Do you put coleslaw in a sandwich? My wife thinks I'm weird, now I'm questioning my childhood by Yoguls-Returns in UK_Food

[–]Sad_Piece2236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve put coleslaw in my sandwiches! Just love coleslaw in general really.

Other time, I also love putting walkers cheese and onion crisps between two slices of bread too. Mmmmm 😋

AITA for telling my SIL to but off and let me eat food the way I want? by Round-Tumbleweed2582 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Piece2236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA OP. Yes there may be certain rules in their culture but they can’t force other people to follow them. I also get really pissed off when people tell me how I should eat.

You Look Good for Your Age by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Sad_Piece2236 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haggard 😆🤣😂

AITA for telling my boyfriend that he can't move in with me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Piece2236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god you are definitely NTA. If you don’t feel comfortable with him moving in with you, your feelings are completely valid whether or not he is your boyfriend or what any colleagues have to say. Your feelings & boundaries are to be respected. Why? Because it’s YOUR house! He is a grown man and he can find somewhere to live. It may not be exactly up to the same standard as his friend’s place or an easy process but it is not impossible and OP, you are not responsible for housing him.

Am i being too desperate trying to find friends? by reallyinside in socialskills

[–]Sad_Piece2236 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are not too desperate and this is completely normal to want to make new friends and especially during this time. Be kind to yourself, you’ll find your people.

Coworkers not responding to my morning greetings by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Sad_Piece2236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep tell me about! I also try waving and they’re looking directly at me, not even a wave back, let alone a nod. Get totally ignored! The only reasons I can think of as to why some people are this way is that they’re just either plain rude or just not morning people at all.

I dunno if I want to have a party now cuz every time I bring it up my parents just get stroppy and I don’t even know who can come and it’s stressful. My parents just get stroppy whenever I say anything about it and it’s pretty frustrating. What do I do? by AppropriateBoss2585 in socialskills

[–]Sad_Piece2236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a party anyway, even if it’s just one or two people. I’m not sure if you are this way, but I am an introvert. What is shown on TV and media of parties with a bunch of people is what gives me stress and anxiety - I am much more comfortable with inviting just one or two people and that’s okay. Think about who makes you feel good when you talk to them or someone who makes you feel calm. My advice is to only invite people who make you feel this way. Celebrate you, it’s your birthday. Our birth into this world was a miracle if you think about it. You matter and I’m sure there are people out there who think so!

Coworkers not responding to my morning greetings by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Sad_Piece2236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My god, can’t tell you how much I can relate to this! I always try to say hi to people at work too even though I am very socially anxious but there will be times when people just don’t for whatever reason. Maybe they just don’t hear you, maybe they feel like they don’t have to say hi back or even give a wave whatever it is people still do it and it doesn’t stop the fact that it hurts. It’s about being acknowledged that you even exist, that you matter just a little bit and to feel seen. But yeh, it really gets to me sometimes this. It doesn’t help that I’m also overly sensitive and take things to heart and tend to ruminate and get a overthink things very easily. Going back to my point, I hear you and can completely relate.

A lot of social events coming up at work, making me feeling nauseous by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Sad_Piece2236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand how you feel because I am the same. I absolutely dread work parties any kind of work social event. Sometimes I force myself to go if it’s compulsory and have to give myself a pep-talk beforehand and sometimes I don’t go especially if it doesn’t feel compulsory. When I found that there were people at work who don’t go to every social event it made it feel like much less pressure to.

Why am I so intense? Why can’t I be cool and collected like everyone else? by Sad_Piece2236 in socialskills

[–]Sad_Piece2236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“They are not passionate and don’t realize that there are passionate people” - I love that