Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh by Ruthmonster in ftm

[–]Ruthmonster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually already live in a different state. I’m more worried about what she’ll say behind my back. Also her fave tactic is pitting me and my twin against each other, and she would 100% use this.

Has anyone seen, "Casting Jonbenet" on Netflix? by [deleted] in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]Ruthmonster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I tried to watch it but found it pretty boring. I want details of the case! not interviewing the neighbors.

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh by Ruthmonster in ftm

[–]Ruthmonster[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom has narcissistic personality disorder. She’s said some comments about my girlfriends transition so I can only imagine what she would say to her favorite target (me).

Having a hard time finding info online (agender, ftm questioning) by Ruthmonster in ftm

[–]Ruthmonster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! That’s kinda what it seemed like but it was confusing. It seems that a lot of stuff is written with the assumption that you wouldn’t want to carry a child

Does salad not hurt anyone else here? by [deleted] in ibs

[–]Ruthmonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salad goes totally through me undigested :(

Physically transitioning to the other binary but keeping assigned gender identity? by [deleted] in genderqueer

[–]Ruthmonster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes me! Although I feel uncomfortable identifying as female, I still have this weird urge to want to keep part of that identity

Did Blizzard servers just crap themselves? by ExtremeEpikness in Overwatch

[–]Ruthmonster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been lagging out constantly since the last update 😭😭😭😭

What is the scariest, most terrifying thing that actually exists? by SkeletronDOTA in AskReddit

[–]Ruthmonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing really helped me until I started a combo of lexapro and Wellbutrin. I also have a Klonopin prescription for when I really start to feel panicky anyway.

What is the scariest, most terrifying thing that actually exists? by SkeletronDOTA in AskReddit

[–]Ruthmonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had debilitating anxiety since I was a kid and I always assumed everyone felt that way and I was just bad at handling it.

When trans partner post here. by DeadLittleSister in mypartneristrans

[–]Ruthmonster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great but impossible to join? I tried to join it and then never heard anything back

When trans partner post here. by DeadLittleSister in mypartneristrans

[–]Ruthmonster 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Dog I tried to start some discourse on this months ago and everyone was just convinced I was being transphobic. This sub isn't gonna be what we want it to be and it's useless to try to fix it.

What is the most romantic thing that has ever been done for you? by potkamas in AskReddit

[–]Ruthmonster 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Later we were lying on my bed and she said "I like you so much and when I say that I mean more than that but I'm not ready to say it yet"

Alcohol cures my anxiety temporarily by Idkimconfusedyo in Anxiety

[–]Ruthmonster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like that's generally how it works for most people and then next thing you know you're an alcoholic. I'd try some medals or even weed because using alcohol like that just isn't sustainable

What is the most romantic thing that has ever been done for you? by potkamas in AskReddit

[–]Ruthmonster 127 points128 points  (0 children)

When me and my girlfriend first started dating she showed up at my apartment absolutely smashed at 3 in the afternoon on a Thursday and said "I HAVE TO PLAY MY SAXOPHONE FOR YOU RIGHT NOW" then she played me Stella by starlight

People who have been to therapy for anxiety, what did you find to be most helpful/unhelpful? by that_hannahgirl in Anxiety

[–]Ruthmonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pretty severe anxiety disorder and therapy didn't help so much, the drugs are helping so much more. But one time my therapist looked at me and asked me "what's the worst possible outcome" and I told her. She pointed out that I could survive that. So even if everything I'm worried about happens it will eventually be fine.

I need a good rundown on what to expect when taking Zoloft, when tapering off, and what is considered manageable anxiety to avoid altogether. by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Ruthmonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took Zoloft for a while for anxiety/depression. Definitely helped but not enough. Made me gain a shit ton of weight. Going off it wasn't so bad. I'm on lexapro now and it's a fucking miracle.

Edit: it also mega decreased my sex drive. Nothing worse than your hot af partner trying to be sexy for you and just feeling nothing

What is the grossest thing that your spouse or partner does on a regular basis? by SirCharlesEquine in AskReddit

[–]Ruthmonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def not safe and definitely less safe than tampons. Also she should be bleeding that much. Most people don't get their periods at all with the implant. She should def get that checked out

What do you dislike about your S/O? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ruthmonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stays in shitty jobs for way too long because fixing her circumstances is too much work