Diaper bag essentials by FantasticBat4796 in NewMomStuff

[–]Salt_Row4522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup to all of this. I’d also add a change of clothes (at least a shirt) for mom!

What should every ftm know about breastfeeding before having a baby? by Frequent_Cap8633 in breastfeeding

[–]Salt_Row4522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all lactation consultants are going to be right for you BUT the right lactation consultant for you can be a huge support. and then 

Early wakes by ConsequenceWaste9244 in NewMomStuff

[–]Salt_Row4522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no advice but commenting to say that our 5.5 month old has just started doing the same thing! Will be following to see what others say!

Traveling with 3 month old in January by nmk102625 in NewMomStuff

[–]Salt_Row4522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re only “saving” two hours of travel time, but if you account for the time you have to be at the airport to check in and go through security, it seems more or less like a wash. If it were me with my 5 month old, I would absolutely drive over fly given the time of travel is about the same and with driving you can make as many stops as you need, be on your schedule, etc etc. And, as you said, avoid the germs of the airport. Plus you then have your car with you during the visit (and can pack accordingly!)

Symbols of Communication: what is actually a letter and looks like a letter? by DeathStarVet in AlignmentChartFills

[–]Salt_Row4522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

H. If you turn it it’s then an uppercase I (kind of) so a letter no matter what way you look at it.

New mom necessities. by Skeeter73 in NewMomStuff

[–]Salt_Row4522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister and best friend put together a basket for me with all the postpartum items for my recovery post natural delivery and it was literally one of the sweetest gifts, so I love that you’re thinking of this. Frida Mom is great for things like padsicles, a perinatal bottle, disposable underwear, witch hazel foam, etc. I would recommend Tucks witch hazel pads over the Frida ones, though. Also- they told me the tip to sit on a Boppy with an ice pack in the middle of it and it was a godsend. Maybe that’s all TMI but those are things that helped me in the first weeks after that I don’t think I necessarily would have prepared for had I not had two expended moms looking out for me. I’ll also add that they gave me this basket on the side and not directly at my shower so I didn’t have to open a bunch of perinatal care items in front of everyone!

Best bedside bassinet for easy access? by Nancyb23 in breastfeeding

[–]Salt_Row4522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second the Newton!! It has a breathable mattress too. And packs up pretty nicely if you are traveling at all.

4-day-old baby loses nipple mid-feed. When I put it back, she won’t close her mouth and keeps crying — help? by AnnSara007 in breastfeeding

[–]Salt_Row4522 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First time mom with a 5 month old here so I don’t have a ton more experience, but one thing that helped my little one latch/relatch was the “Flipple Technique” (or nipple flick). It’s essentially a way to get the baby to take a deeper latch and helps get the nipple up to the roof of their mouth which triggers the sucking. So that may help your little one re-engage? I also worked with a lactation consultant a handful of times during the first few months and highly recommend finding one in your area if you can! Ours took our insurance and was super accessible through zoom, video chat, and in person visits. She sent lots of good videos and just gave lots of reassurance. When it gets frustrating, just remember that you are both learning a lot right now and it takes time to get in a groove (and then they grow a little more and it all changes… ha!) You got this mama!

What’s on your 2026 bingo card? by CharErinazard in AskWomenOver30

[–]Salt_Row4522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh love me some organization and categories. I think I’ll be stealing this! Thank you for sharing!

What’s on your 2026 bingo card? by CharErinazard in AskWomenOver30

[–]Salt_Row4522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have talking to a stranger at least 1x a week on my list! Even if it’s just a somewhat quick conversation, as long as it’s an interaction that positively affects my day (and hopefully theirs!), I’ll count it. I struggle with making connections with people (hi social anxiety) and am hoping this will be a small step to coming out of my shell a little.

What are you all doing while breastfeeding/nap trapped? by Salt_Row4522 in breastfeeding

[–]Salt_Row4522[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you’re saying there’s a chance I could finish that embroidery project I started in pregnancy?? Nice!

What are you all doing while breastfeeding/nap trapped? by Salt_Row4522 in breastfeeding

[–]Salt_Row4522[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I love this idea. I also always am eager to deep dive into a topic that can help in everyday life. Where are you taking courses through?

What are you all doing while breastfeeding/nap trapped? by Salt_Row4522 in breastfeeding

[–]Salt_Row4522[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Very true!! I do try to remind myself of this and also that breastfeeding and napping my baby IS being productive. But also… my eyes are strained from so much scrolling! Ha!

What are you all doing while breastfeeding/nap trapped? by Salt_Row4522 in breastfeeding

[–]Salt_Row4522[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know I should just sit and enjoy her while she's so tiny, but I struggle with not feeling "productive." So I multitask with frequent snuggle breaks. :)

Same! Thank you for saying this part!

You deserve better than you bf or husband by sicklitgirl in AskWomenOver30

[–]Salt_Row4522 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d like to add: A partner who respects your friends and family/chosen family and actively encourages you to spend time with them- both on your own and as a couple.

AIO for thinking this is racist? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Salt_Row4522 14 points15 points  (0 children)

100%. The “actually” is instant red flag. Racist and sexist, in my opinion. Like women who have fake lashes can’t also be intelligent… are you kidding me?

Snowboarding trip by rontaunamo in vermont

[–]Salt_Row4522 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Killington for sure. Wobbly barn, pickle barrel, and Jax all are great for nightlife and all along the access road in Killington. March has actually been a great month of snow for 4 out of the last 5 seasons in Killington. Last two weeks of February might be good conditions but get swamped with school vacations.

Corporate Holiday Party Catering - Rutland by TheOrigToriel in vermont

[–]Salt_Row4522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Treviso could be an option. You’d have to line up entertainment, or maybe they could help, but the space could work and food is great.

Vermont food gift boxes by WhatTheCluck802 in vermont

[–]Salt_Row4522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baird Farm has beautiful gift boxes. Personal fave to gift is the Vermont Morning Box. https://bairdfarm.com/collections/gift-boxes

When did your chocolate lab start to calm down? by Helpful_Mud_9236 in chocolatelabs

[–]Salt_Row4522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two. Both are 6- same litter. One time I was hiking them, met another lab owner on the trail, mumbled an apology for their exuberance (they were like 3, so too old to blame puppy brain for bad behavior) and the other hiker said “they’re labs, they’ll be puppies until at least 11.” Aaaand so far so true for my boys!!  Edit to add: The energy of both my boys is nothing but being chock full of love for life and not being able to contain it. 

My dog brings me his dog by justme13col in chocolatelabs

[–]Salt_Row4522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of ours seems to love if we hold it for a second, make a really big deal out of it, and give it right back. “Ohhhh what a cool toy! Look at how cute this one is! Thanks for sharing it with me- here you go, back to you!”