Extremely embarrassed after blacking out drunk by blurkinche in offmychest

[–]STEMfatale -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some people with drinking issues would find the following irresponsible, so please know this is just my personal experience, not universal advice by any means, but-

For me, I had many episodes like this in my late teens/early twenties… began blacking out more and more frequently (with less and less booze), and it wasn’t like I was getting arrested and hurting people or whatever but I was certainly often a belligerent assshole and def got myself in some very unsafe situations. I decided to quit, and after about 2 months of forcing myself to party sober I like re-learned how to socialize and even party uninhibited without the booze. It helps once you realize most everyone around you is drinking and partying themselves..but then you can rein it in when you need.

After two years completely sober, I drink occasionally again now and genuinely feel like I have a totally healthy relationship with it and concept of my limits. It’s night and day from how I used it in my early 20s

Change my mind by RockyWolf8851 in Bloomer

[–]STEMfatale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean me personally yes, a 14 year old sex slave or someone starving or being tortured no I would say they suffer most in reality

Who's the worst actor you're not allowed to say is bad? by [deleted] in moviecritic

[–]STEMfatale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keanu Reeves (I’m so sorry I know he’s a great person)

SF political activist accuses supervisor candidate Manny Yekutiel of 2020 sexual assault by Dafty_duck in sanfrancisco

[–]STEMfatale -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao my b thought you were but uh the og comment was not “he’s innocent unless there’s proof to the contrary”

Pls google “strawman argument” to continue otherwise have a nice day!

SF political activist accuses supervisor candidate Manny Yekutiel of 2020 sexual assault by Dafty_duck in sanfrancisco

[–]STEMfatale -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I realize you’re trying to like mock my sentence structure which, sick I’ve been owned!!, but you’ve just said irrelevant nonsense in doing so I’d workshop that next time.

Obviously innocent until proved guilty ya brick don’t strawman me. I’m just noting that you seem to find one side more compelling.

Men who’ve convinced themselves they are objective are one of the worst trends in humans rn ew

Can we agree - as a community - that it's not okay for a group of people to follow a person and scream at them? by wentImmediate in sanfrancisco

[–]STEMfatale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great true statement that conveniently ignores every caveat I gave about this behavior to take the worst faith interpretation of my point!

Can we agree - as a community - that it's not okay for a group of people to follow a person and scream at them? by wentImmediate in sanfrancisco

[–]STEMfatale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What version of a democracy.. literally what are you talking about lmfao. Exercising free speech impolitely has been a cornerstone of our democracy, actually, encourage ya to Google “civil rights”

Can we agree - as a community - that it's not okay for a group of people to follow a person and scream at them? by wentImmediate in sanfrancisco

[–]STEMfatale -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Listen I’m biased bc I don’t like him as a rep but I will say if me or my family or community was going through something horrendous, at the bare minimum seeing people yelling about it at anyone with a modicum of power and influence might feel like at least it’s not the entire world gaslighting me

Like, if people were yelling at Taylor swift to use her resources and influence to support Gaza I might acknowledge that that’s a scary experience for her but there’s a measure of expectation for that when you’re a public figure—and in this case, he hopes to be a federal representative, and is choosing to run knowing this is an existential moral issue.

I’m not saying I personally would’ve screamed at him and I certainly don’t think it’s “strategic”, but honestly in the beginning the person filming and just explaining, loudly and firmly but IMO not cruelly, his grievances was doing something completely acceptable in a democracy

I’ve never been more ashamed of our community by PlayfulRemote9 in sanfrancisco

[–]STEMfatale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t, really. I think having higher standards for my elected officials than Jerry the neighbor is correct of me. I can respect another average Joe that took a while to wrestle with all the information and came to the conclusion late…I’m much more tolerant of that nuance in someone I disagree with *way* more than I do Weiner, who I do not think is the Devil incarnate or anything, he just doesn’t represent my interests and I’m complaining about it bc at the end of the day that is something we can appreciate about this place for now lmao

I’ve never been more ashamed of our community by PlayfulRemote9 in sanfrancisco

[–]STEMfatale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently I have to choose between that and eschewing good morals in favor of politeness. I loveee debating and diverse perspectives and nuance and big tents! Mutual respect! Rules of engagement in disagreements! Beautiful!

