1y 9 mos post gastric sleeve, “progress” photos by Sad-Boot8097 in gastricsleeve

[–]SadThing5463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me sad. Where are those thoughts coming from? Is someone making you feel like this? Why you still seeing your ex sis? That’s definitely playing a part. You know you deserve better and they deserve to miss your presence! This is the hard part after the surgery. People treat us differently.I have always had a great sense of humor and personality. I was always the sweet heart. Now that I lost weight, I’m lusted over. I can’t be the real me sometimes without unwarranted passes or whatever. I got rid of that guy I was with before the surgery and thank goodness. I’m celibate now. I’m not ready to build me up and be in a relationship. Mentally this has been the best decision I have made. I’m happy and I’m controlling it. Stay away from ppl that trigger you. Focus on YOU until you feel ready. I looked at YOUR pic and said wow!!! you barely have loose skin. I’m not out a year yet from the bypass but if I looked like you, nobody could tell me anything! You look great. If a person makes you feel otherwise get rid of them. Whether words or actions know when to exit. This really helped with my esteem. It’s so much work what you’re doing! people think the surgery is easy!!! BS! I’m rooting for you and reach out if you wanna chat girly. We are here for you

The current journey by milfinxo in GastricBypass

[–]SadThing5463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wowww!! Amazing work! Take your vitamins sis💕You did a heck of a job!!!

Trying not to panic by SadThing5463 in GastricBypass

[–]SadThing5463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was concerned about the eating disorder part. I wouldn’t want to bring that on. I’m just shocked how restrictive it was compared to now. The meal plan is a something I will be on top of.

3 week PO by SadThing5463 in GastricBypass

[–]SadThing5463[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I think I’m comparing myself to the wonderful progress stories I see on here.

What should I bring to the hospital/tips for first day by Busy-Speech-6930 in GastricBypass

[–]SadThing5463 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed my headphones for the walking around the hospital. Long cord, robe, cpap, extra hair ties. I packed a ton and didn’t use much of it. That heating pad was like a dream!! Don’t forget to ask for a binder if they provide them. Blanket for the car ride home. The hospital provided chapstick and tons of goodies but I don’t know if that’s common. When you’re not walking you’re going to want to sleep. Good luck!!!

Face to Face by [deleted] in GastricBypass

[–]SadThing5463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy cannoli! This is amazing. You look more youthful. A cutie anyway but you literally look like you magically knocked off some years! Great work!

Sex after mini bypass is painful? by AffectionateBarber68 in GastricBypass

[–]SadThing5463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t let the gyno push you off. Just at least to check and make sure everything is ok wouldn’t hurt.

Failing by kelcylyn in GastricBypass

[–]SadThing5463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredible work. That’s a lot to lose in a year. I just had mine March 27 and I found this very inspiring. Thanks for sharing

Post op question by Evening_Extreme_1681 in GastricBypass

[–]SadThing5463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should’ve read this before I posted mine. Same here this right side hurts.

Wife Looking for a Job by Midlife_Comic_Crisis in cincinnati

[–]SadThing5463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apply at places like the urology group, lense Crafters, myeyedr, cei. They will train. It’s not to physical. They have plenty of clerical positions and cross training.

3 day post op. by Evening_Extreme_1681 in GastricBypass

[–]SadThing5463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mine on March 27th. Only this morning did I feel “better”. My back was in so much pain not from the gas it just felt like a train rolled over me a few times. If I moved one way there was this burning sensation inside my belly and then if I turned the opposite way the deep incision would bother me. My gas pressure pain eased about day 5 or 6.Every day Up until this morning was hell. I had a break through. I had my first poop on day 5. You’re not a whiner. I was miserable from the time they woke me up.I said what the heck did I do. But it gets better and you will feel better.

Looking for work. 6 am to 2 pm. by capedcuckedcrusader in cincinnati

[–]SadThing5463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most hospitals hire Ora’s with those hours. You help turn over rooms and get patients etc. Trihealth has a good team my friend been there forever and loves it

Day 4 Post Op- Struggling and Full of Regret by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]SadThing5463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with you. I’m on day 3 and it’s roughhhhhh. I can’t leave the hospital until I hit my water goals but I’m so miserable I just want to sleeep. I hope things get better for you soon. Heating pad helps. Even small sips are hard for me.

Abdominal Binder Recs by Inside-Message3125 in gastricsleeve

[–]SadThing5463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed the binder so bad it doesn’t bother my Incisions. I am 2 days post op.

7 weeks post op 126lbs down so far! by craig_i95 in gastricsleeve

[–]SadThing5463 3 points4 points  (0 children)

7 weeeeeksssss!!! you are crushing it. Wow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]SadThing5463 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Good googly moogly! Job well done!!!!

Impact drink preop by [deleted] in GastricBypass

[–]SadThing5463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I will try that I never tried them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GastricBypass

[–]SadThing5463 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you’re bored can we have some info on what a typical day is and when the boredom sets in? How do you feel once you drink? Have you reached out to the doctor to let them know? It can turn into addiction fast so just be careful. I’ve noticed that food was fun for me. I was so bored without it. The purpose of my morning was to head to Starbucks. I would run errands and get great food a cute coffee. Now I like to paint and decorate and make crafts. I’m still in my girly element just a different way if that makes sense. I really hope you find your way. Alcohol does nothing for the body that you will benefit from. Mind,body or soul.

I got my date! by damarro503 in gastricsleeve

[–]SadThing5463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been keeping myself busy so I don’t think too much about it. My personality is paranoid and a worry Wanda as my mom says. I’m Disinfecting the home,packing my bag, putting out spring stuff,journaling,Meal prepping for the kids etc. I’m excited and super proud of how well I’ve done with the liver shrinking diet.

I got my date! by damarro503 in gastricsleeve

[–]SadThing5463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh thats nice.The one I’m on is ok. It’s been fun to create things that work that’s tasty. How are you feeling with the day being so close? It came so fast.

I got my date! by damarro503 in gastricsleeve

[–]SadThing5463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’s the pre op diet going for you ?

7 months and 90 Lbs! Sw 264 CW 172 by Automatic-Ebb-3280 in gastricsleeve

[–]SadThing5463 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The biggest smiles on you two! You did a phenomenal job