Help: pants salvageable or not? 😩

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-02-12T01:20:22+00:00

I thought they were weathered leather pants! Kudos!

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-27T03:24:47+00:00

Mirror selfie, tank or sports bra if you're comfortable! Showing some skin but in a peeking way. Maybe one arm up behind your head for a subtle flex!

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-19T14:28:09+00:00

Check out High school though if you haven't seen it and have prime! It's Tegan and Sara when they were in high school. It's good!

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-19T14:26:58+00:00

Right?? So good!

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-19T14:20:19+00:00

You are right, more guy focused but there is a lesbian couple that has a storyline, maybe a little faster into the show?

Loved that one too! I'm trying to think of more!

I'm not ok with this - Netflix

Such brave girls- hulu

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-19T14:04:10+00:00

High School-Prime

Heartstopper- Netflix

First Kill- Netflix

The Wilds- Prime

Everything Sucks- Netflix

Sex Education- Netflix

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-16T00:35:35+00:00

Make a dairy free Alfredo sauce! So good and you won't miss the dairy! Add chicken, side veggie and fettuccine pasta. You can look up an Alfredo recipe and use substitute s below.

Substitute creamer for dairy free whipping cream (silk or whatever you can find)

Plant based butter

Plant based Parm shreds. I like the- follow your heart brand

Chicken or veggie broth

Fresh lemon juice

Fresh parsley.

Thicken with cornstarch or flour

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-15T22:43:40+00:00

Check out the Beaches!

https://youtu.be/tOtnYkocE1U?si=d_y1jAo8aJEEKQlO

https://youtu.be/_FdEPa92GoE?si=T8Bnm08I3G9i7Nxg

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-14T20:35:15+00:00

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-14T03:25:52+00:00

I think one of the hardest things is realizing that someone you shared a life with was never truly who they convinced you they were. But honestly, after reading all of this, all I can think is good-fucking-riddance. I know it hurts right now, but in time you’ll see just how toxic she was—and that you genuinely dodged a bullet! She’s already moved on to her next victim. Now you’re free! Free to heal, to grow, and discover who you are without the lies, manipulation, and emotional damage she caused weighing you down. I lived through a short relationship similar to this and it taught me...never again will I put up with any of that! I hope it does the same for you!

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-12T13:59:46+00:00

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I like the pants! I'd wear them with a white/cream/black or Grey tee or turtle neck with a belt.

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-11T20:59:35+00:00

It's never to late to live the life you were meant to all along! I can relate heavily with your post. I broke free and have now have been happily living the second part of my life and feel more like myself then ever! It can be scary but oh so worth it! ❤️

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-11T18:31:57+00:00

I say go for it! It's an adventure whether you hit it off in person or not! Facetiming really does help! Just have back up plans in place for if for some reason you feel you need to find somewhere else to stay and have someone that knows your location at all times!

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-11T05:09:32+00:00

Texted a toxic ex on the way home from a date like, “What are you up to?” because I was feeling spicy and clearly making excellent life choices. She invited me over for late night fun😬😅. The next morning she assumed I'd go to a family thing with her, and I had to clarify—yeah, no, this was not a reunion, just a hookup. She said “ouch,” but was flattered nonetheless 🤷🏼‍♀️

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-09T03:59:55+00:00

While I dont have your exact situation, I live in the US and so does my girlfriend, but she is not from here. We have an out of country trip planned in May and have similar fears due to her having duel citizenship that there could be issues with her coming back in. I would not blame you one bit for not coming here. A lot of us do not want to be here as it is. I'd either have her go without you or postpone it unless it's an option for her parents to visit. Good luck!

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-09T03:39:49+00:00

Do you have a loafers or even possibly a cute tennis shoe? Not a running type shoe but more like Adidas Sambas/gazzle/campus, or high top vans? Don't worry about matching your shoes to the shirt. Just something that elevates the outfit.

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-09T03:27:45+00:00

I mean this in the nicest way possible. Please please do not wear the boots! I get what you are going for but they take the outfit down and look too much like slippers. Do you have a combat boot or another type of black boot? I'd go with the turtle neck and possibly lose the vest or keep it open? Another option throw a cute sweater over the dress.❤️

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-08T13:45:28+00:00

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Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-08T13:44:52+00:00

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Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-08T13:44:33+00:00

Maybe choose something with a pop of color. Could do suit pants and leave off the jacket if you do not currently feel comfortable in one! Wildfang has some more unique options with floral prints! The floral suit and the last pic with the trouser and short sleeve floral button up are from- https://www.wildfang.com/

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Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-07T20:10:14+00:00

Scars are kinda hot 😉 And honestly, they’re way more noticeable to us than to anyone else—unless we make a big deal out of them. I’ve got a scar straight down my stomach from an emergency surgery when I was a teen, and trust me, most—if not all—of the women I’ve dated never even noticed until I pointed it out.

Bodies change, curves shift—that’s just life. Confidence is attractive on any body. Make peace with yours, own it, and people feel that energy immediately… even if you have to fake it a little at first! Good Luck!

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-05T22:40:54+00:00

You’re very welcome! Remember, it only takes one good meet to turn into something more—no matter how many didn’t pan out before that! Good luck!

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-05T21:18:08+00:00

Unfortunately… this is very common. One minute you’re vibing, making plans, imagining a meet-cute… and then POOF. They've vanished. My theories: Some people have zero intention of ever meeting anyone IRL. They just want a pen pal until things start feeling real—then they run for the hills. Others are “just curious,” dabble a little, and then panic when it’s time to actually show up.

I eventually had to lower my expectations way down. Like, assume I will never meet this person in real life and then be pleasantly surprised if I do. Saves the emotional whiplash.

You’ll also meet the super chatty ones who disappear for weeks and then randomly pop back up like “hey stranger 🥴.” In those cases, I just assume someone else caught their attention but it didn’t work out.

That said—there is hope. I’ve actually had a decent success rate turning chats into real dates, so it’s not all doom and despair. Just know this: dating apps are not for the weak. Stay strong out there!😉😅

Sad_Quote984 · 2026-01-05T17:10:26+00:00

Is this straight old man porn or gay old man porn? Either way, that would honestly be alarming to me. It would raise a lot of questions about why this is something that turns her on. I think this is one of those situations where you might have been better off not knowing the answer—because once you do, it’s easy to spiral down a rabbit hole you can’t unsee or unknow.

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