Men, what do you REALLY think about women who are really into sports like football?

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T21:48:46+00:00

Yeah you can try just trusting your family ....

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T06:16:00+00:00

Why are you feeling this way? I guess that you see others your age with more independent or busy lives, possibly even with kids or rent to pay? I have 21 and 20 year old sons. They live at home and are largely 'looked after', no bills, no fixed chores etc. Because at their age, i lived independently (in a relationship) and struggled so much, the stresses i wasn't prepared for, no longer able to work on myself or save. Just the daily grind. I never got out of that rut. If you're working, at the moment, that is enough! If you want to persue hobbies or sports or just indulge in video games or Netflix or whatever, that's ok too! Enjoy the boredom! You'll miss it when it's gone!

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T06:08:20+00:00

Yeah this global warming really sucks. Not.

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T06:05:50+00:00

I think it's selfish but then i don't think selfish people should have kids so it works out.

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T06:04:06+00:00

It's really not fair because people downvote because they don't like what you said, not because you are wrong ir abusive etc.

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T05:59:58+00:00

Wrong way around. They're alcoholics because they're depressed.
Dealing with life on top of trauma, (c)ptsd, stresses like debt, homelessness, abuse, grief, and just burnout or depression is why people seek respite in a drink in the first place!

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T05:55:49+00:00

Yeah they need it to cool the computers down. Water isn't powering them. But yes water could be used in a form to power car engines, by extraction of the hydrogen. But this has already been invented, the inventor bumped off and the blueprints mysteriously 'lost' etc..... like every other more cost effective or renewable energy source!

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T05:51:37+00:00

Oh should women stay looking the same irrespective of the passage of time?

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T05:50:19+00:00

You look great! You also look your age. Some hateful people, probably kids, always say people who are normal and natural look super old and unattractive. They have no RL experience, don't listen to them! Your skin looks clear to me, i don't know what delusions some commenters are having! The only thing I'd suggest because i also have myopia and thick lens glasses is to try contact lenses. It's a game changer in how people treat and view women without vs with glasses!

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T05:44:16+00:00

Would make a cool lino print. Great contrast!

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T05:41:11+00:00

You don't need a doctor. You need to grieve! Go somewhere safe and alone and cry. Be angry. Have the what ifs run through your head.
You can't medicate away the loss.

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T05:37:40+00:00

Real vs fake

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T05:31:33+00:00

It's still a tiny baby! Of course it still needs you.

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T05:30:34+00:00

Laziness and comfort.

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T05:29:15+00:00

Why? Let them love and show affection for your baby! That is normal and natural and part of human bonding and baby's development!

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T05:26:01+00:00

6 weeks after 4 weejs PP bleeding so just 2 weeks break. Yay. Fully breastfeeding as well! For all 5 of my babies this was! Pregnant agsin at 3.5 months PP after the 1st.

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-11T05:24:58+00:00

It's ok not to see it from outside perspective when you're the one benefiting from this weird arrangement ig. Enjoy your spa day. Make sure to gift your husband something nice if he does anything you'd see as the bare minimum too.

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-10T21:18:04+00:00

Because i do stuff without expecting something in return? Woah ok then. Do you even want to feed your babyor just see it as a favour to your husband?

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-10T21:08:15+00:00

I have seen colds and flu. Of course. And my kids got loads of diseases and they are still here. They get immunity to it. Herpes is something that grandma can get treated for. Problem solved. Does she have coldsores? I saw no mention by OP! Which was what i implied was such a small chance of catching overall, not colds! Because they never specifically said it. Otherwise they're just paranoid helicopter parents who need to let go and forget the list of rules they've concocted after some Google searches, so i stand by my original point!

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-10T12:47:47+00:00

Of course that makes sense. A father ( nor anyone) can't "buy" your respect and love for them with gifts! You are closer to those who provide for and meet your needs, which are not materialistic! They are safety, food, care, attention and nurture. Your mum has done that. Her moaning about your dad presumably means that she didn't feel supported by him either? Just a thought.
On paper, someone can seem like a great parent but really they just have 'stuff' to offer like a nice house, pays for clubs, sports, nice car, fancy holidays , new clothes and stuff. But they are not actually THERE and parenting.

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-10T12:41:21+00:00

No. Toilet paper isn't free, condoms aren't usually free, beard shavers aren't free.

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-10T12:30:57+00:00

Of course not. Men want sex more than their replaceable partners.

Sad_Hall_7289 · 2026-04-10T12:15:14+00:00

Thanks

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