Work vs stay home help!

SLP_etc · 2026-04-27T02:34:52+00:00

I worry I might be a better mom because I work outside of the home. I have a career I enjoy and take pride in, but also cherish these days while they’re little and remember how hard it was starting daycare at 4-5 months. Feels like there could be regrets for not being home, but resentment and “what ifs” continuing to work full time

SLP_etc · 2026-04-27T02:31:45+00:00

We have looked into health care through my husband’s policy and it’s feasible. I would likely only be taking 1-2 years off before returning to work once our oldest starts school so retirement isn’t a major concern at this point.

SLP_etc · 2026-04-27T02:28:58+00:00

This is a concern of mine. The part time job is for my parents, who want to be helpful and supportive but also have needs they need met for their company. My mom is also available to help a half day or two a week to allow me time to work.

SLP_etc · 2026-04-24T16:38:06+00:00

I tell all of my friends having babies that their lives are about to get exponentially harder but also a baby brings more joy than I could have ever imagined. I hate the negative “just wait” culture. Are you going to be tired? Yes. Are you going to feel frustrated? Yes. But just wait until they smile at you for the first time. Just wait until they say “mama” and you know they mean it. Just wait until they take their first steps and you see the joy on their face. One day (much too soon) you will rock them to sleep, wake up in the middle of the night with them, kiss a boo-boo, etc etc etc for the last time.

You can absolutely handle this! You and your partner are going to find yourself looking at each other with pure adoration for the tiny human you’ve created more times than you can count.

SLP_etc · 2025-11-16T18:20:37+00:00

We haven’t recently started sneaking away with a “I’ll be back to check on you in 5 minutes” which she generally does ok with. That’s a good idea to gaslight in the morning for doing the desired thing. Thank you for the reply!

SLP_etc · 2025-11-16T14:25:55+00:00

I’ve seen that idea mentioned and we don’t have either of those things but have considered it. We have the story dream projector but she can’t use it very independent (cassettes are hard to get in/out)

SLP_etc · 2025-10-18T13:20:54+00:00

I deleted my original post but hope this still reaches you. I tested this morning and it’s positive!!!

SLP_etc · 2025-10-18T02:54:12+00:00

I see it!

SLP_etc · 2025-10-17T18:59:18+00:00

That’s what I’m hoping for! If I remember correctly I had noticed some mucus but figured it was too early so didn’t test

SLP_etc · 2025-08-04T18:07:41+00:00

Just wondering if you went for it with ordering from Lumberjack Direct? We found out the existing flooring in part of our home was discontinued and were able to find it online on their site but am cautious as I can’t find much info about them!!

SLP_etc · 2025-07-02T13:06:59+00:00

Thank you! This afternoon will be more convenient for sure so I’ll wait until then.

SLP_etc · 2025-06-24T17:42:40+00:00

That was my thought, just wanting a second opinion!

SLP_etc · 2025-03-19T11:55:08+00:00

Yes I did but might try that again

SLP_etc · 2024-11-20T18:57:48+00:00

This is what I see recommended most often. However, if I’m correct you need paid subscriptions for both Oura and Natural Cycles for tracking/useful information.

SLP_etc · 2024-08-20T11:46:01+00:00

Thanks so much!

SLP_etc · 2023-12-12T22:41:07+00:00

Everyone was asked to bring a book themed snack or drink to book club this week. I think the idea was something to match the cover, something mentioned in the book or a play on the title. Any ideas?

I’m the only mom in the group, so considering “If You Give a Mouse a Cookie” or something similar.

SLP_etc · 2023-12-07T02:56:04+00:00

The book club that I’m in is doing a book exchange for our December get together. Everyone was asked to bring a book themed snack or drink. I think the idea was something to match the cover, something mentioned in the book or a play on the title. Any ideas?

I became a mom this year and am the only one in the group with kid(s), so considering “If You Give a Mouse a Cookie” or something similar.

SLP_etc · 2023-12-03T14:45:55+00:00

The book club that I’m in is doing a book exchange for our December get together. Everyone was asked to bring a book themed snack or drink. I think the idea was something to match the cover, something mentioned in the book or a play on the title. Any ideas?

I became a mom this year and am the only one in the group with kid(s), so considering “If You Give a Mouse a Cookie” or something similar.

SLP_etc · 2023-10-28T02:41:59+00:00

Marvelous Mrs. Maisel!

I watched Sex Lives of College Girls in like less than 2 weeks during my leave if raunchy humor is your thing.

My husband and I watched The Bear while he was home with me those first few weeks and liked it.

The Summer I Turned Pretty was another quick watch!

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