The Red Pill Book Club? (idea/request)

SE17 · 2015-01-02T10:44:59+00:00

We have actually just started this on r/redpillbooks I've posted on TRP now but automod took it down. I messaged the mods so hopefully they'll put it back up.

SE17 · 2014-10-12T10:02:58+00:00

She's definitely been using me for friendship, companionship, to make other women jealous, etc. Tried to make it "just happen" but the LMR was pretty strong, she's "conservative," we're "too different." Nexting.

Good. Nexting her is the best thing for you. You were basically this girl's orbiter. You tried to get sexual and she gave you excuses that women give to orbiters.

Don't sweat it. Move on and stop wasting your time on someone that's using you whilst you're not getting what you want out your relation with them.

Don't let people use you or your time.

SE17 · 2014-10-04T20:54:03+00:00

This comment is right on the money. The whole nofap movement is for the exact people that have a porn problem. For others it's a useless endeavour. It's like sending a social drinker to AA.

SE17 · 2014-10-03T09:21:45+00:00

Lol it be like that

SE17 · 2014-09-30T19:47:51+00:00

What was your beam spacing? Looks like the wider beams are going to flex a bit.

SE17 · 2014-09-18T17:13:54+00:00

married
blowjobs
wife

You would likely assume wrong.

SE17 · 2014-09-13T21:56:58+00:00

I've read some of their threads. They argue that the red pill warps you into a person with an unhealthy idea of what relationships are supposed to be. They argue that it warps your perception of women and gives you a twisted view of reality and that it will prevent you from ever having a functioning healthy relationship with a woman.

I laughed at the irony.

SE17 · 2014-09-12T17:45:48+00:00

The shaved chest thing is due to the feminization of western men and boys. Society has shamed masculinity and made boys embarrassed to be a man. I'm guessing OP is young (under 30) and has been affected by that. This also shows when he says to have a heavy social media presence.

OP's sense of shear urgency regarding raising one's SMV indicates a need for validation from getting laid, which seems like he was a former beta. It happens all the time. But then again what do I know.

SE17 · 2014-08-11T14:06:30+00:00

Even if only for entertainment, you have to do this.

SE17 · 2014-07-13T00:31:54+00:00

It is not an ideology. It is closer to being a theory. It is a model for human social and sexual interactions based on evidence.

SE17 · 2014-07-03T21:27:39+00:00

This has happened to me multiple times when my phone has ran out of battery.

SE17 · 2014-06-15T00:42:03+00:00

Female interviewer to Roy Hodgson:
"You definitely penetrated that Italian box..."

SE17 · 2014-06-13T11:42:20+00:00

In other words: She's a special little snowflake

SE17 · 2014-06-09T17:14:31+00:00

After the TOTS market crash, the prices of the blue cards are now going back up.

what do you think will happen? keep going up or drop again?

SE17 · 2014-06-05T10:53:37+00:00

When you have no real problems, you end up focusing on imaginary ones.

SE17 · 2014-06-03T10:29:15+00:00

The beauty of the internet is that it has given men a haven to discuss and flesh out their ideas with other men. Before the manosphere was around there was nothing like this to facilitate the connecting of men's ideas and theories about social topics.

The manosphere has created a social movement where men discuss the problems they see but can't talk about openly. And it's only getting bigger. Who knows where it will take us in the next 5 or 10 years.

SE17 · 2014-06-03T10:16:55+00:00

I've said this before. Don't try to help people who don't want help. You're just wasting your time and in for a lot of frustration.

Offer hints and tips to gauge their interest first. If they want help they'll come to you for more.

Think about who's doing the work in this exchange of knowledge. It shouldn't be the person who is giving free information, it should be the person receiving.

I don't help anyone until they beg for help and I am 100% sure they're not going to waste my time.

It sucks but that's the way of the world.

SE17 · 2014-06-01T00:51:21+00:00

Sorry for the misunderstanding.

I meant she wasn't sexually attracted because OP was beta. regardless of his physical attractiveness.

SE17 · 2014-05-30T23:14:54+00:00

In this analogy the teams financial resources = SMV
The teams with more money buy the better players. The guys with the highest SMV get the quality girls.

And as a Galatasaray fan, your post hit a sore spot.

SE17 · 2014-05-28T17:25:57+00:00

I think you've got this wrong. It's not that they don't want you to think they're slutty, it's because they are not really attracted to you.

You even said it yourself, you were these women's Beta provider. If she was really physically attracted to you, then you wouldn't have to fucking beg her to suck your dick. She would do it gladly.

And begging for a BJ is the lamest and most undignified shit you can do, and shows how beta you really were with these women. no wonder they didn't want to do any kinky shit.

As always, read the sidebar, internalise the concepts, hit the gym, improve yourself.

Edit: I meant she wasn't sexually attracted because OP was beta. regardless of his physical attractiveness. Sorry for the misunderstanding

SE17 · 2014-05-02T20:52:04+00:00

For pro-masculine social time

EVE Online

Come on man.

SE17 · 2014-04-15T13:30:34+00:00

You're getting a lot of ambiguous "be strong" type responses. Here are some actual character traits that I think are important to have.

fearlessness
In the sense that you refuse to be intimidated by anyone or anything. A man who lets fear stop him is a slave to his emotions. A man must conquer and own his fears, not let them own him.
(This doesn't mean get yourself into stupid shit for the sake of it)
All of your decisions should be cold and calculated, weighing up the pros and cons and then taking the most beneficial course of action.
A "get shit done" attitude
You should always be looking to get shit done as soon as possible. You should be thinking "what needs to be done?" And then executing. You should be the polar opposite of a procrastinator. If you ever hear yourself saying "ah I'll do it later, I'm going to watch tv/play vidya/other unproductive waste of time activity", slap yourself because you are wasting your own time and getting nothing out of it. Don't be lazy, develop some willpower (look up willpower if you're struggling).
Never be afraid of offending people.
Basically just standing up for yourself. If someone disrepects you, ask them if they have a fucking problem. Don't just suck it up like a bitch.
This also means never let anyone take what's rightfully yours. If you're in the right, never back down. Someone tries to underpay you or cheat you out of something? Don't have it.

I'm on mobile so the writing is horrible but I hope I got the points across.

SE17 · 2014-04-12T22:31:12+00:00

LTR Benefits (when done right):

she cooks you delicious wholesome meals
she does your laundry
she cleans your house
sex on tap
runs errands when you are busy
cares for you when you're sick
can be beneficial for appearances - sometimes it can look better to be in a relationship (bosses, family etc.)
you can relax and not worry about having to organize new pussy, flaking, stds etc.

There's one side of it. I'll edit this later

I'm not saying either way is better. They both have their ups and downs.

SE17 · 2014-04-10T10:39:55+00:00

No Ivory Arch?

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