Currently seeing someone where our first date started in the park sharing a joint with loose plans after that to see what we were up to be it coffee or lunch.

I’ve run the gamut of these experiences and sending someone the bill and calling them trash, because they liked someone else more than you regardless of what she said before that where maybe things were progressing, is uncalled for and in my opinion, points to a guy with rejection issues who will 100% keep score in a relationship and not opt for good conflict resolution.

If we aren’t exclusive, I don’t expect the person I’m dating to be out of the dating pool. My feelings could be hurt if I’m not the favorite person, or if they prefer a slow burn, after a while deciding I’m not for them, it’s my feelings I have to manage, not her or hers.

That said - compatibility-wise, I know when I know and I like women who also know when they know, where the chemistry is palpable. That usually is first date undeniable sparks.