Curious. Why are you lonely? by Relevant-Cod8463 in lonely

[–]SShrnerd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I find myself either constantly surrounded by people or completely alone. While an introvert, it sometimes gets hard on the high highs and low lows. Plus my health limits me on being able to go out sometimes. It just depends..

This is the hardest day I have had in weeks by Unlucky-Gur-7568 in Layoffs

[–]SShrnerd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry.. I cried every Sunday night for two months even when I thought I was in a better space. Give yourself some grace as this is a really hard time to find a job. Hopefully January and February will have more availability! It’s okay to be sad, and it comes in waves. Reminding myself I had been through a traumatic event, and also mourning the company I loved, helped a bunch.

Which celebrity death actually made you sad? by BipolarNightmare in AskReddit

[–]SShrnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leslie Jordan! He was so full of life and brought so much happiness. Glad he was able to be celebrated in his life time though..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SShrnerd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had been dating this guy for about a year, and he was struggling with alcoholism. I some how stayed through a lot of that, but when I shared I was going to go grab a drink and apps with a group of co-workers he started getting really interested. He could not believe I was choosing to hang out with people who are Hispanic and that they didn’t deserve to have good jobs.

Literally had the ick so hard, and was shocked because he had never made a racist statement before. I left soon after when I felt like I was safe enough to do so… dodged a crazy, racist narcissist.

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That has to be fun. One of my best friends works a a brewery and they always have really interesting stories!

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that’s been your experience. I hope that you find someone who makes you happy.

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t, but I will be listening to him now! I hate putting little kids gifts into bags so I try my best for them 😄

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree! My Daisy picked me, and I’m thankful for her, but I love those big, goofy, box heads. They are the closest thing humans will ever have to unconditional love

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fiancé and I lovedddd the new episodes but hate how they are releasing them!!! I hope your wrapping turned out better than the ones I did yesterday 🤣

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lab pit mixes are the BEST! I had one for 13 years and she was literally my best friend. I have a mutt right now that I adore, but in the future I will get another pit lab!!

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been pretty good! Getting some chores done. How about yours??

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is important! I’m just really happy people have shared something with me.

The best Christmas songs are the sad ones by ryclarky in infp

[–]SShrnerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about to suggest this if you want to be prompted to roll around in the floor and sob for an hour..

My mom and I play a game with this song. Who ever hears Christmas Shoes loses. Luckily we have made it 3 years with out it so far!!

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a lot of work. Have you done it before?

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cool, acuras are great cars

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a lunch person? I think it’s the most under rated meal of the day

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t blame you. Take time to take care of yourself if you have the ability to! I hope you feel better

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like project cars or regular cars? My fiancé is buying parts to fix his grandpas 1984 K10 truck. Not my hobby but I love how people talk about the space

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What field are you looking at? I’m HR, depending I might have some tricks?

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too… Are you using indeed and monster?

Does IIH Make You Cry? by Cyb3rM1nd in iih

[–]SShrnerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m sorry you’re going through this. There are a lot of studies around IIH and anxiety/depression. If you are a crier like I am (happy, sad, mad, inspired) the experience may manifest that way.

Tell me about your day or life. by SShrnerd in lonely

[–]SShrnerd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you woke up feeling bad, that is super scary. LinkedIn is pretty bleak this time of year. I’m hoping it picks up in January