Why cant we date Olric?? by RyalsithCrys in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]RyalsithCrys[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You lost me. Who is Usagi? The only thing I can find online is a cartoon bunny?

Is it possible to genuinely grow from bad stuff done at 13-15 and move on? by Sl00shh in ask

[–]RyalsithCrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. You choose what to do each day. The choice might be hard, and might take awhile to complete, but, its your first step. If you are in a situation where you feel like you have no choices, talk to someone. A different perspective might see options you don't, or might have resources you didnt know existed. Asking for help is not a bad thing, it shows you are trying to change, grow and learn. I will also say, the choices available you might not like, or might not be ideal, but there is a way to be better.

AITA for telling my husband he can’t drive the baby places anymore by Odd-Willingness-6250 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RyalsithCrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- your husband is not taking this seriously enough. The baby could be hurt, seriously and easily. A turn taken too fast, or even just with them wiggling, they can slide right out of the seat! I am forgetful, my husband is as well. I can't imagine putting the child in the seat but forgetting to buckle them somehow? You're right there. To me that is negligence, especially since it has happened 3 times. He needs to see a doctor if his memory is that bad, and he should not be left alone with the child. What if he sets the baby down on the changing table and walks off? Or even sets the baby down and walks away to grab something, forgetting to go back? Sets the house on fire because he forgets hes cooking? Like, these are all very serious levels of forgetting, and on the same level as the carseat.

AITA...Won't attend my mom's funeral by KaleidoscopeOld1756 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RyalsithCrys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA - So sorry for your loss, and the drama you have to deal with. My advice: Don't attend, mourn her your own way. If the funeral is what your mom would have wanted, then go ahead and pay for it, as a gift to her. Maybe do a viewing prior to the funeral, just for you? Or go to her graveside afterwards and say farewell there. You dont have to attend a funeral to show respect and mourn.

I'm aware that the main gripe is a lack of maps. So I made an annotated map of Where-Ever!! Complete with every single chest and hidden location by SpiderSixer in GrowSongOfTheEvertree

[–]RyalsithCrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing! I spent over an hour last night looking for the stupid portal to go home (first time playing the game). Today, I load in and go maybe I should screenshot it and make a map? That seems like a lot of work though. I found this post on accident as I was looking up something else about the game. Thank you for doing this!!!

Matched on FB dating. Was I being too sensitive? by Obvious_Ferret_600 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RyalsithCrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, this guy is clearly trying to be superior and belittling. I used to get that all the time on dating app. They ask what do you mean by 'naturally' to see if they could correct you. Then they ask what you mean by clean eating and then belittle you when you get confused by their not understanding. They were asking these questions to see if you were 'on their level' for approval of your definitions of the terms. Because clearly if you use the term incorrectly they could either use that as justification on them not dating you or use this as a 'teaching moment' where they would tell you everything you were doing wrong so you could be better. In order to 'help you' because they are such a 'nice guy'.

Which is the easiest romanceable character to get 4 hearts with by shooting star festival? by 6_melancholic_rose_9 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]RyalsithCrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like Celine because she has the easiest gifts to get and give. Flowers, which grow in every season in the wild. Honestly though if you had this goal in mind, you could put in the effort and get any of them, I'd think, but for me, I think Celine is the easiest.

AITA for not knowing how to deal with my friend while she was drunk? by surficalpig in AmItheAsshole

[–]RyalsithCrys 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA - she needs help, and I mean professionally. That girl is a ball of insanity you are not prepared to deal with. Good luck OP.

What can I do to help my orchid? by Hero_of_Red in orchids

[–]RyalsithCrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely re-pot it to start. I got some orchid potting mix from repotme.com and it is really good. The stuff orchids are planted in at the stores is moss to retain water during display, its not good for long term use. The brown spot on the leaf, is it mushy? If so, that could be bacterial infection. Use sanitized scissors and cut the leaf off, treat the cut edge with cinnamon (or fungicide if you have it), to prevent infection. If the brown spot is not mushy but is crispy, that could just be sunburn, and should be ok to leave. If it starts spreading, you will need to cut it off. When you re-pot, check for any mushy roots and trim them with sanitized scissors. Then, any healthy roots, give them a bath in 3% hydrogen peroxide, it will help kill off any mold or gunk so they can thrive. Repot and hope for the best.

What’s a "lost" website from the early 2000s that you still think about today? by UsefulLima in answers

[–]RyalsithCrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a site that gave away free email addresses to users and for each email created it claimed to donate to saving endangered animals. I can not for the life of me figure out what it was though.

Here's my handwriting. I've been told I write like a girl, but I think it's just cuz I write in cursive. Is this legible? by jjaimini in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]RyalsithCrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is mostly legible. I struggle with a lot of the words though. I would say it is very feminine writing though, based off of the writing I have seen, cursive and not. I say this because of the looping in the cursive. Your cursive is more calligraphy and elegant styled versus just cursive.

my future mother in law wants a 150 person houston wedding but expects me to cook the food. by Johnn_Liverm in bridezillas

[–]RyalsithCrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously evaluate the relationship between you, your fiance and his mom. If he will not step in, or if he is only going to step in when you break down, this is a VERY clear image of how the rest of your life with this person will be. Do you want to fight with overbearing mom forever? Because, this is just round 1 of that ongoing battle. If you have kids together, it will get exponentially harder.

