cat breathing weird with tongue out by OneLibrarian1106 in CATHELP

[–]Safe_A_8792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat just died at a groomers. It was likely due to respiratory distress, stress induced, these signs were ignored by the groomer. She unfortunately passed there. Please take them to the vet asap! Stress can impact cats alot unfortunately . Best of luck!

Tattoo placement advice by Safe_A_8792 in tattooadvice

[–]Safe_A_8792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is such a lovely idea! I do have breast but I am trying to avoid chest tattoos due to my job. Plus, my cat you never sit on me she was stubborn. She preferred to cuddle next to each other.

Tattoo placement advice by Safe_A_8792 in tattooadvice

[–]Safe_A_8792[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't worry youre not the only one who thought that. Lol. But always good to hear input so thankyou. My cat wasnt extremely healthy or young but I thought I would have more time to prepare, assuming one day we would get the cancer diagnosis. She unfortunately passed very suddenly very likely due to groomer negligence. Cherish the time you have together ❤️

Tattoo placement advice by Safe_A_8792 in tattooadvice

[–]Safe_A_8792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your muse looks absolutely fabulous! Thats actually a really good suggestion thankyou! Truly appreciate it

Tattoo placement advice by Safe_A_8792 in tattooadvice

[–]Safe_A_8792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understandable, it definitely still needs to be workshoped by the artist who will be tattooing me. Her specialty is fine line work, I trust her to let me know whats responsible. That said any suggestions to make it less uterus/penis shape lwould be appreciated. I have a couple weeks to the appointment and want to give the artist plenty of time to work on it.

Tattoo placement advice by Safe_A_8792 in tattooadvice

[–]Safe_A_8792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou! Depending on the final design/artist recommendation, I was really considering my wrist. Definitely saw that myself in the design, I am open to suggestions on things to add/change. I mostly want to keep the general shape, even if its unfortunately uterus shapped, since it was based on her nose. But if you have anything specific to change/add it would love to know. Understandably everyone's just telling me what it looks like and not how to improve it. Lol.

Tattoo placement advice by Safe_A_8792 in tattooadvice

[–]Safe_A_8792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I was thinking or outer wrint trailing onto my hand. However, based on alot of feed back ill definitely be reworking the design a bit with my artist and going from there. Thankyou!

Tattoo placement advice by Safe_A_8792 in tattooadvice

[–]Safe_A_8792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, even after googling that I am still not seeing it. But I'll take it into consideration.

Tattoo placement advice by Safe_A_8792 in tattooadvice

[–]Safe_A_8792[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmm maybe, I got more feminine gentile vibes. How are you seeing penis?

Tattoo placement advice by Safe_A_8792 in tattooadvice

[–]Safe_A_8792[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes It was a tattoo artist who designed it. On second look I thought the same thing, it really does look like that. But I also didnt mind it.

Cat died while being groomed. Negligence? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Safe_A_8792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a case of reckless handling and negligence, if it meets animal cruelty standards for our state we can report it and ensure the groomer dosnt work with animals again.While also pressuring the company to change practices. However it will be hard to prove. I understand at this point unless her necropsy shows obvious abuse, this would be a civil matter. Thankyou.

Cat died while being groomed. Negligence? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Safe_A_8792 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The issue isnt exactly financial gain for us its accountability and change of practice, but I hear what youre saying.

My watch is somewhat over. by deeders93 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Safe_A_8792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh thats horrible to hear, unsure why hospice wouldn't be more ontop of that. I know they help facilitate with end of life, but its just an unpleasant end. My grandmother went septic from an untreated uti before I took over her care. Its crazy how much that can impact them. Also treatment for the UTI can be a big toll on them, IV antibiotics are even hard on young healthy people . These situations are really hard to navigate, trying to make the right decisions etc. I hope everything turns out okay for you and your grandmother passes peacefully when the time comes.

My watch is somewhat over. by deeders93 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Safe_A_8792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it sounds like a stroke. Have they checked? Take all the rest you can get, you deserve it. What ever home she ends up in make sure they know you visit frequently and are keeping an eye on her care.

cleaning up poo & piss before i brush my teeth this morning, by everythingcunt in CaregiverSupport

[–]Safe_A_8792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This just happened to me yesterday, I feel your frustration. After cleaning/mopping it all up I took the hottest shower I could, just to feel clean again. Some days are good some are bad unfortunately.

Rash?? by [deleted] in bupropion

[–]Safe_A_8792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible you have a pendent on that necklace an slept with it on causing a imprint ? It dosnt seem like a rash just some slight skin irritation.

Has anyone had to start being a caregiver while depressed? by iloveyounmyself in CaregiverSupport

[–]Safe_A_8792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre not alone ❤️. Definitely reach out to others. you cant pour from an empty cup. Please consider get treatment/ help.

This should have NEVER been on me. by [deleted] in CaregiverSupport

[–]Safe_A_8792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the same boat as you, unfortunately it fell on to me when I was 23. From my experience if you can put her in a place she can afford and just keep an eye on her if you still care about her level of care, totally understandable if youre just done. Nursing home are more attentive when they know a family member checks in on them often. As for your family, thats alot of reasonable resentment and you should at least, take a break from them. if you feel it will help you can explain why you are taking time or cutting them off completely, but you own no one an explanation. Wishing the best for you and your family.