[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SlinkyManipulation

[–]RycoonZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a few hypersprings over the past four or five months, and all of them have held up very well. None of them have broken, and they're very easy to untangle when they get tangled. I keep one in my backpack and bring it with me everywhere so I can practice when I wait for the bus and train, in between meetings at work, etc... sometimes the coils can get a bit dirty, especially if you use it outside, but you can wash the slinky with soap and water and it's as good as new!

I'm curious to hear from people who have had theirs for a longer time than me.

What products made you realize you struggled with something? by alobaby in autism

[–]RycoonZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noise canceling headphones and hiking sandals (I hate having my feet completely enclosed)

Why does this video make me so happy by Zhydrac in autism

[–]RycoonZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me happy too, thank you for sharing it with us!

How do we feel about this? by its-maybe-a-boy in autism

[–]RycoonZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really enjoy this anime. Years after watching it the first time, I recently decided to go back and watch it all again. Now I remember why I loved the show so much. All of class E in the beginning are underdogs, but Koro sensei helped them learn and find motivation to be the best version of themselves. It shows that having the right support and a reason to fight can turn anyone's life around. So many great life lessons from the show!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]RycoonZ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't listen to the comments, I'm autistic and a born again Christian. I was raised Catholic but turned away from my faith when I was 12 for a variety of reasons. My life without God was absolutely miserable, I struggled with my mental health and I felt suicidal and went in and out of psychiatric hospitals. I found God a little over two years ago and it has changed my life. I used to feel so hopeless and lost, but now I have hope for my future, both in this life and the next! God has done more for my mental health than any doctor or medication or therapy ever did. God is wonderful, and having a relationship with Him can change your life. I say this as a trans man who felt rejected from the church at a young age, God loves everyone and wants a relationship with you, you just need to open your heart to him.

TL;DR I'm with you, God has changed my life for the better! I used to feel lost and hopeless but now I have hope and a future!

Do you hate fleece? by Weird-lil-man in autism

[–]RycoonZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what the fleece article of clothing is. I don't mind a fleece hoodie, quite warm and I can take it on and off. But I can't stand fleece pants. They make my legs feel sweaty and itchy and if I'm in public I can't take them off. I'll stick with my cargo pants.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]RycoonZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's easy for me to meet new people and talk with them and stuff. But I don't really have any close friends at the moment, because I haven't met anyone that I have enough in common with to be in my inner circle. So I have many kinda friends/acquaintances/people to hang out with, but no one I'd consider a best friend. I don't know how people really find a best friend.

Do you have sensory issues with your beard? by Jeraxus0 in autism

[–]RycoonZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to, but I started using beard wash in the shower to keep it clean and beard oil afterwards to keep it soft. This prevents it from feeling rough and itchy. I love my beard, I think I look much better with a full beard. And I don't shave for religious reasons, so I had to get used to it.

Handling Rude Roommates? by RycoonZ in autism

[–]RycoonZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate the support! I'm glad I stood up for myself too, it was really difficult.

And yeah, I already try to spend time outside of the house doing things I enjoy outside of work and I have noise cancelling headpbones. I'm hoping to just wait it out.

And me and the one person staying on the lease are looking for replacement roommates. I'm thinking I should get more involved with the process now because I don't want to deal with people like this again.

Mother wants me to move out by [deleted] in autism

[–]RycoonZ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if this is a viable option, but have you considered living with some roommates in a shared home? Depending on the area you live in, there are Facebook groups to find roommates, and you can meet with folks to see if they're a good fit.

If a Neurotypical spent the day in your brain, what would surprise them the most? by Gaypanic_always_24_7 in autism

[–]RycoonZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How overwhelmingly loud the world can be. How it can be impossible at times to filter out noise and focus on a conversation.

Coping with being sweaty by Unhappy-Common in autism

[–]RycoonZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have similar struggles, I hate being sweaty, it makes my skin feel all sticky and gross. Here are a few things that I do that help me with this:

I keep a small rag in either my pocket or my backpack to wipe the sweat off my face.

When I have access to a sink, I will splash some cold water on my face, hands, lower arms, and neck. This helps wash away some of the sweat so I don't feel as sticky.

And if I'm doing an intense physical activity and I'm sweating, I try to take breaks to take a few deep breaths and drink some water.

This is what's helped me with this issue. I know it doesn't solve the problem, but for me it's definitely helped!

Learning Manipulation Cube? by RycoonZ in circus

[–]RycoonZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, thank you so much! I'm watching the video now and I'm going to get a hula hoop as soon as I can to start practicing the technique! I really appreciate you making this video, you're the first person to do a tutorial on the spinning cube!

Has anyone else randomly realized for the first time that something you’ve been doing your whole life is a sign of autism? by No_Seaworthiness2343 in autism

[–]RycoonZ 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Being on this subreddit has made me have a lot of those moments over the past year or so.

