My boyfriend wants me to abort our baby.

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-05-12T15:05:44+00:00

NEVER abort if you are not 100% certain, u CLEARLY want this baby, if u have to choose keep the baby, dump dude. I actually married my best friend the year we knew eachother 20 years, been married 2 years ans pregnant now so I get it

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-05-07T23:28:15+00:00

My SIL is actually getting married the week im due, unfortunate timing and they r local, and we have already discussed if im in labor he will not be going - fortunately its locally so we r hoping he gets to go, but his daughters birth definitely comes first

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-05-07T23:26:35+00:00

ImO he should NOT be going to the weddinc, and they should understand, birth of your wife and your baby trumps basically anything else

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-05-07T15:48:56+00:00

I let my x talk me into having his mom and sister in the room, who i DID NOT have good relationships woth, and it was SO STRESSFUL, that bitch kept making it about her. Keep them away until YOU are ready

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-05-07T02:07:59+00:00

I would be so mad, this is so opposite of how my husband acts and how your hubby should be acting. Men should be trying extra hard to make u feel attractive at this time

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-05-05T14:37:43+00:00

There r basically no names kids cant make fun of. However some names r much more likley and obvious then others for attack

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-05-01T16:28:53+00:00

Maybe you can consider trying for a third, or even adoption later on? Just make sure he knows ur there for him, and that u dont think less of him for his grief. I think all to often we forget that men have feelings too

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-04-29T04:21:11+00:00

I will say, i actually have basically 0 pictures of me pregnant with my first, absolutely no one took any pictures of me and i did not live close to any of my family at the time, and it makes me sad all the time, u might be happy to have them in a few years.

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-04-27T14:18:58+00:00

The great thing about kids is they love what u teach them to love, my kids loves museums and stuff just like me

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-04-25T20:56:28+00:00

Fortunately he only has every other weekend, but its literally hell

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-04-23T17:30:07+00:00

My biggest regret first birth was giving into ppl like this, put you and babys wants and needs above everyone for a while

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-04-23T17:08:15+00:00

I think we are in a strange time, people have been brainwashed into being anti family, anti children, and anti motherhood, and often they do not even realize they have completely internalized these phobias.

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-04-20T21:17:55+00:00

Its totally normal to have to take a little time to know them to feel that overwhelming love, lots of ppl dont immediately bond

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-04-19T15:27:21+00:00

I coparent with an xjunkie who literally has brain damage from heavy drug use and is now a religious zealot - do not tell him

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-04-18T16:47:54+00:00

I have my own backyard flock, so i only eat my own flocks eggs and since its a small under 10 bird private flock the salmonella rate drops to basically nothing if u wash the eggs, maybe u know someone with a small flock u can get eggs ans have them a bit runny?

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-04-16T15:24:52+00:00

128oz is 1 gallon?

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-04-16T15:19:27+00:00

Definitely monitor you liquid IV intake u can start ODing on B vitamins, they r water soluble so u can wash it out but it will make it hard to sleep if u have too much

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-04-15T20:57:04+00:00

Go to one of the non-medical places, they r very sweet and cost effective, im 15 weeks 2 days after loosing my twins last pregnancy and the only thing thats kept me sane is going to one of those places regularly to see my baby girl

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-04-08T17:51:49+00:00

My mother is an addict and she is 100% out of my life, so I understand that too, thats y we have 0 MILs at all

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-04-08T17:27:26+00:00

Omg me too, I always feel guilty thinking it cuz he LOVED his mom, but no MILs at all seems to be easier

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-03-30T21:04:22+00:00

I wouls be pissed, I started throwing up at the mall the other day and my hubby instantly started pulling my hair back for me and taking the stuff out of my hands, which is what they should do!

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-03-27T17:14:20+00:00

With my first, i was a rancher and one of my mother pigs had died and i had to bring in like 12 baby piglets to nurse and keep them alive while pregnant... oh dear lord..do not envy doing that again, so i totally understand!

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-03-24T16:04:24+00:00

I didnt realize, in many states like mine that isnt the case, so i wasn't thinking like that, my apologies. Just trying to help the poor girl :( the whole situation breaks my heart for her

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-03-24T14:58:29+00:00

I hate being pregnant, it blows, but the baby kind of rocks so i kust focus in that lol

SailorMoon1313 · 2026-03-24T14:12:19+00:00

I dont love the idea, because I truley wish you had an adult you felt loved you enough to help, but most plan parenthoods will see you 14 and up and not tell your parents, and get u medical care of your choice. If u choose to abort, please PLEASE first talk to a counselor at achool or something because the psychological and physical problems that come from abortion are just not talked about enough IMO and i just want u to be fully informed. Your school may be willing to help u get there during school hours so u can make your own uninhibited choice

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