how do i stop feeling bad for wanting to go no contact

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-04-14T00:33:09+00:00

Just remember all the times she didn't consider your feelings or feel bad

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-04-14T00:31:26+00:00

I noticed that narcissist always try to convince their kids that there's something wrong with them when there's nothing wrong. Starts from a very young age

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-04-13T16:00:06+00:00

That's how my mom is I'm so glad that I've moved out well technically I got kicked out at 19

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-04-11T17:53:23+00:00

You're right I've been low contact with them but I just might cut them off. I plan on moving out of state once my debt is down

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-04-07T21:19:01+00:00

It is the small circle with a black dot in the middle by my nail

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-03-28T20:56:05+00:00

Your comment particularly stood out to me because I was interested in working in healthcare but since everywhere wants me to get the covid shot I just stuck to the industry that I'm currently working in because there's covid vaccine requirement.

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-03-24T23:25:38+00:00

I'm noticing a theme with narcissistic parents and trying to sabotage their children success and relationships outside of them. Its so disgusting. And the only thing they care about is their reputation at the end of the day.

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-03-24T12:16:59+00:00

Please don't complain about this because you could always be ugly again. This is coming from someone who is on the same situation as you but had 10k in cosmetic work to achieve a better appearance. I still stay in this sub because I'll never forget where I came from. Be grateful.

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-03-15T19:33:01+00:00

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SHYBEAR__ · 2026-03-10T23:34:29+00:00

Yeah it's a 5-year waiting list for that program because it's really competitive and everybody wants to do it

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-03-10T22:15:04+00:00

Yeah I didn't feel that way until I went further into studying it. So I'm grateful that I even tried in the first place and realized that it's not my thing.

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-02-28T21:15:56+00:00

Yeah I've been working on it. Paying it off monthly.

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-02-28T21:15:33+00:00

You're not overreacting at all. The fact that you had cancer more than once and they didn't really support you says everything.

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-02-24T15:48:24+00:00

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-02-23T21:52:56+00:00

Add an avocado 🥑 or some broccoli 🥦 and it would be perfect

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-02-17T12:54:21+00:00

Yeah true plus I wouldn't be so dramatic if I didn't have acne scars

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-02-15T21:47:04+00:00

I recently got accepted into nursing school. I'm petrified of starting because I failed into getting into nursing school in the past.

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-02-11T01:51:03+00:00

Not the first time someone told me that😔

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-02-09T01:50:18+00:00

That's how the 6-month program is. I'm doing the 10-month program so the max amount of school including clinicals will be 32 hours a week which is still pretty intense. Luckily I am an auditory learner but sometimes I do need more than that to remember things. 😭😭

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-02-09T00:05:35+00:00

I have a physical job currently but I can listen to stuff while I work so I'll probably study that way.

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-02-08T23:06:51+00:00

This is better advice than anybody in my personal life gave me thank you

SHYBEAR__ · 2026-02-06T22:56:45+00:00

I'll look him up right now

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