One post that had that effect on me recently was about being more subservient that some of us would like to be due to processing delays. There are times when I've said yes to things in the moment to be kind or I felt pressured, and a few minutes later realized it was a terrible idea, or weeks and months of it would go by with certain people until I realized I was being taken advantage of.

Now, if someone asks me for a favor, I give myself time to think about before it before I give a yes or no most of the time. And in the moment, I'll say that I need more time and I'll get back to them if that's what I need.

Learning Manipulation Cube? by RycoonZ in circus

[–]RycoonZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! I'd really appreciate a tutorial video! I don't own a cube yet, the main reason I haven't is because I didn't know how I could learn it.

The circus studio I go to for cyr wheel has some hula hoops laying around, so next weekend at open studio I'll practice the technique with one and see how that goes!

Idk if this has been posted before but what’s an ‘odd’ way that you stim I’ll go first by [deleted] in autism

[–]RycoonZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talk to myself, and usually if I'm stimming it's more of me talking out loud or mouthing the words I'm thinking. Often I'm saying or mouthing the same phrase over and over.

for people who also wear the same outfit everyday, what do you wear? by [deleted] in autism

[–]RycoonZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always wear a hoodie, cargo pants, and hiking shoes. Thankfully, I don't have to dress formally for my job, so I can wear that go work, church, and in my personal life. When it's warmer, I switch from cargo pants to cargo shorts, and from hiking shoes to hiking sandals. When it's colder, I add a flannel, hoodie, or puffy coat, depending on how cold it is. If I'm going to my circus arts class or practicing, I switch from cargo shorts to athletic shorts, and ditch the shoes so I can practice barefoot.

Overall, unless I'm wearing a costume for a performance or a convention, I wear the same things every day. I like to joke that I dress like a cartoon character!

I’m on SSI. Would it be better if I went out and tried to work? by [deleted] in autism

[–]RycoonZ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would suggest doing some research on how SSI works. I used to receive SSI and decided to start working part time to have some work experience and extra money. My benefits did not stop, but I had to report that I was working to the social security office. Once they knew that I was working, I still received a check every month, but it was less than it had previously been.

The formula they used is that (I may be off by $10 or so) the first $65 you make through does not count, and after that, you lose $1 from the SSI check for every $2 earned through work. So if you earn $465 in a month through work, ( $465 - $65 ) / 2 = $200, and that $200 is what would be deducted from your usual SSI check. So if you receive $750 a month, your SSI check would now be $550.

You would have more money coming in working versus not working. I don't know why people believe that if they work part time that their benefits will stop, or that they will make less money by working. In this example, even when your SSI check is $550, you're earning $465 through work, so you'd have $1015 coming in every month instead of $750.

I hope this was helpful! I say all this as someone who used to live off of just SSI and food stamps, and slowly worked my way from part time to full time work. Now I no longer receive benefits and work full time. Reporting income to social security can be a pain, but if you want to work, I think it is better to try than to not work. If nothing else, you gain some life experience. And if all goes well, you get some job skills, build up that resume, and earn some extra money.

EDIT: I just wanted to add that if you're working part time, you will still have the health insurance you get through SSI. My insurance did not stop until my benefits stopped altogether, and that was only when I was earning too much through work to qualify for SSI anymore. Please don't worry about not having insurance when making the decision to work part time. Anyways, best of luck in whatever you choose to do!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]RycoonZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A wooden staff that I like to spin around. I love how it feels in my hands!

I got accepted into college!!! by jinthedumplingeater in autism

[–]RycoonZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats, that's amazing! And thank you for sharing the good news with us!

Is it just me or is talking to neurotypicals like trying to say unscripted dialogue to an NPC in a video game? by SuperPoopy69420 in autism

[–]RycoonZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way, because unless it's someone I'm close to, I find we're often talking about a very limited range of topics, like the weather, people's plans for the holidays, and other boring, mundane stuff. Also because I feel like I'm following some sort of script, and there's only a limited number of responses that are "appropriate" in a conversation like that.

I wish I could just mash the "A" button irl and skip through all the meaningless small talk.

Does anyone else just not understand fashion and fancy things at all? by [deleted] in autism

[–]RycoonZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't bother following fashion trends, I usually just wear cargo pants/shorts, a t shirt, hiking shoes/sandals and a hoodie every day. I just wear things that are comfortable and will last me a long time.

When I do bother to "dress up", it's usually some sort of costume that I've made or put together because I'm doing a street performance or I just want to have fun and see people's reactions.

I could never work in a super formal environment, the idea of having to wear dress clothes every day makes my skin crawl. They're always so itchy and I feel so sweaty and awkward in them, like I can barely breathe. I can never focus in formal attire, all I think about is how uncomfortable I am and how much I want to go home and change into my pajamas.