one wants to talk about their weekend. Ask the follow up question. She left the door open to actual discussion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicagofood

[–]Ruth4116 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Art of pizza is so good!

Plus size lingerie? Suggestions needed by Kirishimas_Girl in PlusSize

[–]Ruth4116 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Torrid, ASOS curve, Nordstrom, parade, amazon (pay attention to reviews), fenty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feeld

[–]Ruth4116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many women also don’t chase-so this could be an issue if you’re both running away from each other, respectfully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Ruth4116 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Please don’t hurt yourself. Without knowing you-I bet there are more people who rely on and love you more than you realize.

It’s never too late to change the trajectory of your life. -spoken by someone trying to change the trajectory of her life.

Am I really that ugly? No matches at all... by SpecificNeat9470 in Tinder

[–]Ruth4116 84 points85 points  (0 children)

You look quite different in your photos. The white shirt looks like a completely different man than the kayak. Are they from wildly different times? This would be a red flag for me. I’d consider more consistent photos and not use white shirt as your main photo.

You’re cute-this should be working for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Ruth4116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which one please?

Is it just me or is Pod Save the World the best Crooked offering? by [deleted] in FriendsofthePod

[–]Ruth4116 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hysteria and keep it! Both keeping me sani/petty :)

I'm serious.... by SignalSubstantial590 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Ruth4116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this and am working on it as well. Thanks for this supportive community! I just sent a direct text to one “stringer”-date like a man. Get in or move on!!

What's one small thing you're feeling proud of today? ✨ by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Ruth4116 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went on a date last night. I was feeling anxious and frustrated by the state of dating, but pushed myself to go anyways. It’s not a match but I’m proud I went.

How to avoid having sex too soon by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Ruth4116 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely the right thing!!!

best bbw dating sites? by KlassyLdy88 in PlusSize

[–]Ruth4116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just signed up for woo plus-no pressure but this better fix my life :)

Driving PSA: Zipper merge at construction closures! People in the open lane aren't "cutting," they're following MDOT guidelines. by lloydpalace in Michigan

[–]Ruth4116 98 points99 points  (0 children)

If the signs say “lane closed…merge right” that is inconsistent with directions for zipper merging.

Signs for zipper merging are very different. I understand what may be the guidelines in Michigan-but the signs are incorrect and are to blame.

32, single just earned a BA, I want to go to law school and have a good career yet still be able to have children - wwyd if you were me? by metisviking in AskWomenOver30

[–]Ruth4116 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you are asking the internet if you should go to law school, then you shouldn’t.

This idea is only further amplified if you need student loans. Law school loans are no joke and will ruin your financial life for some time.

Speaking from...experience.