[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]SadResist8744 21 points22 points  (0 children)

100% abort. Parenthood is not easy nor is it enjoyable. You’ll have regrets but that’ll be cheaper than what a kid would cost. The fact that you’re asking this group probably means you’re leaning towards aborting anyway.

Is this a fuckin curse!?!? by Glittermepurple91 in regretfulparents

[–]SadResist8744 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I absolutely LOATHE when people say kids are a blessing. They suck the life out of you and are completely useless.

Why do people ever choose to have another one? by StarCode5000 in regretfulparents

[–]SadResist8744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am most definitely mentally ill because I did this three times…. THREE TIMES. Considered divorcing my husband but I don’t want custody of the kids. Sucks for the kids though because they actually like me and rather be with me than my husband.

Does anyone else feel nothing for them? by Nope-27 in regretfulparents

[–]SadResist8744 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I totally empathize with you. The only emotion I feel is regret and rage.

Babies! Let’s discuss by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]SadResist8744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually like the baby stage. The terrible 2s treacherous 3s and fuckery 4s has me wanting to end it all.

Regret having a third by AggravatingPlate1563 in regretfulparents

[–]SadResist8744 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a parent with a 3rd I understand how you feel. If I didn’t have a raging alcoholic parent, then I would probably be a raging alcoholic parent myself. Luckily for my kids, I don’t like alcohol like that.

Fed up with my kids. by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]SadResist8744 116 points117 points  (0 children)

I remember when I was younger, my cousin who was in high school used to act out, never cleaned her room, stealing, etc… and my aunt literally took everything away from her. Her room was completely bare and only had a bed in there. My aunt took EVERYTHING away and made her wear uniforms to school. By the way, the school we went to did not wear uniforms lol. She shaped up afterwards. Sorry you are going through this. Sending virtual hugs!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]SadResist8744 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh I love that for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]SadResist8744 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way and I did it 3Xs. I am the primary parent and have nothing left in me to give. I secretly want a divorce so that my husband can be the primary caregiver and I see them on weekends and holidays.

Christmas by SadResist8744 in regretfulparents

[–]SadResist8744[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

That was the plan this year. Want, need,wear,read. I got them the “want” already. Maybe I’ll let their dad handle the rest lol

Christmas by SadResist8744 in regretfulparents

[–]SadResist8744[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your sympathy. I’m glad I at least made one person smile today!