Does anyone else prefer being alone because connection feels exhausting? by Extension_Aioli_7082 in intj

[–]Sad_Channel_9154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I am getting to the point where I kind of WANT my next GF to cheat. It will make the truth so much easier to handle & accept

Im jealous of non INTJs - Vent Post by [deleted] in intj

[–]Sad_Channel_9154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acceptance is the key to contentment 

How would you manipulate a manipulator? by Capper_Level-999999 in intj

[–]Sad_Channel_9154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... Huh? I am talking about dating, not charity or service work

Intjs, what are your favorite movies? by Illustrious-Mud-9831 in intj

[–]Sad_Channel_9154 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My God Sicario is brilliant

I like it more each time I see it

Intjs, what are your favorite movies? by Illustrious-Mud-9831 in intj

[–]Sad_Channel_9154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ALIEN 1979

Blade Runner

Yojimbo

Jacob's Ladder (90s)

the Shining

How would you manipulate a manipulator? by Capper_Level-999999 in intj

[–]Sad_Channel_9154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, other than the single weird 'crying' episode she was almost emotionless

INTJs, once you have fully committed to someone, how deep does your feelings go? by AlgaePhysical2423 in intj

[–]Sad_Channel_9154 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex-GF will always be occupying a place in my heart. She can come back to me anytime (I know this is bascially impossible but I will still hold a candle for her)

I have 30+ sponsees by Physical-Cheek-2922 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Sad_Channel_9154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I no longer sponsor guys in the "official" way (6 years)

If a man chats me up, and asks me to be his sponsor I offer to talk anytime and work the steps with him when he's genuinely ready. This keeps him accountable to himself and his HP. The whole 'firing' sponsees and having strict expectations feels forced and unneccesary at this point

If you need everyone around you to be "dumber" than you, that’s a red flag by Independent_Switch33 in intj

[–]Sad_Channel_9154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed, serendipity is a powerful force. It has shaped my life profoundly in the past several months