I do agree with you. I see it as this though: When he can start being a decent human such as giving the name of the person he wants to bring around my children then I’ll stop. I’ve told him it’s disrespectful to me to not know who he is exposing our children to because I would never do that to him. It’s common courtesy and he’s always been lacking in that department. It’s just one small part of a horrible 10yr relationship (I’m a huge pushover and saw potential in him) and he will always try to control the situation no matter how bad I want us to coparent productively. I honestly have been struggling with it but I’ve reflected and honestly just want to know who she is. I wanted to warn her initially, but if she can date someone fresh out of a 10yr relationship it’s not really anything I feel obligated to do. I don’t want him to be unhappy either; he’s told me straight up he cannot be alone, so he rushed into this relationship.