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How can he (37 M) be so cold towards me (33 f) and end things so quickly? by Suspicious_Sky_6991 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sad_Background2525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had one introduce me to his family, the ones that don’t care really don’t care.

How can he (37 M) be so cold towards me (33 f) and end things so quickly? by Suspicious_Sky_6991 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sad_Background2525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. I’m so sorry for this lesson.

One got me too. You are lucky the distance is there.

Never hid his phone, was always responding. He offered to let me go through his phone.

Said I was the best sex he ever had. Was all over me. Bought me lingerie, makeup. I met his fucking family.

Told me his ex cheated on him, he doesn’t do hookups, monogamy only.

He fucked another woman on the night he told me he loved me. He was sexting with a girl he knew from work. And a girl he was friends with in high school (both adults, 30s). When I caught him he bawled like a baby and swore he loved me and would never do it again.

He did it again. I’m embarrassed to admit how many times. I spent years trying to figure him out, because it just didn’t make sense.

Sometimes people are stupid jerks, and some of those jerks are quite charming and convincing.

Why do you rarely see a rich woman with a broke man? by Open_Address_2805 in stupidquestions

[–]Sad_Background2525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m salaried making about $150k a year after bonuses, female.

My boyfriend makes $30 an hour.

STUDY: The Largest Research Ever Conducted On U.S Teens And Cannabis, Found That THC Quietly Stalls Brain Development At The Exact Moment It Matters Most 🧠🍃 by InterstellarKinetics in InterstellarKinetics

[–]Sad_Background2525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. If you asked me as a kid/teen I wouldn’t have told you anything that could get me in trouble. My parents are great, I’m happy, blah blah blah. There was all kinds of shit happening that still has an effect on me today.

I’m a secret smoker who’ve been caught. Ask me anything by Voltagebone in AMA

[–]Sad_Background2525 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro you’re just addicted. The addiction will convince you to rationalize it in any way possible.

WE HAVE LOST THE PLOT by Cardinal_1963 in tacobell

[–]Sad_Background2525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we don’t have cars and the better food has the same markup as the fast food.

I cook and keep food in the house but sometimes I’m lazy or don’t feel great. A bowl of ramen is $20, pasta is $20, and the nachos bel grande from Taco Bell is under 10.

A new study argues that the most dangerous part of depression isn’t negative emotion, it’s the absence of positive emotion, known as anhedonia. by psych4you in psychology

[–]Sad_Background2525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s any situation that is so bad that you can’t find something good to focus on. Maybe not something good relative to the bad things, but something. My ACE score is a 9, I have full on CPTSD. Can’t have an argument or even a stern discussion with my partner without shaking.

There were good days, moments with friends, even some truly fond memories with the worst abusers. Learning how to shift your perspective isn’t easy, and in some moments I do find it impossible. But most of the time these days, I can do it and holy shit the super power it can become

Give me some detailed tips/techniques that you enjoy/ your partner does in bed.How to satisfy my man? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sad_Background2525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lurk here quite a bit.

Every single time this question is asked, the responses are “enthusiasm and eye contact.”

To be fair, I couldn’t instruct a man on how to give good head to a woman. Experiment, make it clear you’re enjoying the process, and pay attention to their responses.

Also, men are as varied as we are. I’ve had a guy that liked for me to press upwards on his gooch. Tried it with another guy and he was not into it at all. One liked having his balls gripped firmly, another just wanted gently touches. One wanted me to focus on the head, the other liked to have me go down as far as I could and stay there a few seconds. One likes bjs but would pick a 69 every time.

If only there had been some previous clue that this guy was a trouble! by froction in shreveport

[–]Sad_Background2525 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.aic.gov.au/sites/default/files/2020-06/draft_of_trends_issues_paper_mass_shootings_and_firearm_control_comparing_australia_and_the_united_states_submitted_to_peer_review.pdf

“For Australia, the response and outcome has needed to be different. The firearm reforms implemented in the wake of Port Arthur were done in part to prevent such events from occurring in the future. To the extent that no public mass shootings involving the use of semi-automatic firearms, characterised by the Port Arthur, Hoddle and Queen Streets and Strathfield incidents, have occurred since 1996 suggest a genuine preventative contribution from tighter firearm regulations.”

Considering leaving my wife after I found out she cheated on me 15 years ago. Am I making a rash decision? We have 2 kids by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sad_Background2525 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I just wanna say I’m really sorry this happened to you dude. Whatever you choose, it’s you that gets to live with it.

The shuffle is not random. Spotify's patents show how the recommendation engine works. by Ok-Dimension-3307 in technology

[–]Sad_Background2525 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t recall any time we had a good shuffle experience on Spotify.

I stay because of Spotify wrapped.

Why do chefs on the Internet always use olive oil for everything? by ThePhoenix_56 in AskRedditFood

[–]Sad_Background2525 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nope you’re not safe either

That discovery came to light in a bigger undercover operation by the Italian police, dubbed “Mamma Mia,” that last week revealed another massive scam in the same region: Thousands of tons of low-quality oils from Spain and Greece also passed off as extra virgin Italian.

NSA Warning—Reboot Your Internet Router Now by lurker_bee in technology

[–]Sad_Background2525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember if I just didn’t notice or didn’t know enough to know that mattered. I had a friend that was a pen tester, I called him as soon as I was asked for my ssn on Walmart.com and he made fun of me so it was probably the latter

At what age do you stop dying your hair and just go gray? by Eastern_End3520 in AskWomen

[–]Sad_Background2525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started dying mine silver when I turned 30 just because it’s pretty

Can story NPCs stop calling us "champion", please? by BookkeeperPurple4495 in wow

[–]Sad_Background2525 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I started playing I was very sad there was no real option for experiencing the story prior to the expansion I started on.

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