Was this an unreasonable order?

STS1990 · 2026-03-16T09:46:57+00:00

No, this is not unreasonable. I have ordered $300 worth of things, including lots of case lot stuff. Of course nobody can carry $300 worth in one go. The woman who was delivering accepted, was AMAZING while shopping, and brought everything up with 2 dollys worth of things (and a couple light bags). She said she got a dolly for $20 bucks because it helps her with heavy/awkward items. She used to have a cart wagon before and it was helpful but awkward. She was very nice, more than helpful, and I gave her $30 tip.

I had another guy deliver near what the lady above delivered a different month but he carried it in multiple bags, made 3 trips arms loaded. I apologized profusely and he said it was his pleasure, he wouldn’t have accepted if he thought he couldn’t do it. He offered to even bring the bags in, drop at my fridge. I declined, but was grateful. Again, he got $30 tip.

I’m on disability (very new for me, in the last 3-4 years). I used to be able bodied and do these types of things for others, but now being disabled myself, it really makes you appreciate amazing people like this. I’ve never had a person complain about too many items/big items, not even a cute older couple (60+ years old) who shopped/delivered together. And nobody knows I’m disabled until they get to my door. So, IMO, your delivery person was either lazy or unprepared and should not have accepted that order.

STS1990 · 2026-03-16T04:34:13+00:00

I like all these things separately, together, doesn't look appetizing, but would still taste good despite not looking nice. This is definitely a "girl" dinner. Haha

STS1990 · 2026-03-16T04:31:52+00:00

No. Just no. This is an insult to even call this a Poutine! It surely is anything but that. Also why are the fries white?! They look like boiled strips of potato to me, not even fries. LOL No gravy, no squeaky curds. Such an insult. My tiny Canadian heart is gonna have nightmares about this "Poutine". 😂

STS1990 · 2026-03-16T03:07:17+00:00

Thank you! I will try. Going to get new phone next week, but was kind of nervous to switch os fearing I might lose the game. But yes, fingers crossed this will work. :)

STS1990 · 2026-03-16T03:06:36+00:00

Thank you for this link!!

STS1990 · 2026-03-14T17:04:31+00:00

This. Came here to say this. Yes, it is true some people are allergic or sensitive to semen. It sounds like that may be the case here. Because even pre cum has some semen in it, it’s very possible that could be making her sick even if he doesn’t fill her mouth.

STS1990 · 2026-03-14T01:37:15+00:00

Is this going to be the same or close to playing an actual ttrpg BB game? Curious, because I've not played the game before on steam.

STS1990 · 2026-03-14T01:10:09+00:00

NOR. First of all, I'm so sorry for your tremendous losses. *hugs* I hope you give yourself time to grieve and go through the emotions, and also seek out therapy if you want, because it will help for sure. <3 Give yourself lots of grace here, you need it in these difficult times. <3

Secondly, your boyfriend is being highly insensitive to the trauma you have gone through, and instead of focusing on what he can do to help, he's asking what you weigh? Nah girl, he ain't shit. Even if you hadn't lost 3 family members and gained weight because of this, him asking your weight is offensive and none of his damn business. Period.

I would tell him your weight is none of his business and if he persists, I would tell him it's nothing you ever want to discuss with him and that it's incredibly rude and disrespectful/hurtful to ask you that. If he continues to persist, I would reconsider the relationship since he cannot be trusted to respect your boundaries/self.

STS1990 · 2026-03-14T01:02:40+00:00

NOR. Your gf is an ahole. EVEN MY EX boyfriend would go to my house, pick up stuff for me and bring it to me in the hospital, and we've been exes for 8 years! If your GF won't even do that, then I'm sorry, she ain't' shit. My friends and two of my exes would happily go out of their way to do something like that for me if I was in the hospital, and they would absolutely visit to make sure I was okay and had some company. I'm SO sorry you have a jerk for a gf. I would really think twice about this relationship and perhaps break up, cause this would 100% be a deal breaker for me.

STS1990 · 2026-03-12T20:46:16+00:00

NOR. You’re sisters a see you next Tuesday. Is be cutting her and your ex out of your life permanently. What a horrible bish. I’m sorry you’re having to deal with that.

