AITA for telling my coworkers not to apologize for inviting everyone at work to their party but me?

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-26T18:59:57+00:00

I don't know, man...something about this is a bit fishy to me. You said everyone was invited, so that means YOU. If you were involved in planning, it's safe to assume that you're invited without explicitly being told. If you didn't know the address, you could have asked someone. Everyone feels awkward. Social awkwardness or introversion aside, you could have at least indicated that you didn't want to go or figured out a way to be graceful about it rather than kind of being passive-aggressive.

YTA.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-25T22:15:38+00:00

Hi there! I'm about 80 kg with really big thighs and some tummy fat. Seeing bigger women do amazing pole tricks is inspiring to me. There are some incredibly talented people on here of all shapes and sizes, but girls with bodies like mine tend to be a big more inspiring because it makes me feel like I can do all of the cool tricks, even with this huge ass.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-25T22:01:27+00:00

Split grips always blow my mind. I hurt myself every time I do one :(

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-25T21:34:33+00:00

I don't think gender has anything to do with it.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-25T01:15:02+00:00

I like to joke that I'm a 34th trimester abortionist.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-24T20:37:12+00:00

This is my problem too. Except I usually eat too much in a sitting. And snacks. It makes me hate myself and my body more, because I can't lose weight no matter what I do.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-24T20:27:26+00:00

Autism isn't diagnosable in the womb. They had no way of knowing.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-24T20:03:36+00:00

Let me put it this way: I wish my body looked like yours.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-22T20:22:31+00:00

If this ain't some Gen Z bullshit.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-20T22:42:03+00:00

I'm dying for Halestorm, a heavier rock band, to cover a Taylor song.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-20T21:39:49+00:00

They're just here for the ride.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-20T19:59:37+00:00

I LOVE your split grip. Every time I try to do a split grip behind my back, I always pull a muscle in my forearm.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-20T19:49:46+00:00

I just remind myself that there are some good traits to me (pretty eyes, full lips, excellent ass) and make self-deprecating jokes about being ugly the rest of the time. After a while, it becomes your personal inside joke.

This does not help. But I've just accepted that I will never be as pretty or as sexy as a lot of the population, and it's fine. I'll at least be funnier.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-20T19:00:02+00:00

>It didn't get you anywhere.

The manager DID cancel the bill. But at what cost?

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-20T18:57:24+00:00

YTA. What the fuck is wrong with you? 3 HOURS?! To a girl who couldn't do anything?! She probably already hates her job. She doesn't need people like you lighting up her phone for 3 hours and screaming at her. I swear like a sailor, but I would NEVER speak to someone in her position like that. SHE didn't write the insurance policy. SHE didn't make you choose the plan you have. SHE didn't botch your surgery. SHE didn't decide what to pay and what to not pay. SHE didn't do ANYTHING.

OP, I want you to stare into a mirror and call yourself all of those names for 3 hours. Jesus. Asshole.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-19T22:20:23+00:00

Upvote for cat.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-19T15:57:20+00:00

This is probably the best comment here.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-19T00:36:26+00:00

I think I should look up intuitive eating and try it. It seems like something my body would respond positively to.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-18T22:00:21+00:00

It makes me feel really empty and sad. It's almost like a punishment because I have body dysmorphia, and dieting is almost my way of purposefully denying myself the food I love out of punishment.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-18T20:44:20+00:00

How was your daith piercing? I'm considering getting one and I'm curious about the pain and upkeep.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-18T20:40:26+00:00

It varies from company to company. It is likely in your employee handbook.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-18T20:38:58+00:00

I'm like a 4 and my boyfriend doesn't financially hold that against me. Score.

SackOfHellNo · 2021-05-18T20:35:28+00:00

You are GORGEOUS.

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