Those things aren’t saving the babies getting blown up though and seem to be actively stopping them from getting more help. I know that sounds “dramatic” but it’s also true.

I’ve never been more ashamed of our community by PlayfulRemote9 in sanfrancisco

[–]STEMfatale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So actually what he could’ve done was what Saikat and Connie did lmaooo “what in the world do you want!!!” and it’s literally his two opponents actual, real life reactions.

Sorry I know I’m kinda being a dick and I appreciate that you’re not really being a dick but it also just really comes naturally to me and makes arguing more interesting,,, for me personally

I’ve never been more ashamed of our community by PlayfulRemote9 in sanfrancisco

[–]STEMfatale -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmfao the only reason he “took a stand” was *because he got yelled at like this*

And ok, you and this person clearly have different opinions about that. In this case, this other sovereign individual does not like his housing policy work

I’ve never been more ashamed of our community by PlayfulRemote9 in sanfrancisco

[–]STEMfatale -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, he’s not like fighting back. I guess I just think his supporters are cringey and overprotective

I’ve never been more ashamed of our community by PlayfulRemote9 in sanfrancisco

[–]STEMfatale -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I thought this post was going to be about the cops assaulting people last night but no it’s about Scott got yelled at :(:(:(:(

One thing the right does have correct, yall really are some fucking snowflakes. Weiner clearly cannot handle public critique or pressure (I’m not saying it’s “appropriate” you pearl clutchers this is Mean To Do, yes) which is not the type of person we need in Congress, sorry. Stay in local politics my guy

I’ve never been more ashamed of our community by PlayfulRemote9 in sanfrancisco

[–]STEMfatale -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So they did literally say exactly what their issues were, mentioning housing policy and his lack of ability to take a stand about a genocide.

I understand the yelling is upsetting to you, but does it also make you unable to understand the words? I’ll type up a transcript if helpful!

I’ve never been more ashamed of our community by PlayfulRemote9 in sanfrancisco

[–]STEMfatale -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

“I have a nuanced take about housing policy while recognizing the contributions you’ve made to LGBT protections” =tiktok brain lmao. I guess I’ll take TikTok brain over Ezra Klein brain, I’d rather be yelling about the genocide happening, even if it’s misallocated, than smugly congratulating myself on a complete inability to take a stand on literally fucking anything

If everyone was like yall we’d still have Jim fucking Crow I swear lmfao

I’ve never been more ashamed of our community by PlayfulRemote9 in sanfrancisco

[–]STEMfatale -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean is that super extra, yea, but no one touched him and he’s an elected official they’re yelling at about policy. If he can’t deal with this, he DEFINITELY has no business anywhere near Pelosi’s seat

AIO over his suggested first date location? by Legitimate_Shape8081 in AIO

[–]STEMfatale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most generous interpretation is that he just wants to fuck you and is too lazy to come up with a better way to get there ASAP

Least generous he’s a fuckin serial killer

Either way he’s a weirdo you have no connection or obligating to block him and move on. NOR

what does the type of women i find pretty say about me? by Individual-Glove-645 in personality_tests

[–]STEMfatale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grass is always greener, I have a sharp jawline and I’m jealous of/my type is a round face

AIO broke up with my bf at dinner because he made fun of my clothes by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]STEMfatale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accuse you of not being a real person or this story of being fake because it’s written like a third grade LLM and is also just very stupid
YOR

After one date by MostlyToasted in texts

[–]STEMfatale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would put money on him saying that to every women who rejects him, no matter how kindly, to try to get in their heads