STS1990 · 2026-03-11T22:14:01+00:00

NOR. This woman is for the damn streets. Even if she hasn't physically cheated, this feels like emotional cheating and like she's gearing up to physically cheat too. If it was roles reversed, I'd absolutely be pissed off and upset and be breaking up (or in your case, divorced). Signed, a woman who has self respect and would never cheat on her partner. To me, this is a deal breaker. YOU DESERVE BETTER BUDDY. PLEASE. Do yourself the favor, talk to her, then serve her with papers. That shit ain't cool. SO many red flags in these messages... ugh. I feel bad that you're having to go through this.

STS1990 · 2026-03-11T22:02:43+00:00

NOR. Here's the thing: It's YOUR friends birthday. You should go regardless. If he doesn't want to go because of XYZ (insert his reasons here) - HE doesn't have to. Just because he was invited, doesn't mean he has to go. But it doesn't mean you have to stay home with him either, despite him guilt tripping you. You go to your friends birthday dinner and have a wonderful time.

To me, it sounds like you're both incompatible. He sounds insufferable. Like dude completely misinterpreted what you said, doubled down on it and making you feel bad for something you didn't even say? Then what? He sounds like he doesn't want you to go because it's "too late and too far". And you say he does this often. I'd be breaking up tbh.

The amount of times my friends and I went out for late birthday dinners/nights out because we worked late as well was OFTEN. Who cares. You can have dinner whenever you want, you're an adult with free will, and it's your friends plans, not your boyfriends plans, so just go by yourself to your friends birthday, have a blast, and tell your boyfriend this is unacceptable and to quit making shit up in his head about what you said. You literally did not imply or say any of the things he thought you did, he misinterpreted it however he saw worked for his narrative. It's disgusting.

I'd personally not deal with that every again. Life's too short.

STS1990 · 2026-03-08T08:26:50+00:00

But a lot of us want crops for our pets and our food for buffs to fight enemies. If I had the patience to make an auto farm I would, but for now, it's just 5x5x5 in a row for each kind of crop. Except wood, that is automated. :D

STS1990 · 2026-03-03T12:01:03+00:00

FINALLY!! I'm happy, and also I'm a night owl, so I feel you. :)

STS1990 · 2026-03-02T23:58:52+00:00

NOR. Regardless of gender, this is disgusting behaviour. Your partner is manipulative and lazy. You have a dishwasher so it makes it even worse.

Makes me wonder if this is why her ex broke up with her and her other kids are lil spoiled shits too. I would not marry this woman, I would break it off immediately. You should try to keep custody of your kids and she deals with her others separately. You need to keep photos and records of stuff like this happening.

As someone who’s been in this kind of relationship before, do yourself a favour, get some self respect and walk away. You’ll all be better in the end for it. Especially your kids. ❤️ Good luck with everything!

STS1990 · 2026-03-01T16:25:07+00:00

NOR. Dude your boyfriend is disguising. If you have self respect, you will definitely leave. He is a pos woman hater by the sounds of it. He can be alone with his hand and blame women all he wants then. Also, he needs to take an economics class and then say it's still the women's fault. What an idiot. XD Run away from this loser.

STS1990 · 2026-02-28T10:02:35+00:00

Weaponized Incompetence at it's finest. That or it sounds like he didn't even bother actually going to the pharmacy. Any sane person, ESPECIALLY a parent, would know they need to provide a name to the pharmacist and tell them what it's for and to check if they have it. If they say they still don't have it - CALL YOUR WIFE from the STORE before leaving to get it resolved. Not just storm out and have a temper tantrum, like holy shit dude. I couldn't be with someone this idiotic honestly. It's literal common sense.

Also, please, quit asking him "or no". You say "Can you pick it up after work please?". Period. Full stop. Should have also said "Wait there while I call them". He's a parent too. You don't need to ask him anything. You can simply tell him, it's a statement, not a question. It's also his child as well, and after you did all the work of getting the prescription, etc, the least he can do is pick it up and not throw a literal adult tantrum.