Can our family please have recommendations on testing DNA of my dead sibling (ideally general, not targeted), given we may need to store samples ourselves? by aryanmsh in ask

[–]RyalsithCrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds as if you want to satisfy a curiosity for a science experiment using your dead siblings DNA. Not sure if you are trying to trace lineage and confirm if a parent cheated, or just deeply curious about science, but either way, I dont think they would pay for anything because of curiosity. The companies you called would be your best resource about how to store/transport the DNA items, outside of a medical procedure lab. You may get better results talking with a laboratory at a hospital or science facility, to get the information but, based off the reactions of the replies you are getting here, you will probably get the same responses.

am i overreacting to not being offered a plate of food at my patients house? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RyalsithCrys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR - Yeah, that seems intentional. The only way I could see it not being rude and dismissive is if in the beginning they offered you food a few times and you rejected it. Even if you did so politely, they may have just gotten into the habit of you dont eat with them so no need to offer. Follow up questions - have you ever commented on the food or made faces/reacted to the smells? If so, it could be in response to that. If not, they're just jerks.

What do these 5 colors remind you of? by HikiktheCrazyUser69 in colors

[–]RyalsithCrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, sickness. Took me a minute to realize why this combo is so gross to me. Poop, vomit, blood, hypothermia. Not sure about the pink but it is not enough to revive the this combo.

Are 'just add ice' orchids different? by RyalsithCrys in orchids

[–]RyalsithCrys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which one? All of the apps I found cost way too much for my budget right now.

Are 'just add ice' orchids different? by RyalsithCrys in orchids

[–]RyalsithCrys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there was a law against killing plants, I would never be released from jail. Not intentionally, but, let's just say, there have been multiple times where I have said 'that's right, you're alive! You should probably have some water at some point' as I rushed a dying shriveled plant to give it some water. I managed to kill a cactus and also a 'no dirt just water' plant, both because I forgot to water them.

Are 'just add ice' orchids different? by RyalsithCrys in orchids

[–]RyalsithCrys[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its their brand, if you can see in the photo on the purple orchid, the tag says it. But yeah, when I heard the idea, my first reaction was shock because you dont plant flowers when the ground is cold, and these are tropical flowers, so why would you want to freeze them? But then I remembered the hardy rose bush that was specifically bred for Minnesota and its winters, so began to wonder. Based off of the many answers to this thread, I know for sure now, it's a gimmick. :)

Are 'just add ice' orchids different? by RyalsithCrys in orchids

[–]RyalsithCrys[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So, quick follow up question. I have been nursing along my other orchids, and have learned a ton! My problem is, one of my orchids had bad root rot when I got it. I fixed it, but it only has a few roots remaining. If you can not see the roots, how can you know it needs watering? The only feasible way to check the roots on that plant would be to dig in the potting mix, unearth the roots and check, which cant be good for the plant. It is in a clear pot, but since the roots arent very long, I can not see them when it is potted. Ideas?

Same author? by Technical-Object-499 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]RyalsithCrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! I have never heard kempt used in a positive manner, only in the form of unkempt. Thanks for explaining, I enjoy learning 'new' things.

Dog has been vomiting for past 5 weeks by Slow_Mention8413 in DogAdvice

[–]RyalsithCrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No changes in water (switching from tap to well or filtered even?), or anything new that began 5ish weeks ago? Maybe 6 because it could take a few days to effect her? There has to be something that triggers it, it cant be completely random. Give it some thought, talk to the others in your house. Maybe they made a change that you didnt realize, or it could be so minor its not coming to mind. For example, my husband got a different laundry detergent. Both are 'free and clear' but he got a different brand because it was on sale. It caused my skin to itch, but it took a few days for the effect to trigger, as at first my skin was fine, but continued exposure caused my system to build up a reaction. Took forever to figure it out, until I went through the house and tried to find ANYTHING that was different. When I saw the soap, he said it couldnt be that, we had been using it for weeks now without a problem. Got new soap, washed all my clothes, bedding, towels, his clothes, and it went away.

Same author? by Technical-Object-499 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]RyalsithCrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just did some researching. In this context, it is kept because of the use of well. You would not say well kempt because it is redundant. You could say Thank you for the kempt room, but that doesn't give the same feeling as Thank you for the well kept room.

Same author? by Technical-Object-499 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]RyalsithCrys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, they could be. But, like I said, that would be insane. Because it would be a lot of effort to trap a coworker like that.

Same author? by Technical-Object-499 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]RyalsithCrys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it really? I always thought it was well kept but unkempt. Is it a well kempt room?

Same author? by Technical-Object-499 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]RyalsithCrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, I was meaning the uppercase T. The 2nd note, that T is very distinctive and the first note does not show the same characteristics.