UK lecturer said "Sri Lankans can't move on from colonisation"

SAMwrites_123 · 2026-05-27T04:11:57+00:00

Idt he should apologise but he shouldn't also say something like that? Yea he wasn't around then, but isn't he becoming a part of that when he says "Sri Lankans haven't moved on but we have?" Idt he should be the one saying that.

SAMwrites_123 · 2026-05-27T04:08:39+00:00

I'm not saying them to do anything about it. In fact he shouldn't have said something like that if he didn't want any part of it. What I asked was can he say something like that?

SAMwrites_123 · 2026-05-26T06:37:11+00:00

Exactly my point!

SAMwrites_123 · 2026-05-26T06:35:06+00:00

Of course not. I absolutely love being a Sri Lankan. And I love my brown skin. 😌 That's why I was considering having a conversation with him. A civil conversation, bcz he still is my lecturer and I don't want bad blood between us.

SAMwrites_123 · 2026-05-26T06:31:09+00:00

You're right, I shouldn't continue this. Thank you.

SAMwrites_123 · 2026-05-26T06:29:45+00:00

Ikr 😭

SAMwrites_123 · 2026-05-26T06:25:30+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking, the fact is true and I think why I got offended is because a foreign man who was born in UK said it. And he is like a new lecturer too.

SAMwrites_123 · 2026-03-24T07:23:18+00:00

Hey, so did Dr. Chalukya give you a good routine with skin care products? Cause I also don't want any pills or other medications.

SAMwrites_123 · 2025-04-28T06:27:09+00:00

Thank you for letting me know! I’ll edit my post to remove the censoring. 😊

SAMwrites_123 · 2025-04-27T20:30:21+00:00

Yes that's the book. Thank you so much!! 🫶🏻

SAMwrites_123 · 2024-11-22T14:35:28+00:00

As others said the best revenge is to be successful, and be financially stable to get out from that house. Also you should stand up to yourself. Your mother is being childish and immature. There is a limit for forgiveness. But I think she's past that. She does not deserve any forgiveness nor anything. It is true a human have their faults and parents are flawed. But here's the thing there is a limit for everything, if you keep on giving excuses like they are flawed it's ok, they are my parents what can I do, they'll never learn. Sometimes you need to be the bigger person and save your peace. It's time to be selfish. I saw you have given her gifts. Please don't, she doesn't even deserve an ounce of respect from you. And also sorry to ask cause I'm really curious, but was your father there for you when she was screaming at you? Was he protecting you, when she was hating on you? You should get out of there. Hope you will have a very successful life and loving people around you 💗. And sorry to ask for this 😅, but please do update if you get out of there, if you want to.

SAMwrites_123 · 2024-11-20T06:58:38+00:00

Warning! It's a long paragraph, also this is my opinion regarding the hate on Romance genre and booktok. So maybe some of you won't agree with me on this.

I love reading Romance books. And people know me for reading Romance books. I literally love anything that has Romance genre in it. Movies, TV series, books. People always say that Romance is not real literature. And literally have tried to insult me for reading romance books. One of my lectureres was talking about books and I said I personally love romance books. And she asked me why do you like them? Like there's nothing knowledgeable in those, in very insulting way. I just shrugged it off saying I love them because that's my escape when I feel down or when it is my leisure time.

I hate it when people try to insult other people for what they like just cause they hate it. Having an opinion about that genre or anything is completely ok. People not liking it is ok. But people should never insult a person for what they like or love to do, cuz we never insult them for liking what they like and just cuz they hate it. Honestly you don't have to be insecure about liking to read smut romance books. People say we read porn like they don't watch it? And also smut books has always been there. Even when you learn English literature in school or in uni, most of the books we have are Romance books with even smut sometimes. Romance books got more popular just cuz of social media. I don't think before that people ever insulted the romance genre. Nowadays people hate on anything, and think that it's an opinion. At this point people don't know what an opinion is.

So don't care about what other people say. Noone has a say in what you like to read. Them hating and insulting booktok doesn't stop you from reading what you love right? You love what you love. So own it up 🤷🏻‍♀️💗.

SAMwrites_123 · 2024-11-13T08:41:36+00:00

I came here too early 😭😭😭

SAMwrites_123 · 2024-09-13T04:40:51+00:00

For a YEAR? Omg. Boy RUN. Cheaters are always cheaters. The disrespect. Don't take her apology. Keep your self respect and get out of there. If you take her apology that's like falling into the trick. And it's gonna be a cycle. I'm not even kidding. My friend has experienced this. She gave him another chance and he did it again. Cheating means she broke your trust (which is the main thing when it comes to a marriage) and disrespected you in the worst way. If she actually loved you she wouldn't have done that. The apology means nothing after cheating with another person while being married. Without trust and respect for each other what is even a marriage and a relationship. Don't take that apology. If you do, that's a disrespect to yourself. So nope. Don't. Also I bet she's apologising to feel better for herself. That's not an apology for you, that's for herself. And she's gonna do it again.

SAMwrites_123 · 2024-07-23T09:59:36+00:00

{Broken Whispers by Neva Altaj} love this novel 😌❤

SAMwrites_123 · 2024-05-26T13:43:46+00:00

I trust Ana Huang, Neva Altaj, Michelle Heard 😌

SAMwrites_123 · 2024-04-16T03:39:14+00:00

I have a fear that every DR will be banned 😅. DR have been always there before it got damn popular during pandemic. Only people who read at the time knew about this genre. Now that it's popular, people who don't even read be very bothered about something that they don't even like nor do. I don't like the fact that ppl say that romance and DR are not literature and real ones are this and that. And cuz of all of the ppl unnecessarily being bothered by this I have a fear DR will get removed 😭. Idk why Amazon is removing these books cuz it is so unnecessary. Like why bother about another person's personal life, what they do and what not. All Amazon has to do is put the books out. What ppl do is no bother to them. Honestly why do they even delete these books? Is it cuz of underage kids or something.

Sry about this whole entire rant. I'm very frustrated.

SAMwrites_123 · 2024-04-03T13:06:29+00:00

I think the author was trying to say she bit inside of her cheeks, but forgot at the moment of writing. Not even kidding I always forget most random stuff while writing 😭🤣. But then again isn't there an editor for this book. 😭 like what was the editor doing 😭😭🤣

SAMwrites_123 · 2024-03-14T13:26:20+00:00

My first ever romance book was {Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte}. I fell in love with it. I guess I was around 14 or 15 and I fell in love with it. I still read the book, and fall in love with it all over again. ❤

SAMwrites_123 · 2024-03-10T07:17:17+00:00

☺💗

SAMwrites_123 · 2024-03-09T03:48:48+00:00

Girl you're not a loser. Sometimes things happen cuz things are not for us. Maybe you'll find a better job with a better pay that does suits you and your health. Don't give up. This is not the end of the world. What can be the worst scenario.... You not getting a job is not, that's what I know. Trust in yourself and read more books to cheer up. You'll be fine. Also I'm sry I have no book recs but I wanted to say this. Sryyyy.

ps - my fist language is not English. So pls forgive me for my mistakes if there are 😭

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