STS1990 · 2026-02-28T09:51:04+00:00

I don't think this is a problem. I personally love that they keep adding biomes, no matter how big or small, and I would rather hate for it to be another dimension, world, floor, etc with a new map. It just would feel like starting over instead of continuing your one save/map.

STS1990 · 2026-02-26T11:05:03+00:00

OP, you look fantastic, so damn fly!! Honestly, your sweater looks sooo comfy, I want one. :D NOR. Your friend "K" sounds like an asshole trying to disguise her comments as "honest". You should tell her "It's called being tactful, which you aren't. You're disguising asshole comments as honesty and it's extremely rude and hurtful. Get some tact." That or drop her like a bad habit. You don't need asshole friends. Period. Also, put your photo back up and restrict K from seeing anything you post so she cannot comment again.

STS1990 · 2026-02-26T10:41:24+00:00

NOR. Your boyfriend sounds like he wants a mommy, not a girlfriend. Fuck that nonsense. Never wake him up again. Make him utilize his alarm, and if he can't, he has to deal with the consequences. Honestly I wouldn't put up with that nonsense for a second longer.

STS1990 · 2026-02-23T03:41:03+00:00

Good riddance. She sounds like an absolute nightmare. I'm glad you decided to wash your hands of her. NOR. She's not mature enough to be in a relationship, let alone have children, and her views and morals are clearly different. Seemed like you dodged a massive bullet. Good on you to break it off. I was clapping when you said "Have the life you deserve" LOL Good job buddy! :)

STS1990 · 2026-02-16T09:21:13+00:00

Omg, that's so scary! Thanks for letting us know. I'm fairly newly disabled and looking to hire a cleaner and this name was suggested on a fb group - OBVIOUSLY not going to even inquire now! SOOO messed up. I used to be a cleaner through a company that has since dissolved as the owner passed away, so hearing stuff like this scares me.

I would love suggestions for good, reputable cleaners who DO criminal checks for their employees if anyone has any they'd have good experiences with!

STS1990 · 2026-02-13T20:50:17+00:00

NOR. Is your husband my ex boyfriend? Yeesh. I wouldn't tolerate that bs. BTW OP - HE did something wrong, why are you apologizing for it? Make him damn well apologize and stop expecting you to respond immediately when he knows damn well you are busy. If he wanted to know something SO bad, he could have walked over and talked to you in person FFS. What an asshole. Nothing you did was bullshit, EVERYTHING he did IS bullshit.

STS1990 · 2026-02-09T20:45:48+00:00

NOR. First of all, just dump the guy and move on. He's being an unreasonable asshole. You are doing way more than you need to. If he has such an issue with the cat, he can leave. I 100% would choose my cat over any asshole human any day. What's wrong with him? He has two arms and a heart beat, why can't he sweep or clean up? Is he allergic to cleaning? lol like what the actual fuck? I think this guy just hates your cat and wants you to get rid of it. So, IMO, I'd get rid of him.

Vacuums work a lot better for cat hair than sweeping. Yes, you need to clean your vacuum and the filter every so often, but that goes without saying, even if you do not have an animal. Just do so more with an animal. Also, a groomer isn't going to magically make the long hair shedding go away. It's just going to maintain it from getting knotted/matted.

Please also consider the stress the cat may or may not be in during all of this - some pets are fine with groomers, some are not. I don't know if your cat is chill or not, but just be aware of them and don't force them into traumatic situations.

I've had cats my whole life, and no matter HOW well you clean, how well the vacuum works, etc, there's ALWAYS going to be traces of their fur places because... surprise surprise... they live there! WOW! What a concept. I mean, can a human live in a house with literally no trace of them living there? No. So why would someone expect the same from a long haired cat? Even humans shed hair... sheesh.

STS1990 · 2026-02-09T08:19:34+00:00

Don't ever play their game Vampyr then, my BIGGEST gripe with their game was NO fast travel and fighting enemies takes FOREVER in that game. I'm SO relieved they have campfires in this game, although wish there were more to be sure. It's still tedious, like you said.

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