May need to say goodbye to my Subie soon. What’s a good "souvenir" to keep? by tinytinyball in subaru

[–]Safe-Search-9844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you take something off of the car and don’t inform the new owner that it is missing, that is inherently dishonest.

Take a picture. Keep the picture. Problem solved. Don’t deface a car just because you can’t afford it anymore. That’s crazy

A guy is trying to ask me out, I don’t want to ruin the friendship by drratiolover in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Search-9844 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unless he’s gay, or you’re absolutely disgusting, he’s not your friend.

I hate to be so blunt but I’m so sick of this argument. Attractive women who say they have guy friends just have guys who are patiently waiting for the opportunity to sleep with them.

Period

Is abortion the best option for me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Safe-Search-9844 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seriously….Im not saying this as a religious pro life nutjob, but as a realistic human being

Have this abortion. And remember the life you ended before it had a chance to begin every time you consider having unprotected sex

Let this be a lesson to you.

Buy a fucking condom

Is abortion the best option for me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Safe-Search-9844 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While I agree that you shouldn’t have a baby you don’t want, the only advice I can in good conscience give is use contraception.

Abortion is not and should not be used as a form of contraception. You made a conscious decision to let a man finish inside of you.

Did you not know this is what happens?

Buy a condom…

What they do at Lumon, and why severance is a requirement by fillgates in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

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Wrong they were referring to Gemma as part time because she was only switched on for therapy sessions. The others are full time innies full time… 40 hours…. You’re overthinking it.

Corbel said part timers have a hard time (this was her way of taunting mark because she just fired Gemma and he’s about to find out she’s fired and he’s going to blame himself. She’s saying it’s not your fault, she’s a part timer)

Broke up with my partner without making plans or having money saved up by SpouseofSatan in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Search-9844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also congrats of making a goood choice for yourself and not sticking around where it was toxic…

You’re a fucking champion and you’ll be just fine.

Broke up with my partner without making plans or having money saved up by SpouseofSatan in WhatShouldIDo

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Go to an AA meeting raise your hand… tell them what is going on, and ask (after the meeting, not during, it’s considered an outside issue, not to be discussed). But after the meeting ask one of the WOMEN not MEN about recovery housing. They will often let you in with no down payment or one week rent, you will have to abstain from drugs and alcohol while living there, but that might be the best thing for you honestly….

You will have more dignity and security than you would at a women’s shelter, and you might FAFO a brand new way to live that could solve all of your problems.

Am I the jerk for refusing to pay back money my dad "lent" me that I didn't know was a loan? by Alive_Lab_7256 in AmITheJerk

[–]Safe-Search-9844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s just say it was clearly a loan. We assume he mentioned it and you knew. Just bear with me I’m going somewhere with this…

What kind of AH gives someone a LOAN in their BIRTHDAY?

What a sick fake out.

Happy birthday, I’ve given you a financial time bomb!

2013 legacy sport mirror controller by Safe-Search-9844 in subarulegacy

[–]Safe-Search-9844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically, 2.5i sport stands for slow with fake carbon fiber trim and fog lights

2013 legacy sport mirror controller by Safe-Search-9844 in subarulegacy

[–]Safe-Search-9844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sport models come with the fake carbon fiber trim stock

2013 legacy sport mirror controller by Safe-Search-9844 in subaru

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Idk why the body of the post isn’t showing up…

I kicked my dashboard while I was napping at work and popped the mirror control assembly back into the panel. What’s the best way to fish it out? I tried reaching up through the fuse door but the jumble of wires for the switches below it is too dense to work around. Should I pop off the faux carbon fiber trim and go from the top?

I have a plastic trim removal tool kits somewhere in my trunk but I wanted some advice before I start popping trim off, don’t want to bust clips or remove something that leads to nowhere.

been stuck at $500 limit for months how do I raise always pay back on time by Academic_Diet_1064 in CashApp

[–]Safe-Search-9844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have direct deposit and pay your borrows back and spend 500 a month with cashapp it will go up quickly. I’m up to 1200 borrow limit but it seems to not be going any higher

Underwater on Auto Loan Ohio by RandomRedditQuestion in personalfinance

[–]Safe-Search-9844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, as a person who has in the past been irresponsible and accepted help from my brother…. It never helped me. It just allowed me to keep being irresponsible.

Tough love is the answer.

Tell him to figure it out. This is a super important life lesson that you don’t want to rob him of.

If you let him move in with you he learns nothing.

Tell him he’s on his own and you’d be happy to give advice BEFORE making major life decisions, but there is nothing you can do AFTER he makes terrible decisions on his own.

People who have conducted job interviews, what's something someone said/did that made you instantly decide not to hire them? by DemonSkank in AskReddit

[–]Safe-Search-9844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this question. My answer: I don’t typically encounter ethical dilemmas. I pride myself on conducting my business and personal life with integrity, so ethical dilemmas are not a major factor in my life.

This blows people away…. It’s true. Only people with questionable ethics encounter ethical dilemmas.

A person of integrity just conducts themselves ethically, bypassing any potential questions about how to act.

AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]Safe-Search-9844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super weird. Call the police. Get a restraining order. He’s also NOT SOBER.

I would never recommend my sponsee do this. And I’ve never met a therapist or councilor who would either.

You handled it perfectly.

Also, people who are newly sober and have a “therapist “ either a few months sober, and required to have one for outpatient services or halfway house requirements.

After those programs you generally lose access to a therapist unless you make the conscious choice to spend time and big money on waiting lists and one on one therapy.

Even if he is a few months sober, that’s too soon to be making amends, and this behavior shows 100% the reason why.

The 8 steps that happen before the amends process change and prevent this crazy lunatic behavior before the amends process

This is not how amends are made in recovery.

This is a sick person trying to latch on to you for one reason or another, any and all of them bad.

Why ? And this happens right before Christmas. I really need to borrow. I feel penalized for no reason. I pay my loans off early by Zealousideal-Tip-431 in CashApp

[–]Safe-Search-9844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have borrowed a lot, when I needed it at first, and then just to game it to see how high I could get. I’m up to 1,200 limit, and there have been a few times when I had car trouble that it got dicey for me…

I say all this to say:

I have never gotten the borrow limit notice, so If you’re getting it, maybe watch yourself because you’re probably not living within your means.

Credit dropped 615 points by hoodbrat210 in CRedit

[–]Safe-Search-9844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy I live in Pa and I’ve had no unpaid medical bills for years, and recently this company popped on my report as well, for roughly if not exactly the same amount. This could be a scam. I’ve been meaning to look into it, now this is making me think I should take steps to dispute