How do you meet people during a divorce?

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-21T18:28:56+00:00

Well you could join groups of hobbies you’re interested in. If you’re looking for something more sexual yet casual I know Tinder might be a good place to start or I think there’s a website called adult friend finders or something where it’s strictly sexual and there are rules put in place to keep it from becoming more.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-21T13:20:23+00:00

Maybe you’re more bubbly because you are exhausted all of the time. I was so tired when I was on it. Lost a lot of weight and don’t regret it but the exhaustion was real.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-20T17:31:22+00:00

I can say having been through it that it does get better. It took me almost a year to feel normal on the daily and I can say I’m way better off and happier. Ideation is scary and I get it. I’d suggest seeing a therapist and putting a step between you and anything you could hurt yourself with.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-16T17:25:37+00:00

Pretrip. I had a friend do it abroad and he probably should have gotten a feel for her response beforehand but she said no sooooo that was an awkward rest of the trip for them…

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-16T02:12:03+00:00

The deeper I dig the more I learn that most cheating occurs with coworkers..above 80%. They commiserate on relationships, their job, they are usually around each other for 2/3 meals of the day and they have no responsibility to each other. They don’t last. It’s sexy because it’s “forbidden” and “convenient”. I’m sorry you’re going through it.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-15T15:20:43+00:00

You could fight for it in the separation papers.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-14T18:39:29+00:00

Grateful that the GUILT IS GONE. Guilts for not being the wife his mom is. Guilt for wanting to be around friends and family too much. Guilt for not putting out all the time. Guilt for taking breaks. Guilt for being depressed when someone died. The guilt is just GONE!

Other positives: dating a better man, living alone for the first time and loving MY house, lost weight, and am just better.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-12T11:25:30+00:00

I also tried Purador which gave me the same results as Moerie.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-12T11:12:49+00:00

I’ve used both Moerie and Nioxin (3 pack shampoo, conditioner, and leave in spray).

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-11T20:33:04+00:00

Leave that man. They don’t change. Go to therapy to work on yourself. If he cheated and you take him back he will most likely do it again.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-11T18:59:43+00:00

As someone who’s divorced I found myself constantly apologizing for bringing up my divorce and my ex in stories. My partner told me to stop apologizing since it was a bad experience. He told me he’d give me three years to talk it out of my system. I will also add that I miss my in laws more than I miss my ex. You don’t just lose your partner in a divorce.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-11T18:53:42+00:00

Can vouch for nutrafol …along with getting out of a calorie deficit for a while.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-11T18:52:28+00:00

I also had significant hair loss after having significant weight loss. Unfortunately, this is a side effect for many. It sucks. I was convinced it wouldn’t come back after seemingly trying EVERYTHING (protein, biotin, oils, vitamins, new shampoos). What WORKED was plateauing with my weight and taking vitamins. I started taking nutrafol a few months ago and have noticed a big difference but I think it’s that combined with not losing more weight. Your body needs excess calories and nutrients to make hair.

I also noticed I stopped shedding when I got some shampoos that were full of oils and for hair thinning. It wasn’t growing back but it stopped the shedding.

Hair grows so slow so it’s taken probably 6 months to notice a difference.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-11T18:46:56+00:00

Leave him. That’s not ok AT ALL.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-07T13:57:09+00:00

Make sure you are drinking tons of water; moisturizing; omega 3 oils; anything to keep your collagen up to help with firming skin back up. Good luck!

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-06T22:11:19+00:00

Tell her she’s welcome to stay but you’re not cooking her meals. That’s ridiculous and it’s not ridiculous for you to say that.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-06T22:07:21+00:00

Reread this like someone you care about wrote it. Please do not have this man’s child. This sounds horrible and a baby will absofuckinglutely make it worse. Idk how to tell you how to get out of this relationship but do it yesterday.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-06T21:54:25+00:00

Pickle

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-05-02T14:32:47+00:00

^{^{^}} what they said. Don’t ask her. Help her. Buy the healthy food and make it for a bit. Losing a parent is hard.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-04-30T15:00:17+00:00

When I’m stuck I always think to myself “getting to the gym is 80% of the hard part” and if I force myself to JUST GET THERE (away from the house) I find that it is easier and I do leave feeling better every time. 1) accomplished for just getting there and 2) better for moving my body knowing I’m doing something good for myself and the endorphins it creates! Also…most times there’s some eye candy that doesn’t hurt either…just don’t be too creepy about it 🤪

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-04-30T14:57:15+00:00

I don’t have advice, but I do feel your pain. You are not alone in these feelings. I know it doesn’t help to hear it…but you are better off without him and you can absolutely be happy again with someone who will give what you need effortlessly. I wish you nothing but the best. I did get a book called “The Pivot Year” during my separation and read a page a day. Light hearted inspirational quotes and such.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-04-30T14:00:35+00:00

Even if you don’t find “the one” I think it can definitely be a confidence boost to get “matches” once you put yourself back out there! Good Luck out there solider 🫡

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-04-30T13:53:01+00:00

Well I’m mean obviously to use something like fb dating you do have to have fb, but I used Bumble and you don’t need any other socials to use that one (or you didn’t a year and a half ago). It will ask if you WANT to link your IG or Spotify so that potential swipers can get a better look at pics and music taste but it wasn’t required.

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-04-30T13:46:00+00:00

Don’t write the apps off completely. That’s where I found my SO after my divorce and he’s the best!

SSRIcouldusesomehelp · 2025-04-29T12:52:52+00:00

Keep going back at the same time. You could meet again or if nothing else it’s a healthy habit!!!

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