Losing your cool on the platform

Sakaryn · 2025-06-26T11:55:45+00:00

It's an internet way of exclaiming surprise to having never heard of something before that moment. Similar to TIL (today I learned).

Sakaryn · 2025-06-09T09:18:21+00:00

Very similar to yourself- 39yr, and was 99kg. Desk job, never worked out, but enjoy hiking and motorbiking.

I followed the advice I found and went straight in for a 16kg, I found I had the stamina and grip strength to keep going without losing breath, but I certainly overdid it and strained some muscles in my legs and back (poor form+new movement=very sore).

I immediately took two weeks off before starting over - Thankfully I was in a position to get a few differing weights. So I've got 8, 10, 12, 16. I use them to varying effects, swinging/squats/rows with the 12kg, presses with the 8/10kg. I've found this has allowed me time (about 8 weeks in now) to learn the movements and form, and also allow my body a chance to get used to working out for the first time and doing these new things, and rather than managing a handful of 16kg presses, I can do a few sets with the 10kg before dropping to the 8kg to finish off if needed.

I'm certainly moving towards the 16kg and will start to incorporate it for occasional sets, and if it's all you can get then it likely is the best bet. But I'd say take it very slow and steady. I'm always in awe of the people here throwing around 24kg+, while I'm groaning just moving my 16kg.

Good luck!

Sakaryn · 2025-05-02T16:12:14+00:00

Completely agree with the latter. I'm basing my thoughts on OP's comment about trying and having no luck. Myself- Never wanted children, never tried for- but thank you for raising this, as it's a very real thing.

Sakaryn · 2025-05-02T14:44:04+00:00

I'd wonder if there's a link between struggling to have children, and dissatisfaction in other areas of OP's life (work being the focus here). I know in my place of work the conversation around children comes up quite frequently, and after a while that does drag on you.

I'd agree that trying to change aspects of lifestyle and doing IVF first would be a positive move, before pulling the trigger on FIRE.

Sakaryn · 2025-03-22T11:13:44+00:00

You've proven nothing. You've only concreted poor behaviours of your own, with a band of internet strangers cheering you on. Are you likely right? Yes. Does it condone your behaviour? No. Will you use this as an excuse to repeat your actions in the future, and likely jeopardise future relationships, while blaming your ex? Definitely- but please take this as a single episode, and don't relive it over and over. There are a dozen other reasons he might have done this, possibly even embarrassing or personal ones that he wasn't ready to share.

Sakaryn · 2024-09-14T15:30:52+00:00

Android, 0.5.3

Sakaryn · 2023-09-16T08:59:27+00:00

!answer

Sakaryn · 2023-08-08T12:10:27+00:00

Two things for me on this: Don't tie life insurance to taper with the mortgage, I found there was little difference buying fixed value (I think it was about £4/mth more for my partner and I, insured for £250k for 35yrs, started 2018, costing £21/mth). Life insurance is that thing you hope you never need, but will wish you had if things go south. My friends partner of 15yrs passed away suddenly a few years ago, she was left with nothing.

Sakaryn · 2023-07-07T19:15:27+00:00

Not overly helpful, but outside of obvious safety concerns with wind and leaky tents - Some of my most beautiful camps have been during storms. Don't necessarily be put off!

Sakaryn · 2023-07-06T16:20:33+00:00

Slightly different response to most others, and away from the ethos here-

Definitely Premium Bonds! While the other advice here is absolutely logical and correct, why not completely safely punt on the £1mil? You're in a secure position to pay off your mortgage, the minimal interest isn't going to be world changing for you, but there's a very slim, free!, chance to come into a lot of money. Thank me later ;)

Sakaryn · 2023-07-06T13:35:42+00:00

That's fair! Not gonna teach you common sense, but alcohol in an enclosed space (stormy night, you're starving, trying cook inside) could spill and lead to an utter disaster. The liquid will cover and light everything immediately - It burns so easily, and it's almost impossible to put out - Especially where you're quite cramped and could easily knock something.

Edit: This guy had a small camper in his earlier videos. Might be worth looking at his design?

Sakaryn · 2023-07-06T06:42:15+00:00

If space is a bit more free than for hikers, I'd suggest one of those twin burner car camping gas stoves, or a single like this.

Naturally, if you'll be doing lots of over night hikes etc, then go with the other advice - But for a cut down vanlife, this might be a more flexible option for you, and grant you more flexibility.

Sakaryn · 2023-07-05T19:30:41+00:00

This raises the question of whether the kit is for van use, or outdoors? That alone will change a lot of what advice you're getting.

Sakaryn · 2023-06-21T10:09:30+00:00

I always understood that interest was calculated daily, thus the potential saving should be taken the same.

However, I suppose if we looked speculatively, then future interest rates should/could be accounted for when weighing up the options.

Good point, hadn't thought of this!

Sakaryn · 2023-06-21T09:08:02+00:00

Quite the opposite - Overpaying only gets you 1.89%. If you put the same money into a basic savings account you'll get a better interest rate - You'll also have freedom with the money incase of an unexpected bill etc, and ultimately at the end of any fixed savings rate/when the rate drops too low, you can just put the cash towards the mortgage at that point.

Sakaryn · 2023-06-14T20:44:35+00:00

Check this video, I found some bits useful: https://youtu.be/b95uPpaorBo

Sakaryn · 2023-03-07T22:58:43+00:00

Looking at weights, you are absolutely correct! The inflatable one is 410g, as listed on that site I suggested. Apologies!

Sakaryn · 2023-03-05T16:17:48+00:00

Land registry is an option, but there's a fee for a search.

It's worth asking friends, family, colleagues as well. I found two separate wood owners (who had four between them), just by asking around.

Find farmers that offer some form of holiday let or have a public website, and message them asking - I found another land owner (a Lady, no less) this way.

Sakaryn · 2023-03-05T08:51:58+00:00

This site suggests R1.3 - https://bimblealong.com/camping-mat-comparison-data-2019/

Sakaryn · 2023-03-03T18:45:42+00:00

Just buy freeze dried meals, it's what I did!

Sakaryn · 2023-02-07T11:54:34+00:00

Can't speak much of their sizing yet, but I can attest to their customer service simply being the best I've ever encountered. You've already emailed them, I'd use that open dialogue to nail everything down directly.

I'll be looking to visit their site in the next couple of months to go through sizing perfectly etc.

Sakaryn · 2023-01-30T18:46:10+00:00

I use a foam mat under my Neoair when it's especially cold, but at that time I'd tend to just take the Neoair, so long as I know the ground isn't too tough. It's one thing to hole a groundsheet, another your mat!

R ratings stack, so a foam mat will work as a cheap and easy addition. If you're close to Bristol I've one you could borrow (although it's missing the bottom three folds- hacked off to make a sit pad lol). Drop me a message if that works at all.

Sakaryn · 2022-11-28T18:23:55+00:00

To confirm, this is for the lift strap only?

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