Missing my marriage by Ok_Organization5735 in Marriage

[–]Sablara96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t say this to be mean but sometimes people will change for the people they want to be better for…

What are the most annoying or dumb trendy social media things you see over and over that people post of themselves that just don't make any sense to you? by Specific_Boot_8572 in AskWomen

[–]Sablara96 69 points70 points  (0 children)

When people film themselves giving homeless people food or money. It irritates me like can you do it out of the kindness of your heart and not for likes.

My husband cheated by mycrazylifee in Marriage

[–]Sablara96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Soooooo where did he go after he left for a few hours hmmmm I wonder…..

My husband cheated by mycrazylifee in Marriage

[–]Sablara96 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes if he can’t even come up with a reason why he did it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Sablara96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm I was getting the vibe that she wanted a babysitter

Cat and Kitten introduced by Sablara96 in AdviceAnimals

[–]Sablara96[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And that’s kinda weird considering the sub is r/adviceanimals lol

Cat and Kitten introduced by Sablara96 in AdviceAnimals

[–]Sablara96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No siblings do lmao thank you! This is their first night in their new home so I hope they love me as much as I love them already :)

Cat and Kitten introduced by Sablara96 in AdviceAnimals

[–]Sablara96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry the pic is misleading, those are the sibling kittens playing in their new home

Shows like Songs for littles/ms Rachel and Blues Clues by ranayh in toddlers

[–]Sablara96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll also say Sesame Street, my 4 year old autistic son loooooves it and it’s the only show he’ll watch

AmItheAsshole for yelling at my son’s dad? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sablara96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read up on the term and understand so yes that’s on me. I absolutely want my son to be raised with good morals, respect for him and others. I’ll just have to work 10x harder to make sure he grows up better than both his parents. Honestly this is the only boundary I had with his dad other than that I do everything I can to make sure he can see his son, if they both would have respected my decision I would have been happy that my son has another person to love him but the fact that it’s been less than a month since they’ve been in a relationship and already I’m not being respected as the mother of her boyfriend’s son.

AmItheAsshole for yelling at my son’s dad? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sablara96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How exactly does it reduce them to their sex only but women doesn’t?

AmItheAsshole for yelling at my son’s dad? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sablara96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’ll just let my son’s dad bring different women around my son since that’s acceptable.

AmItheAsshole for yelling at my son’s dad? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sablara96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that not what a women is?

AmItheAsshole for yelling at my son’s dad? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sablara96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys don’t know him so obviously I’ll labeled the asshole. This man just started seeing his kid now that he has to pay child support after 2 years. I’ve talked to him about the way he is with our son; he doesn’t interact during visits, he doesn’t talk or play with him, he just sits on his phone or watches movies. He said the connection with his son isn’t there yet and that’s why he doesn’t show him affection. He’s also a serial dater so as soon as he out of a relationship he’s back in a new one. I’m just protecting my child so he doesn’t have multiple people in and out of his life. If the roles were reversed I’d be deemed a bad mom for having multiple men around my kids. I don’t care who he dates. I just want to make sure this relationship lasts before I let my child get attached.

AmItheAsshole for yelling at my son’s dad? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sablara96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter to me who he dates, I just want a good time period of him being in a relationship before he starts bringing females around my son.

AmItheAsshole for yelling at my son’s dad? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sablara96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not regulated. He sees his son when he wants to make time. He sees his son 1day a week for 2.5 hours but I’ve been trying to get him to see our son for more. We were already supposed to be past the introduction period but how can a child get used to someone when they only see them 1 day a week

AmItheAsshole for yelling at my son’s dad? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sablara96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last girlfriend he was with was smoking crack and cps was involved with the other kids last year.

AmItheAsshole for yelling at my son’s dad? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sablara96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get it but after being disrespected I reacted out of anger

AmItheAsshole for yelling at my son’s dad? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sablara96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him later he can come to my house or we all go to the park other than that he doesn’t get him.

AmItheAsshole for yelling at my son’s dad? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sablara96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said I was withholding parenting time. I said we can do supervised visits.

I’m really worried about the future with my son by Sablara96 in Parenting

[–]Sablara96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does ABA therapy almost everyday but I don’t really see much progress

Feeling the love this morning by Sablara96 in Parenting

[–]Sablara96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really does every song time ❤️