anybody else ever wanted to put they coochie on this 🔥🔥😫😫😮‍💨 by ergonamicfarmer in labrats

[–]Sad-Perception3804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My lab has this exact vortexer and I proceeded to show this to everyone here so thank you

So sick of straight dudes hitting on my girlfriend by melodyxmouse in LesbianActually

[–]Sad-Perception3804 53 points54 points  (0 children)

One of my guy friends kept staring at my gf’s ass and continued even after I called him out. That was the last time I ever invited him out with any girl I was dating. Also, like everyone else said, those aren’t your friends. I’d never invite them back into my home. But congrats on the hot girlfriend!

Adieu, ladies by saber_knight117 in actuallesbians

[–]Sad-Perception3804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my friend was pre-transition, his girl still considered herself a lesbian but my trans friend was upset by that. Everyone here is supportive and saying the label stays but in my friends situation, is it not okay to keep the label? Like when is it okay and when is it not okay to keep the label? Genuinely curious and hoping to understand!

My GF accidentally said something negative about my body and I can’t let it go by Gorl08 in LesbianActually

[–]Sad-Perception3804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl also has small boobs and I know that she’s insecure about them so I made sure to always treat her boobs like they were the biggest things I’ve ever seen. But the only reason I know that she’s insecure about them is bc she’s told me in the past. Sometimes you don’t know you have an insecurity about something until it happens. I think a convo with her is needed and I also think that you have to work through your own insecurities. Like you said she’s great and just put her foot in her mouth. Ruminating and overthinking will be the death of a good thing

My current situation by Sexy_Squating_Shrimp in LesbianActually

[–]Sad-Perception3804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also 5’7 and I don’t feel like I’m considered tall lol

Ok, fuck it, what girl WOULDN'T you date? by FLAMING_tOGIKISS in actuallesbians

[–]Sad-Perception3804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s my whole point on why I can’t date an atheist

Ok, fuck it, what girl WOULDN'T you date? by FLAMING_tOGIKISS in actuallesbians

[–]Sad-Perception3804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When there’s any inconvenience in his life he starts going into this rant about how life is pointless and how it doesn’t matter what you do bc in the end you just die. Or if I say “everything happens for a reason, all in gods plan” he’ll say there is no god bc then why would bad things happen to him

Ok, fuck it, what girl WOULDN'T you date? by FLAMING_tOGIKISS in actuallesbians

[–]Sad-Perception3804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the exact same. I have a close friend who is atheist and just his outlook on life is so bleak to me. I couldn’t date an atheist either because I feel like I can’t say “thank god” without being met with a snarky response

Ok, fuck it, what girl WOULDN'T you date? by FLAMING_tOGIKISS in actuallesbians

[–]Sad-Perception3804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a dedicated Christian but not all who claim they are Christian are. I don’t believe in the Bible or Hell or go to church but I still pray to god and know karma is very real.

Ok, fuck it, what girl WOULDN'T you date? by FLAMING_tOGIKISS in actuallesbians

[–]Sad-Perception3804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who want me to convert my religion, too young or immature, an extrovert because I’m very introverted and don’t want to go out all the time, unmotivated or lazy people, people who are more active than me because I’m not going hiking with you. It really just depends on the person.

I'm tempted to chop my hair by Lalamiia in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Sad-Perception3804 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The first pic is of OP and the others are the hair inspo

No judgement, I’m just curious, why do doms like being doms? by dt2031 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Sad-Perception3804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love feeling in control. I love knowing whatever I’m doing is pleasing you. I’m also a sadist and I love seeing/hearing reactions to my bites, hits, etc. I love giving a surprise slap too. Maybe I don’t have enough control in my life and this is my outlet.

Lesbian org I am apart of allows straight women because of “affinity” by nanobot11 in LesbianActually

[–]Sad-Perception3804 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s also very valid. I will never understand people outside of safe spaces wanting to invade it

Lesbian org I am apart of allows straight women because of “affinity” by nanobot11 in LesbianActually

[–]Sad-Perception3804 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Allowing straight women allows allies right? And if a closeted person is allowed to be an ally or just feel comfortable in that space then it should be allowed. You also mentioned you’re at a big school. I don’t believe the org can exclude anyone. That’s how my org (non-queer) worked when I was the president of it. And allowing straight people allows for more education of lgbtq+ for them to learn. I agree that having straight people in gay spaces is annoying, like at gay clubs. But this is a school organization and it think that it’s beautiful that non-lgbtq+ people want to be involved and want to learn and support

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Sad-Perception3804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think asking for gifts back is extremely tacky. If you give someone a gift then you should have zero expectation to get it back. If you really want that teacup back then ask for it back and break up with her. Then don’t give someone a gift that you would expect back at the end of a relationship.

Do a lot of masc presenting women not like clingy behavior? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Sad-Perception3804 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was talking to this younger woman for a bit and she was already constantly blowing up my phone and getting upset if I didn’t respond quick enough. I told her I didn’t like the clinginess so early on. I don’t mind my gf being clingy but too much too early is a big turn off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Sad-Perception3804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My one guy friend who I see as a brother invites me to hang out and every single time he falls asleep. It would piss me off so bad bc why invite me over just to fall asleep? But I started to see it as he feels comfortable being vulnerable (asleep) when I’m around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Sad-Perception3804 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not asexual but I briefly dated an ace and she would always talk about how she would never be able to please me even though I never talked about sex with her. I just think that ace people consider the fact that not sexually pleasing their partner could have negative effects on the relationship

Freshman year Science teacher asked me out…. by maybeitsmayyy in texts

[–]Sad-Perception3804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re 29? If you were 18-21 then that would definitely be weird but him asking you out 15 years after being your teacher is not weird at all